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Jase. 04-01-2017 10:35 PM

inb4 she's ejected

Gstar 04-01-2017 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Jay28jay2 (Post 9127430)
She was referring to him because she doesn't know his name, she should have worded it differently though

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Originally Posted by Hayden (Post 9127438)
She was pointing out that Ray was uncomfortable sleeping with an older straight guy but not with a gay guy, don't really see the problem it's a fair question

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Cherie 04-01-2017 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 9127571)
Overdramatic (and not in a fun way), argumentative for no good reason, potentially homophobic. I liked her yesterday but she showed quite an ugly personality tonight.

It's quite simple, people are allowed to dislike her without being accused of racism. It's attitudes like yours that actually hinder progress rather than aiding it.

Of course she is ugly anyone who brings up a row she had with a dead woman years ago is ugly, and I don't care if the prods asked her the question she should have kept it zipped

Jack_ 04-01-2017 11:10 PM

Well it's obviously not the best term to use but in reality if you replace the word 'boy' with 'guy' the sentence takes on a whole different meaning, and that's how I assumed she meant it.

I also thought she was asking whether Ray J would be bothered about sharing a bed with a gay guy, not questioning why anyone would do that herself. But idk, I gusss time will tell

Tom4784 04-01-2017 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo (Post 9127744)
But James knew nothing about her at the start, what made her a dick at that point? and he seemed to be conflicted by his reasons for picking her. Those that did know her said they liked her and were against picking her. If he was indeed intimidated by strong women it should have been Bianca as he probably knows her and is more familiar with her as a strong woman.

But she didn't act like a dick. If she was irritated she had a reason. Speidi didn't even address Austin directly and he already branded Spencer at least a dickhead. But yet Stacey, who was being smothered by them directly can't be annoyed? Why does she have to tread on eggshells wth her reactions.

And the gay comment I've said what I thought about it up there about homophobia in the rnb community.

I think you're reaching.

She did act like a dick and so did Austin so I don't know why you're bringing him up when I'm not excusing his behavior in the first place. You are looking for racism where there is none. As I said before, you can't handle the fact that people simply don't like Stacy and you seem a bit obsessed with painting anyone that doesn't like her as a racist.

Ithinkiloveyoutoo 04-01-2017 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 9128025)
I think you're reaching.

She did act like a dick and so did Austin so I don't know why you're bringing him up when I'm not excusing his behavior in the first place. You are looking for racism where there is none. As I said before, you can't handle the fact that people simply don't like Stacy and you seem a bit obsessed with painting anyone that doesn't like her as a racist.

Girlfriend you can't understand that feeling of exclusion black women feel more often than not. I disagree she didn't act like a dick. Seems you can't accept someone didn't think she was a dick.
I've seen no legit reasons to dislike. If it was because she was snarky to Speidi well then y'all best begin to hate everyone that will be snarky to Speidi in the upcoming weeks to counter balance this.

Marsh. 04-01-2017 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo (Post 9128044)
Girlfriend you can't understand that feeling of exclusion black women feel more often than not. I disagree she didn't act like a dick. Seems you can't accept someone didn't think she was a dick.
I've seen no legit reasons to dislike. If it was because she was snarky to Speidi well then y'all best begin to hate everyone that will be snarky to Speidi in the upcoming weeks to counter balance this.

It seems you're the one that can't accept others may have taken a dislike to her for any other reason than her skin colour.

It's really uncalled for.

Ithinkiloveyoutoo 04-01-2017 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9128053)
It seems you're the one that can't accept others may have taken a dislike to her for any other reason than her skin colour.

It's really uncalled for.

Meh she's done fook all. There's more vile people in the house

Tom4784 04-01-2017 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo (Post 9128044)
Girlfriend you can't understand that feeling of exclusion black women feel more often than not. I disagree she didn't act like a dick. Seems you can't accept someone didn't think she was a dick.
I've seen no legit reasons to dislike. If it was because she was snarky to Speidi well then y'all best begin to hate everyone that will be snarky to Speidi in the upcoming weeks to counter balance this.

You are applying your own personal issues on a situation rather than seeing the situation for what it is.

Who are you to dictate what's a legitimate reason to dislike someone or not? You say I can't accept someone thinking differently to me (hilarious) but then you go ahead and dictate what is and isn't acceptable in the very next sentence? Hypocritical.

If someone thinks Stacy is a dick then they have every right to think so, they don't need to run it past you first.

Ithinkiloveyoutoo 04-01-2017 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 9128086)
You are applying your own personal issues on a situation rather than seeing the situation for what it is.

Who are you to dictate what's a legitimate reason to dislike someone or not? You say I can't accept someone thinking differently to me but then you go ahead and dictate what is and isn't acceptable in the very next sentence? Hypocritical.

If someone thinks Stacy is a dick then they have every right to think so, they don't need to run it past you first.

