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Yeh, cant be an accident if you do it more than once really.

It just sounds like hes tried to surpress his sexuality perhaps? But inevitably caved. And that does sound slightly less douchey than other reasons for cheating imo.

It does make him a bit douchey, especially considering he cheated on a man with a man.... but not as douchey as the average serial cheat from my perspective.

Yes because i obviously meant he was remoseful and then went on to cheat again, but you make up and believe what you like :)

It's a Human flaw that he has, overall I like that he feels like a Human Being.

Who's done worse than cheat

Tbf scrutiny is fair game when it's televised for the country to see

All was forgiven when he voted Trump, his sins have been revoked.

I agree just getting on there when he is such a fan makes him a winner, and it makes it s really interesting watch

This is ridiculous. 'Oh you don't like him, it's because you're trying to be edgy!!!'
not really, people are trying to have their opinions on him as a HM rather than having a bias by knowing him. Sorry.

I'm not saying anyone is condoning his cheating but can you blame anyone for questioning how remorseful he is after he admitted he cheated on 4 partners?

Once is a mistake but 4 times? Nope.

Because it wasn't a topic on an episode of the very TV show this forum was created to discuss? Whereas now... it is.

Shocking I know.

If another HM was the one exposed, they would have been righteously scrutinised also.

This is purely speculation (about him as a HM, not as a member) but on BOTS yesterday Raph was in the diary room talking about his gameplan and this was analysed by Trisha Goddard

What i'm thinking is perhaps these two events might be connected and it was Raph explaining that he was fake crying for his game and it wasn't shown or something and he was trying to do something similar to BBUS and BBCAN where after a game move they were explaining his strategy?

See that last paragraph is why its not better than being cheated on with another girl cos in your eyes the only time it was bad was when he cheated on a guy so the other relationships werent "real" but they would have been for the girls so thats an extra hurt to deal with

Also take into account he isn't exactly liked by the public either. It's hardly trendy or edgy.

You can like it. I will continue not to.

I agree. He has obviously given this information to make good housemate material. He knows the show inside and out...don't tell me he didn't think this stuff would be exposed :shrug:
Then crying about it purely out of concern on how it will make him look is pathetic.
TIBB member or not...I will judge him like any other housemate. He is not dislikeable by any means...I don't really care about what he has done. But just stand up and say you regret it instead of crying for the sympathy vote. The most telling thing is that he really only cares about the way it portrays HIM and how it may ruin his chances of progressing in his beloved programme.

All i'm saying is twitter and ammi :hee:

I just feel like some people will scrutinise Raph on here out of some sort of personal vendetta against him even if he said the Sky was blue.

I mean we've got some right twats in there, and people seem to think it's cool to go for Raph, I honestly don't get it as his a great Forum member on here, and his been a likable Housemate so far.

I've not made anything up you're the one telling us what Raph thinks pal? :)

I don't blame anyone for questioning it, i just think it's a chance some people were waiting for to jump in to grill him

I'm honestly just getting sick of feeling like walking on eggshells everytime I want to say something about him as a HM. Apparently it's 'overbearing' yet everytime the camera goes on him there's reams of posts about him. I get the excitement and everything, but the people saying criticism are apparently the overbearing ones. Hmm.

Steady on Columbo, he hasn't faced a public vote yet

Yeh.. I presumed they werent really meaningful relationships.. like hes gay.. how far can he literally go with a girl? But perhaps im wrong, maybe they were meaningful. Guess id need more info.

Drop it Luke