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What exactly can't anyone understand? Please enlighten me, I'm dying to know.
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Imo the father and mother wouldn't be going through the same thing...that's the thing about grief..it's personal..it can't be shared..and everyone's grief is their own..only theirs. They would both grieve for the same reason but it wouldn't be the same grief...and neither of them may have been able to help the other..the death of a child isn't something that a couple can 'share'...like the birth of a child.
..his 15 year old son committed suicide too..it's interesting that only the father is being discussed |
I just think it's very difficult to make judgement either way considering none of us actually know these people and the details of their lives.
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now you know why i got out so early. :P this is the kinda sheet that gets me banned every time. Say your peace, every word, and then don't look back. That's what i do. some topics with some people you know you cannot argue with. It sounds horrible but it's true, some people are literally just dumb. Some topics are obviously witch hunts, some topics are obviously genocide. You have to recognize them right away. Just post a big old lecture and get the F OUT. it's the only way. |
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Don't think it's fair to call him dumb lostalex. It's just two extremely different perspectives on a situation.
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Tragic case for all involved :(
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No ones digging a except for his distraught wife for her dead husband:idc:
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oh jesus christ glenn...
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I just can't quite believe I'm being ridiculed because I don't condone suicide.
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It's academic - I doubt whether anyone in such terrible pain would give a stuff about whether you or anyone else condones their actions or not. As for his wife, if her life is so precious to her, she will be able to carry on. We all of us deal with our grief differently. I have had many occasions in my life when I would have gladly ended it all, but I could not bring myself to do it. But that's MY choice, and I certainly wouldn't feel the need to run my decisions about my own body and my own life past anyone, ever. If there's one thing of which I am certain, it is that I, and I alone, own my body, mind and soul. |
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just watch the youtube clips i posted, it's hilarious watching howard ridicule the canadians on his first day in the canadian market.
can't we all just get along and ridicule canadians? |
What's it got to do with suicide :conf2:
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Lostalex trying to diffuse the tension in a thread? Have you been taking classes? :hugesmile:
And, uh, I like Canadians. :blush: |
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...you could do that...if you were able to channel your grief...if you were able to focus on another aspect...people always say 'take your mind off' ..'keep busy' ..... ...but you have to be able to do that. You have to know how to do that...you have to be able to be able to find a reason..a cause..something you feel strongly enough about to be able to channel your emotions into...at a time when you have very little strength to put one foor in front of the other... ...you could argue, that if he hadn't of committed suicide...maybe in a month...6 months...a year....things may have seemed different to him...he may have found a channel... ...but this was the cards he was dealt...this was the reality of his life...this was the despair he felt...there was no 'future' for him...there was only a 'now'...and he obviously felt that was the only channel he had |
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