Reasons I see are nonsense because it seems people are ignoring the context. She was nice enough to everyone but Speidi who seemed to want to wind her up and it was probably edited too. Didn't see anyone but Speidi call her out again after. Wonder why :think: I'm pretty sure if a pretty blonde was irritated with the situation she was put in people would have been more sympathetic. But a black woman irritated is just typical, despite the circumstances. How dare she snap. What a dick. Goodnight :laugh:

Tom4784 05-01-2017 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo (Post 9128135)
Reasons I see are nonsense because it seems people are ignoring the context. She was nice enough to everyone but Speidi who seemed to want to wind her up and it was probably edited too. Didn't see anyone but Speidi call her out again after. Wonder why :think: I'm pretty sure if a pretty blonde was irritated with the situation she was put in people would have been more sympathetic. But a black woman irritated is just typical, despite the circumstances. How dare she snap. What a dick. Goodnight :laugh:

You are trivialising the cause by painting everyone who thinks differently to you as a racist and it's honestly disgusting. It's views like yours that give ammunition to people who downplay and speak out against groups like BLM and prevent them as being taken seriously as a civil rights group.

You are looking for reasons to be outraged and inventing them when you can't find them.

Stacy acted like a dick, she wasn't very likable tonight and her excuses didn't hold water. That is why people turned on her after liking her last night. People haven't just become racist overnight.

Northern Monkey 05-01-2017 12:16 AM

I didn't even know 'gay boy' was homophobic.I mean he is both those words.It would be insulting if he was straight but he is'nt so I don't see the problem tbh.

Ithinkiloveyoutoo 05-01-2017 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 9128208)
You are trivialising the cause by painting everyone who thinks differently to you as a racist and it's honestly disgusting. It's views like yours that give ammunition to people who downplay and speak out against groups like BLM and prevent them as being taken seriously as a civil rights group.

You are looking for reasons to be outraged and inventing them when you can't find them.

Stacy acted like a dick, she wasn't very likable tonight and her excuses didn't hold water. That is why people turned on her after liking her last night. People haven't just become racist overnight.

Let's leave BLM out of it. Don't use me as an excuse. I said before if people truly care about ending racism, or fighting against their own prejudices they should do so of their own free will. Don't hide behind "it's views like yours" to justify why you might downplay people's outcries against racism.

Now I am not inventing anything. I am not looking for reasons to be outraged, rather it looks like it's people that have been looking for reasons to be outraged against her. You keep making a statement that she was a dick but exactly why you think she was one wasn't so clear. I stated my views regarding her snarkiness towards Speidi, her gay boy comment and the unclear reasons she was picked.

Wizard. 05-01-2017 12:49 AM

Miss Francis has been given a verbal warning... oops

Denver 05-01-2017 12:54 AM

I seen a few people send in the Cult of Scientology to the @BBUK twitter account so i expect she may be removed

Ithinkiloveyoutoo 05-01-2017 12:56 AM

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I...I...I.just.can.not! :umm2:

Ithinkiloveyoutoo 05-01-2017 12:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Riley. (Post 9128251)
Miss Francis has been given a verbal warning... oops

Good. People can focus on other people now. But I feel they won't until she's out, as is the pattern.

kingston 05-01-2017 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Riley. (Post 9128251)
Miss Francis has been given a verbal warning... oops

I wonder if she'll claim "religious persecution" considering it's part of her cult teachings that homosexuals are sexual deviants akin to pedophiles...

Tom4784 05-01-2017 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Northern Monkey (Post 9128217)
I didn't even know 'gay boy' was homophobic.I mean he is both those words.It would be insulting if he was straight but he is'nt so I don't see the problem tbh.

It was the way she said it for me, she didn't say anything implicitly homophobic but the way she said it rang alarm bells.

Headie 05-01-2017 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Adam. (Post 9128256)
I seen a few people send in the Cult of Scientology to the @BBUK twitter account so i expect she may be removed

kingston expanded to social media outlets other than TiBB?

Tom4784 05-01-2017 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo (Post 9128222)
Let's leave BLM out of it. Don't use me as an excuse. I said before if people truly care about ending racism, or fighting against their own prejudices they should do so of their own free will. Don't hide behind "it's views like yours" to justify why you might downplay people's outcries against racism.

Now I am not inventing anything. I am not looking for reasons to be outraged, rather it looks like it's people that have been looking for reasons to be outraged against her. You keep making a statement that she was a dick but exactly why you think she was one wasn't so clear. I stated my views regarding her snarkiness towards Speidi, her gay boy comment and the unclear reasons she was picked.

I've made it clear why she was a dick but you haven't accepted it since you want to see racism everywhere. There's very little point in discussing this further, we're just going around in circles.

Shaun 05-01-2017 01:13 AM

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kingston 05-01-2017 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Hayden (Post 9128267)
kingston expanded to social media outlets other than TiBB?

Nope... But I'm happy to see others spreading the word about her involvement in the cult...

iRyan 05-01-2017 01:37 AM

The way she said it was judgy and her comment was idiotic, but I don't think it's worth a warning.

12bigbrother12 05-01-2017 04:11 AM

This hypersensitivity to anything that isn't politically correct has been killing the show for a decade now. If you put 14 people in a house and film then some prejudices will be revealed, this is supposed to be a social experiment and society has prejudices. I wish the producers would keep their morally superior attitudes out of it. Unless someone is being singled out and bullied then there should be no interference.

Edit: I say this as a gay man too.


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