There was nothing defensive about my post, I just think that a lot of people assume things that they have no idea about and it reflects upon themselves (I even did this myself re: sooooooo many things)

I also don't think cheating needs to be justified. There are so many reasons/excuses that people cheat or are unfaithful... so probably best not to make assumptions lol.

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I've not made any assumptions about anyone. OBVIOUSLY every single individual person has their own story. I never insinuated cheating only happens in one circumstance. Very few circumstances "justify" cheating, and the ones I think maybe do wouldn't really be classed as cheating anyway IMO.

Yeah also not necessarily true. But as I said, keep trying to speak for others lol

It's sad because you used to be better than this

I really don't think this is true.

I’m not speaking for others, I’m stating my opinion, there are only maybe a handful of situations where cheating wouldn’t make someone horrible

:joker: yeah you got me questioning it now too

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The way you think cheating is 'horrible' but just look @ your rtv faves lmao you don't have a lot to come back with on that

For the record, I couldn't care less who you like/dislike but if you're gonna be ironic with it then you'd better explain yourself ..........

What have my favourites got to do with me not liking cheats?

If we ignore Sarah cause I’m a GA Stan and that overrides everything and she was a mess it wasn’t her best moment

I don't care about Sarah :skull: Literally referring to you thinking 'cheats' are vile yet not caring about what eg. Renee said for example lmao it's so strange wsjdkkedkek

I didn’t say they were vile lmao you’re so extra, I’m just not a fan of cheating in the majority of cases and yes, I cant say I really care what people say in reaction to a grown ass devil child tormenting them

aw fanks mash x

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Do you start as well :oh:

:joker: So true though

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair :shrug: But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out :fan:

Ugh just everything you said :love: :flutter:

Seriously though, how do you know that?

I’d agree that not every case is black and white. Some people might cheat because they’ve been treated poorly, others might cheat because they’re just a ****ty person. Not every person who cheats is a bad person, sure, but some people do just cheat on their partners for the simple fact that they’re unable to stay faithful and that’s not ok.

I don’t buy people not intending to hurt someone when they cheat, they know what’s going to happen, they can’t believe their other half will be happy about it

Like Jake said, some circumstances I don’t have an issue with, like someone in an abusive relationship, falls in love with someone else but is scared to leave, cheat away, get the good stuff, but a person who just decides to cheat on someone for no other reason than they want to and they can and show no remorse, I don’t think is a good person

Cheating is deceit. Of course they know it's going to harm their partner that's why it's almost always kept a secret. I've been with my partner 4 years and would never cheat. Why? Because it takes a bigger person to end the relationship prior to committing the betrayal. You can't have your cake and eat it. It's so indicative of emotional immaturity that I can't believe the (im)morality of it is even being debated at this point.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.



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