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I didnt call you those things I said playing numb....also to condone this type of bullying is nauseating and fickle...I feel I have the right to say this in self defence against the bullying and discrimination which you endorse and support

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Originally Posted by MatthewS (Post 5240290)

I've said multiple times already that I don't personally condone the behavior at hand, did you miss all those posts? However, I also stated why I don't consider this particular stuation to be bullying.

BULLYING DEFINITION:
Bullying is a form of aggressive behavior manifested by the use of force or coercion to affect others, particularly when the behavior is habitual and involves an imbalance of power. It can include verbal harassment, physical assault or coercion.

By definition, what happened is NOT bullying. It may be considered rude/mean/catty/etc, but it's certainly not bullying.

I'm am not playing dumb, I just don't consider the comments made to be sexist. Sexism is quite condemnable behavior obviously, but for this particular situation to be considered sexist, Shiv & Ashleigh would have had to make those comments BECAUSE Adam is a male. That's what Sexism is. A Prejudice based on someones sex. They made the comments because he looked funny, it had nothing to do with him being a male. You're upset that sexism exists, as you should be. The comments made however, were not sexist.

I don't get why you're harping on me for these views. I feel like I've explained myself quite concisely, and provided enough educated reason as to why I see things this way.

If you think I'm wrong, fair enough, but let's just agree to disagree then, no need to continue this bickering.

Also, I've never said anything negative to you, just stated my opinion on the situation at hand. You then called me "dumb", and stated that you find my views "nauseating" & "fickle". By your definition, you just bullied me. :laugh:

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Originally Posted by MatthewS (Post 5240614)

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you condone bigotry shame on you...

If by bigotry you mean correctly understanding definitions, then consider me guilty as charged :wink:

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Originally Posted by MatthewS (Post 5242147)

If by bigotry you mean correctly understanding definitions, then consider me guilty as charged :wink:

:crazy:You're vapid reply is incorrect and disingenous as always:crazy: You think its fine for people to point at and laugh at peoples bodies , their physical features and weight issues, no doubt you think the same of the disabled too as others seem to do on this thread. Shame on you!

You are guilty of actively supporting this bigotry and failing to denounce it as the bigotry it is. By supporting and condoning bigotry therefore by definition you are a bigot.

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Originally Posted by MatthewS (Post 5242165)

You need a big hug.

:crazy: silence bigot!

You haven't really had a hug until you've had one from a bigoted hater of the disabled who properly grasps definitions of simple terminology.

:hug:

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Originally Posted by MatthewS (Post 5242177)

You haven't really had a hug until you've had one from a bigoted hater of the disabled who properly grasps definitions of simple terminology.

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hide behind your perverted interpretations all you like, you support bigotry, you are a bigot...Sleep well bigot!

Can we stick to discussing housemates/BB in here and not other members.

I really tried to stay on point here, even when the other poster began making personal remarks, I think that's quite apparent...

At some point I should be able to say something back, no? Even if its just to offer a hug :)

Yes with pleasure I shall not address this poster again. I shall of coursecontinue to highlight thi discrimination which will of course be ignored simply because it happened to a man and he used his sense of humour to try and brush it off.