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Swan 20-02-2022 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 11135096)
This is still ongoing? Cut the ties man. Not that I can really talk on that subject anymore as I am very hung up on some guy who is ghosting me like **** :laugh:

Not really now, we've tried to be friends, it's not really worked out. She is still pretty hung up on this dude, yet he's still not made a move, and yeah almost 5 months now. She asked me for advice, as i offered, i dunno what to tell her. I think he likes her the amount of time they spend gaming and chatting, but yeah five months and nothing sexual, no flirting on his part is strange. I dunno though, letting go has been hard, and trying to be friends didn't work, not spoke to her in a couple weeks now.
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Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11135197)
I think you still really like her and can’t let go….but you need to and move on :wavey:

Yeah that's what im doing now, gone on long enough :wavey:

rusticgal 20-02-2022 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11139161)
Not really now, we've tried to be friends, it's not really worked out. She is still pretty hung up on this dude, yet he's still not made a move, and yeah almost 5 months now. She asked me for advice, as i offered, i dunno what to tell her. I think he likes her the amount of time they spend gaming and chatting, but yeah five months and nothing sexual, no flirting on his part is strange. I dunno though, letting go has been hard, and trying to be friends didn't work, not spoke to her in a couple weeks now.


Yeah that's what im doing now, gone on long enough :wavey:


…..and you deserve better. :wavey:

Swan 21-02-2022 10:20 PM

Really struggling, loved her so much (drunk, sorry)

rusticgal 22-02-2022 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11139471)
Really struggling, loved her so much (drunk, sorry)




:hug:.....:flowers:

Swan 22-02-2022 06:42 PM

Why is it so hard to let go? Christ!

GoldHeart 22-02-2022 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11139684)
Why is it so hard to let go? Christ!

Swan you still haven't moved on ??? , oh dear you need to stop torturing yourself like this.

Take up some hobbies or something to put your mind on other things. And as i said before just CUT TIES completely with her, as you're only making things more difficult in the long run.

Crimson Dynamo 22-02-2022 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11139684)
Why is it so hard to let go? Christ!

you like the attention

Kizzy 22-02-2022 07:36 PM

It's hard losing your first real love, or anyone you've invested feelings in. I remember reading something once and it made a lot of sense, it was that everyone comes into our lives for a reason. Either they have something to teach us or we have something to teach them.
Some are around for a long time and some not, the impact of some leaving can last a long time. You can't let it impact on the new people entering your life as it would prevent any positive message from them to you or you to them.

It's hard to learn to love and harder to move on. Take the good from it and let the rest go.

Don't worry I'm not going to sing :)

MTVN 22-02-2022 08:46 PM

I would recommend you stop drinking for a few days

Kizzy 22-02-2022 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 11139727)
I would recommend you stop drinking for a few days

Snipes like this never helped anyone least of all anyone with a drink problem.

Crimson Dynamo 22-02-2022 10:14 PM

Everyone does not come into our lives for a
That is illogical bs

Beso 22-02-2022 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Swan (Post 11139684)
Why is it so hard to let go? Christ!

When loves a one way street, the street will always lead one way.

Dont become a warning sign.:nono:

Beso 22-02-2022 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 11139718)
It's hard losing your first real love, or anyone you've invested feelings in. I remember reading something once and it made a lot of sense, it was that everyone comes into our lives for a reason. Either they have something to teach us or we have something to teach them.
Some are around for a long time and some not, the impact of some leaving can last a long time. You can't let it impact on the new people entering your life as it would prevent any positive message from them to you or you to them.

It's hard to learn to love and harder to move on. Take the good from it and let the rest go.

Don't worry I'm not going to sing :)



Swans not a teenager.

Kizzy 23-02-2022 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11139753)
Swans not a teenager.

That advice is for any age, not everyone falls in love in their teens.


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