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lostalex 04-09-2010 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3758054)
This thread should have been closed riddled with transphobia

So i guess because yur mind is closed, you think this thread should be aswell. :freak:

lostalex 04-09-2010 08:22 PM

actually we had a pretty good conversation in here, thank goodness you were sleeping. i bet you'd be clicking yur "report" button like an old lady that slipped in the toilet.

Jamietwo 04-09-2010 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by 30stone (Post 3757365)
I would say no, even if i didnt know she used to be a bloke, just based on the fact she is horrible looking.

would you do naked squats over my face for 10,000 for example

keithafc 04-09-2010 10:10 PM

I wish people would stop thinking of Nadia as a female. He is NOT a female. He acts like a male, a lot of his body language is that of a male. You would not need to be told he has surgery to work it out.

He is a male, just looks like a female. I hope this does not upset anyone but lets get a grasp of reality. Biologically, he is a male.

Mr XcX 04-09-2010 10:16 PM

This OP is asking an Intelligent and interesting question. Would straight men date Nadia????

I think the only "goodlooking" men that would date Nadia would be good diggers!!

SoBig 05-09-2010 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by keithafc (Post 3758602)
I wish people would stop thinking of Nadia as a female. He is NOT a female. He acts like a male, a lot of his body language is that of a male. You would not need to be told he has surgery to work it out.

He is a male, just looks like a female. I hope this does not upset anyone but lets get a grasp of reality. Biologically, he is a male.

Who cares if they get upset. What you said is 100% truth.

Bigbrofan25 05-09-2010 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3759171)
Who cares if they get upset. What you said is 100% truth.

And you wouldn`t care if some biggot called a black person the N word then

Legally nadia is a woman by law she was born a man yes but is now a woman deal with it

Sammi_Who 05-09-2010 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3756576)
That the vast majority, like 99% of heterosexual men would never EVER touch Nadia?

Why do we act like we live in such an accepting society, when we all know this is the truth?

Do you call all men who wouldn't be attracted to Nadia BECAUSE she's a post-op ******, does that make them "transphobic?"

Why do we pretend that str8 men would ever be attracted to that?

I think alot of people on this website, are being Idealistic and Naive.

It's easy for str8 women and gay men to be tolerant of people like Nadia, but do we honestly think that Nadia is attractive to true heterosexual men?

And, is it WRONG for heterosexual men to not be attracted to her? I don't think it is.

I dont know wether or not i feel comfortable even saying this, because i have nothing against transexuals at all. But if someone is unaccepting of Nadia's past, then i dont think it makes that "transphobic" at all. Its a silly notion, but i have heard that view! :shocked: Heterosexual men that hold the above view probably get slammed with the "ignorance" tag. And tbh i dont think its fair. If someone doesnt find her attractive, they dont find her attractive. Chances are if Nadia or other transexuals in general are with someone, they should open up about it and be honest straight away. Some dont as its reported and thats when the problems start. I think its a grey area. Some heterosexual men may not care, but if it bothers someone it bothers someone!

StGeorge 05-09-2010 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3759311)
Legally nadia is a woman by law she was born a man yes but is now a woman deal with it

Daft Laws

Here is a list of the UK's top 10 most ridiculous British laws :

1. It is illegal to die in the Houses of Parliament

2. It is an act of treason to place a postage stamp bearing the British king or queen's image upside-down

3. It is illegal for a woman to be topless in Liverpool except as a clerk in a tropical fish store

4. Eating mince pies on Christmas Day is banned

5. If someone knocks on your door in Scotland and requires the use of your toilet, you are required to let them enter

6. In the UK a pregnant woman can legally relieve herself anywhere she wants, including in a policeman's helmet

7. The head of any dead whale found on the British coast automatically becomes the property of the King, and the tail of the Queen

8. It is illegal not to tell the tax man anything you do not want him to know, but legal not to tell him information you do not mind him knowing

9. It is illegal to enter the Houses of Parliament wearing a suit of armour

10. It is legal to murder a Scotsman within the ancient city walls of York, but only if he is carrying a bow and arrow



To some..many Laws are daft....deal with it. :devil:

Jamietwo 05-09-2010 08:43 AM

it's a big deal though having your cock cut off ....that's like more than getting a tattoo done.

SoBig 05-09-2010 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3759311)
And you wouldn`t care if some biggot called a black person the N word then

I'm not even going to bother touching that.

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Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3759311)
Legally nadia is a woman by law she was born a man yes but is now a woman deal with it

Nadia's biological make up is that of a man. Nothing will ever change that. NOTHING. No amount of plastic surgery. Nothing.

If Nadia is a a woman, why can't she have children? why doesn't she get monthly periods? Why doesn't she have a womb?

MrWong 05-09-2010 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3759677)
I'm not even going to bother touching that.


Nadia's biological make up is that of a man. Nothing will ever change that. NOTHING. No amount of plastic surgery. Nothing.

If Nadia is a a woman, why can't she have children? why doesn't she get monthly periods? Why doesn't she have a womb?

That's such a feeble argument. :nono:

Lots of women can't have children and don't have monthly periods. Are they not women now? How about women going through the menopause, are they no longer women because they stop having periods?

