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Crimson Dynamo 28-04-2015 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 7724348)
I think it's worth noting that (and forgive me if I've missed anyone out anywhere earlier in the thread)

Chewy, Girth, Dezzy, Kyle, Marsh

That's at least 5 males who think this is bang out of order.

You are outnumbered even among your own gender truth. You are entitled to your view by all means but understand it is fast becoming a more marginalised view and rightly so in my opinion.

Edit: I forgot Iceman, my apologies.

but kyle do you think she should have just gone another way or do you think going to the police was the correct course?

empire 28-04-2015 06:12 PM

Im sure the police have better things to do in there job, like throwing a couple of chavs in the back of their vans, females like her think that they are god's perfect gift to this world,I have seen her sort before, and they don't like being rejected either, by men that fit the ken type doll either, I mean the likes of her who pile a load of make up, and post photos of their image, ever day only tells me how deluded she is,

Marsh. 28-04-2015 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724350)
but kyle do you think she should have just gone another way or do you think going to the police was the correct course?

But when it's happening over and over again, why should she have to go another way? That makes no sense.

If she was kicking up a fuss over one incident, fair enough, but every day? That's harassment.

Marsh. 28-04-2015 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by empire (Post 7724362)
Im sure the police have better things to do in there job, like throwing a couple of chavs in the back of their vans, females like her think that they are god's perfect gift to this world,I have seen her sort before, and they don't like being rejected either, by men that fit the ken type doll either, I mean the likes of her who pile a load of make up, and post photos of their image, ever day only tells me how deluded she is,

I didn't know you knew this woman so personally?

Kyle 28-04-2015 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724350)
but kyle do you think she should have just gone another way or do you think going to the police was the correct course?

Nah I don't think she should feel like she has to alternate her route to avoid potentially oppressive situations. You can pretty much read what Niamh said verbatim for my opinion.

As for calling the cops, if tomorrow she doesn't get any hastle she might argue it was worth it. Personally an anonymous phone call complaint to the contractors head office first might have solved it (she did both at the same time) but she had this problem for a month. I imagine she would have been pretty angry.

Livia 28-04-2015 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by empire (Post 7724362)
Im sure the police have better things to do in there job, like throwing a couple of chavs in the back of their vans, females like her think that they are god's perfect gift to this world,I have seen her sort before, and they don't like being rejected either, by men that fit the ken type doll either, I mean the likes of her who pile a load of make up, and post photos of their image, ever day only tells me how deluded she is,

So if she wear make up and posts pictures of herself, she deserves everything she gets? That can't be what you're saying. Tell me that's not what you're saying...

Crimson Dynamo 28-04-2015 06:19 PM

She needs to be smarter. Hopefully she will learn

Livia 28-04-2015 06:22 PM

I do think calling the police was a bit of a sledgehammer to crack a walnut. She should have marched into the site office and asked them to muzzle their boys or she would personally unscrew each 5 watt bulb they're obviously using for brains.

Marsh. 28-04-2015 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 7724378)
or she would personally unscrew each 5 watt bulb they're obviously using for brains.

I know LT and the truth are being silly but this is a little uncalled for. :fan:

Kyle 28-04-2015 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 7724378)
I do think calling the police was a bit of a sledgehammer to crack a walnut. She should have marched into the site office and asked them to muzzle their boys or she would personally unscrew each 5 watt bulb they're obviously using for brains.

I'd pay good money to see you put a few men in their place :creep:

Crimson Dynamo 28-04-2015 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 7724385)
I'd pay good money to see you put a few men in their place :creep:

:fist: take that smut to the building site you sexist pig


https://www.policeoracle.com/news/fi...01ff1643b9.jpg

Kyle 28-04-2015 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724389)
:fist: take that smut to the building site you sexist pig

It's safer here where I can't take a size 5 stiletto to the balls.

Amy Jade 28-04-2015 07:34 PM

I am so shocked to see a few people suggest the victim should dress more conservativly, walk a totally different way or even enjoy being harrased.

Nobody should walk the street and dread reaching a certain point because they're being intimidated.

Niamh. 28-04-2015 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Amy Jade (Post 7724511)
I am so shocked to see a few people suggest the victim should dress more conservativly, walk a totally different way or even enjoy being harrased.

Nobody should walk the street and dread reaching a certain point because they're being intimidated.


:clap2:

Crimson Dynamo 28-04-2015 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Amy Jade (Post 7724511)
I am so shocked to see a few people suggest the victim should dress more conservativly, walk a totally different way or even enjoy being harrased.

Nobody should walk the street and dread reaching a certain point because they're being intimidated.

would you walk around your nearest city at 3 am?

Crimson Dynamo 28-04-2015 07:45 PM

people avoid areas of towns and cities for all sorts of reasons

we dont live in fecking utopia.

its called being street smart

Cherie 28-04-2015 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724528)
would you walk around your nearest city at 3 am?

That's a bit different though :laugh:

Niamh. 28-04-2015 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724528)
would you walk around your nearest city at 3 am?


Because you might meet someone who might mug you? And if you do get mugged you shouldn't report it even if you know who the mugger was because it was your own fault for daring to walk the streets at 3am? :think:

Amy Jade 28-04-2015 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724528)
would you walk around your nearest city at 3 am?

No, but this wasn't at 3am so what's your point?

Also say I did happen to walk down the street at 3am and get attacked or even worse, would you be blaming me and not the attacker?

Crimson Dynamo 28-04-2015 08:15 PM

we all do things to avoid mentals

its part of life.



be street smart

Kizzy 28-04-2015 08:18 PM

I would like to have seen the confrontation, someone saying good morning didn't sound that threatening, maybe he fancied her and was trying to break the ice?
If she walked that way everyday he may have just wanted to speak to her, it's being made out to be very sinister.
Even the vid in the article, it's just one whistle that sounds a long way off.
It's hard to get a specific context on this really.

user104658 28-04-2015 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724565)
we all do things to avoid mentals

its part of life.



be street smart

Do we? I don't. I don't go wandering the streets at 3am but when doped-up idiots decide to stand in the way blocking shop doorways etc. to be "funny" or "intimidating" or "impress their mates" I sure as **** don't run off with my tail between my legs, I walk straight through the ****ers. I wouldn't get to work some days if I didn't :/.

Who knows. Maybe one of them will pull a knife on me one day, and then there can be a thread on here about it where you tell everyone that I brought it on myself because I should have walked around and come in the fire exit at the back like a scared little bitch. Is that what you would do, LT? Is that the "clever" thing to do? I can think of a few words for it... none of them are "clever" :joker:.

Amy Jade 28-04-2015 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724565)
we all do things to avoid mentals

its part of life.



be street smart

Again, she didn't go out at night so your point is escaping me. Should she put herself out by walking another way which could take her twice as long just to avoid a few pigs?

Marsh. 28-04-2015 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7724565)
we all do things to avoid mentals

its part of life.



be street smart

Or they could simply grow up and get on with their work and leave passers by be?

Just a thought. :fan:

Crimson Dynamo 28-04-2015 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Amy Jade (Post 7724585)
Again, she didn't go out at night so your point is escaping me. Should she put herself out by walking another way which could take her twice as long just to avoid a few pigs?

yes she should

do nt waste police time because you are not smart:nono:


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