a kiss isn't sexual assault


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It is if it's unwanted. Of course it is, jesus.

can you imagine how it would have gone down if prince william had grabbed his crotch while celebrating an england womens win :joker:

I bet if David Beckham did it to the women's team no one would kick off about it

that's not what Mr Rubiales did


stop making things up



it was just a kiss

He did grab his crotch.....

And then kiss one of the players on the lips :joker:

Basically, 99.9% of these officials wouldn't dream of kissing a male player on the lips, so why he thought he could do it to one of the women is beyond me. We all know it was wrong of him, but also how stupid can a man get? Like, what on earth was he thinking? It's baffling.

People complained when David Beckham kissed his own daughter on the lips so....

You changed your opinion drastically from the start of the thread LT :laugh:

Ahh the old "it diminishes what real sexual assault is!" trope.

"80mph isn't speeding, officer, I've seen people doing over 100mph so..."

"It was just one slap in the fact, not a REAL assault, some people end up in hospital!"

Or of course the recent "he only nonced one measly 17 year old your honour stop over reacting" from the Andrew thread.

Or the classic; "Hungry? You're not hungry! There's starving children in 3rd world countries!"


tl;dr she's wrong that because there are obviously worse examples of sexual assault, that this is not a form of sexual assault. Where do you end that impossible standard? You're always going to be able to think of a worse form of assault. You can call something what it is and still acknowledge levels of severity. I don't think anyone has called for him to go to prison. He absolutely should lose his position.

He watched some Right Wing Commentators talking about it and found out he had been accidentally woke :worry:. Thankfully, the tribe had not moved on too far yet, he could still hear their drums on the wind and quickly scurried back in line.

I have not expressed much of an opinion i am just giving the thread examples of different narratives other than the mainstrean

You did say that if it had been David Beckham who kissed that girl that no one would complain.You also stated that most of these women are probably lesbian so why would it matter how good looking the man was for a start and secondly I don't think Luis Rubiales is unattractive either (although he comes across as a bit of a perv with his crotch grabbing on top of the kiss)

I think the fact the player has said she wasn't comfortable with it should be the main focus here. Also, his handling of it has been ridiculous. Had he said something like "look, i was over excited, i got wrapped up in the moment, it was a very foolish to do, i've let the team down and i apologise to Hermoso for my actions" etc then people might have a little more sympathy for him. That he doesn't know it was completely wrong of him to do is also a concern.

If you know any thing about Spanish football, you would know how passionate and how fierce they are when it comes to football

I believe he just got caught up in the moment

And you double kiss on each cheek when meeting people so again kissing is not seen a strange thing to do.

:joker: :joker: Brett Cooper! :skull: :skull: :skull:

it's escalated into much more than a kiss. Old scores are being settled, there is corruption at the heart of it. Obviously those in power will not give all that up without a fight

I'm pretty sure the player is also Spanish, and is a footballer, and she appears to disagree that this was "acceptable Spanish football passion" :think:

You don't get "caught up in the moment" and overstep into someone's personal space without a clear underlying disregard for that space in the first place. Is that all it takes to excuse a mindset of entitlement? A slip of concentration? Even if you're right, the message has to be delivered as swiftly and decisively as possible that over-stepping like this will land you in hot water.

I think you'll find that, miraculously, once the line is clear far fewer men get "caught up in the moment". Funny, that.

100% agree.

His reaction is the main red flag to me and shows he is either not used to being called out or sees no wrong in his actions even when he knows he has made someone very uncomfortable.

I don't care how fierce or passionate someone is about anything, if your actions make someone else uncomfortable, no matter how innocuous you perceive it, you acknowledge their feelings and apologise.

Brett is an excellent commentator :nono:

IMO it's likely not the first time, likely not the only member of the team he's made feel uncomfortable, likely has been talked about amongst them in the past with a feeling that there's not a lot that could be done about it because of his position and influence.

But he got "caught up in the moment" and behaved the same with the eyes of the world on him - wups - which gave her the opportunity to say "yeah actually this isn't OK" with a lessened risk of persecution.

She doesn't offer a non-mainstream narrative, unless you think Ben Shapiro and Joe Rogan are also non-mainstream.

Maybe you meant an alternative narrative. Or alt-bait, anyway.

The video of them in the dressing room shrieking and laughing at the social media comments shouting a giggling as they asked "did he use tongues?" is not a great look..

tell me LT, would you grab your crotch in celebration knowing that millions of people were watching?

Ah the Perfect Victim fallacy now.

Maybe she shouldn't have been wearing those skimpy football shorts :nono:

(Perfect Victim fallacy is a well known trope in situations like this, i.e. if the victim isn't behaving "the way a victim is s'pposed to" behave then their victimhood is lessened or negated, and the perpetrator's actions excused in hindsight).

Grabbing one's dick to celebrate one's country's women's team winning the world cup is a Freudian goldmine.

rather than get the old lad out and do the windmill?

Sorry don’t agree with you

I will add having had a Spanish partner for six years a massive Real Madrid fan and standing in the stands in Spain

People on here won’t be able to understand what it’s like to be a Spanish football supporter

Apparently 65% to 70% of them may not necessarily appreciate his advances

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I don't need to understand what it's like to be a male Spanish football supporter in order to understand that this female Spanish football player didn't want to be kissed by this bloke and was uncomfortable with it. But maybe you know better than her as well?

Maybe none of these weepy lady victims can understand what it's like to be the passioante men who assault them, eh Sheriff. A failing on their part, really.

That’s all very plausible had he not have a long , long history of this type of thing


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If that report is accurate ( link ?) then they may be just teasing her to lighten the situation or lift her spirits with some humour


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Indeed, like I said it's the mytho of the perfect victim and how people are supposed to behave. Just because she didn't want it, and was uncomfortable with it, doesn't mean she was traumatised by it. It also doesn't change the facts.

Sadly, for example, there are people out there who are so used to being abused and assaulted that they think nothing of it when it happens. And because they don't seem horrendously upset or shaken by it, the assumption is that "it can't actually have happened because they'd be more upset if it did".

How can any Spanish court look at this, it happened in Australia, outside their jurisdiction and I do not hear or read of the Australian authorities bothering with this?

Fuss about nothing, possibly by a floozey seeking a grubby gold digging payday, whilst their friends eyes light up with pound or dollar signs and like others elsewhere jump up and down and say "Me too, Me too, I want a pay day please, Me too" :bored:

I don’t trust any man such as yourself that demonise other men who have a different opinion to you

Your not a woman, your man that wants to been seen as this upstanding decent person who cares so very much for the safety of women

Your crap don’t wash with me.

In other news, police are still searching for this dude who was caught on CCTV in Fuengirola about 6 years ago.

Stay vigilant out there, people.