Being classed as a woman doesn't solely depend on whether they bleed once a month.

Nadia was born into the wrong body, it happens.

Some of this thread reads like a caveman convention. :sleep:

Livia 05-09-2010 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3759311)
And you wouldn`t care if some biggot called a black person the N word then

Legally nadia is a woman by law she was born a man yes but is now a woman deal with it

The first sentence of your post is ridiculous...

Nadia is not a woman. Nadia is a male to female transsexual. Nadia knows what she is, we know what she is... I don't have a problem with Nadia's lifestyle choice, it's up to her. But it's daft to insist she's a woman when she will never be rid of that Y chromosome.

Livia 05-09-2010 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by MrWong (Post 3759688)
That's such a feeble argument. :nono:

Lots of women can't have children and don't have monthly periods. Are they not women now? How about women going through the menopause, are they no longer women because they stop having periods?

Being classed as a woman doesn't solely depend on whether they bleed once a month.

No you're right. Being a woman doesn't depend on menstruation. It depends on whether you have XX chromosomes like females do, or XY cromosomes like men - and Nadia - have.

We can accept Nadia as she is, which I do. But you can't insist that people imagine she's a woman, because she's not. She is a transsexual.

Shiner 05-09-2010 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3756604)
I'm a straight male and I'm attracted to FEMALES. Not men that had surgery to make their appearance to look like that of a female.

How do you know? If the physical appearance is the same (presuming an androgynous type and not a brickie in stilettos) then is it chromosomes you don't fancy or what?

Shiner 05-09-2010 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 3756680)
Nadia's not jewish. i'm just saying, nadia' is repulsive in many ways that have nothing to do with her hormone pills and plastic surgery, but we get called transhobic for pointing thoe things out...

Vanessa Feltz is a minority for being jewish obviously, but if we point out the same things about vanessa, her manly figure and sergeries, no one would presume we are attacking her just because of her minority status.

Like most of your others in this thread, an excellent post.
BB has become a very superficial show which attracts a certain following (intelegent HMs are automatically branded as boring) your question requires a level of reflection which may a little complex for some. Nice try though.

Shiner 05-09-2010 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by SoBig (Post 3759677)
I'm not even going to bother touching that.


Nadia's biological make up is that of a man. Nothing will ever change that. NOTHING. No amount of plastic surgery. Nothing.

If Nadia is a a woman, why can't she have children? why doesn't she get monthly periods? Why doesn't she have a womb?

Yikes!

Shiner 05-09-2010 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3758054)
This thread should have been closed riddled with transphobia

Oh the irony.

Shiner 05-09-2010 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 3759788)
The first sentence of your post is ridiculous...

Nadia is not a woman. Nadia is a male to female transsexual. Nadia knows what she is, we know what she is... I don't have a problem with Nadia's lifestyle choice, it's up to her. But it's daft to insist she's a woman when she will never be rid of that Y chromosome.

I don't know Nadia's story but I'd question whether or not it is just a "lifestyle choice".

Livia 05-09-2010 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Shiner (Post 3759811)
I don't know Nadia's story but I'd question whether or not it is just a "lifestyle choice".

I don't know Nadia's story either, but somewhere along the line she made the choice to change her sex. It can't have been an easy choice and I don't have a problem with how she chooses to live her life. That's what I meant, as you probably know.

Shiner 05-09-2010 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 3759873)
I don't know Nadia's story either, but somewhere along the line she made the choice to change her sex. It can't have been an easy choice and I don't have a problem with how she chooses to live her life. That's what I meant, as you probably know.

I dare say that the "choice" was made before she was even born when sadly something went wrong in the code during development and her physical self and her mental self took different gender paths. Her choice (if you can call it that) was to try and redress the balance. I doubt she's done it for the lifestyle, but you never know.

Livia 05-09-2010 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Shiner (Post 3760125)
I dare say that the "choice" was made before she was even born when sadly something went wrong in the code during development and her physical self and her mental self took different gender paths. Her choice (if you can call it that) was to try and redress the balance. I doubt she's done it for the lifestyle, but you never know.

I think that we really think alike about it but that semantics are making it look like we differ more than we do. The "choice" to which I refer is the choice of whether to have the surgery or not and therefore follow a lifestyle based on living as a female. That choice was not made before she was born, she made it because something was obviously not aligned in what you call the "gender code", and I agree. I'm not putting her down. All I'm saying is that she can never be a complete woman, but that I support the decision she made. I doubt anyone would make that choice lightly, and the lifestyle she has must be a difficult one at times.

Shiner 05-09-2010 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 3760215)
I think that we really think alike about it but that semantics are making it look like we differ more than we do. The "choice" to which I refer is the choice of whether to have the surgery or not and therefore follow a lifestyle based on living as a female. That choice was not made before she was born, she made it because something was obviously not aligned in what you call the "gender code", and I agree. I'm not putting her down. All I'm saying is that she can never be a complete woman, but that I support the decision she made. I doubt anyone would make that choice lightly, and the lifestyle she has must be a difficult one at times.

:thumbs: :hug:


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