Yeah, this doesn’t make for good reading like the usual drama does

Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.

You only struggle because you play bingo which is a luxury. If you're struggling stop playing bingo simples.

Thanks Nicky. I try to distract, it just depends on my mood too. I shop more when I’m sad.

Kate might be the same and it depends on her mood too.

That isn’t what happened Kate. I was good to you. I lent you money even when we weren’t on speaking terms as I didn’t like the thought of my own mum being in some of the situations you’ve found yourself in. Even today I was considering lending you the money and telling you not to bother paying it back or contacting me again as I know we aren’t on speaking terms yet again. I wish you well and hope you find a way out of this endless cycle.

You know nothing. I don't smoke or drink. I only go to bingo when it's cheap. Get the facts before judging.

To be honest, Kate, I don’t think Cal was implying that at all. S/he’s just trying to give you practical solutions cor how to manage your finances a bit better going forward. I don’t get involved in drama but unfortunately there’s a certain limit beyond which most people aren’t going to feel obliged to keep the confidence, which is one of the reasons why I said I don’t think you should be as open a book on this side of the internet.

It is though Cal. You also told everyone I had an affair when I didn't?

I’m very good with money which you’re clearly not. So it’s doubtful really.

I have a very substantial side hustle also. Maybe you can sell things to make some money

You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.

I told you that I was tempted by an ex. That's it. Yes fair enough you did apologise but now I've got the likes of Qua coming on Tibb to berate me. When inreality I cur off all contact with the guy and ended it.

Kate, I sympathise with you and I hope whatever financial hardship you’re going through is eased and gets sorted in the end. But you really need to help yourself before others can help you. There’s many outlets to try and find a working from home job if your reason for not working is long term sickness. Put yourself out there because there’s definitely places you can go to make ends meet.

You should definitely speak to your bank and make arrangements if things are getting worse, but this is not the right way about it ma

Don't because she spoke about the affair on tibb :skull:

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Show me where I said I was having an affair or anything remotely similar?? I've just told one person I cut off all contact because I was tempted. That's what I said. I hate it when your words get twisted.

my god, what’s happening…

I'm gonna take Slims words as verbatim and request the thread closed.