I hope the move goes really well for you, Red and the kids. You deserve to get away from that horrid city where those yobs have ruined your lives.
Good luck to you all!

hope you are feeling a little calmer today Kiz, keep looking forward to the move, the new cottage sounds fantastic.

It's a good thing you can start over Kiz & Red, the new place seems calmer.

Not long now. Having family around will make the world of difference. Not sure if it is any conciliation but the vast majority of burglars do not want confrontation. The second they are disturbed they are off. So please sleep well.
Have you spoke to victim support?

Its funny Doc, we just received info on victims support. But I dont know if it will help me.... its worth a shot maybe.

We're all sleeping a bit better, but its not the same and yes Sunny, its getting a little calmer here. There are still times when you forget just for one min and then it all comes flooding back and it hits you. I wish I could get rid of this heavy heart and weight thats pushing down on my shoulders and chest.

I just want to step back to Monday when everything was great.

The things that I cant get thro my head is we've had such a crappy year last year and we had managed to put all that behind us and we were on the homerun to a great year. Plus a day before it happened we went to buy a door chain but they didnt have one that would fit to our door. How ironic

"Its funny Doc, we just received info on victims support. But I dont know if it will help me.... its worth a shot maybe. "

Hey, nothing ventured nothing gained.

I suppose.

But police have found the other car, they couldnt tell us this time where or when they found it but they think they have the keys.:puzzled:

I think that they might have got some prints off the 1st car they found, raided them and found the Red car.

I am not sure I want it back tho. I feel really weird about going in it after those scumbags stole it :sad:

Victim support can be really useful Kiz, not only do they offer emotional support but they can help with practical things, so give them a chance to help you.

I understand how you feel about the car Kiz, but remember you get it back and you have taken a little back of what they took from you. It is about control, you can take a little control back in your life.

It is a really heavy burden to bare, you worry about the kids and what could have happened, but remember they were cowards, they didnt try to come near you, they crept around so as not to be caught. You and Red are the brave ones you have faced this head on and dealt with what has been thrown at you. Keep dealing with things and you are the ones that have won as you have not let them beat you.

Hope this makes sense

Thanks guys,

Its been a week and my mind is getting worse. My moods are become very black and I feel like someone is pressing down on my chest nearly the whole time. I havent plucked up courage to phone victim support because I am scared they will think I am not genuine.

The Red car is in the process of being checked and then I guess it will be returned to us. The only thing is that I dont want anything back from the skags who stole it and I dont want to touch anything that they took away from us.

Its all ******ed up basically

Kiz honey it is normal to feel this way, it is still really early days.

Why on earth would victim support not think you were genuine. You have been through a terrible ordeal that has been documented by the police they know you are genuine. If you think you can gain a little support then I would say go for it.

You take care honey xxx

Hey love. Please give them a shout. They will (unfortunately) have delt with 100's of cases like this. I am not trying to lessen what has happened to you and how you feel. But they will have seen it before. This is the first (and hopefully last) time you have been through it. They may not be able to help, but then they may just be able to give that one small bit of advice that really helps.

It's worth a try Kiz. Just give them a call. Take care. x

Give them a call KIz. Just see how it goes.

Hiya Kiz, how are things? I hope things for you, Red and family are getting better now. Take care.

Hey,

Things are ok-ish thanks for asking. Still no cars, Red went to see the one that wasnt burnt out, we think its hit something because its got a dent in the bonnet and a wing mirror missing. Plus the toerags have put a cigarette out on the dash.

We wont get it back until its fixed and we should be exchanging on our house next week!

With regards to the espace, well the insurance are fleecing us on the quote. So its going to take some twoing and throwing back to negotiate a decent offer.

The house stuff, well thats where its gets annoying. We were supposed to have a claims investigator come out to see us last Friday only they didnt turn up. They said they would be with us before 1pm and call before they arrived. No call no visit. We rang them back and they said we were out which is completely ridiculous as the kids had been playing in the garden all morning and the front door was let open too. They said they also put a card through the door and that there was no sign of life at the house.... complete bollocks!

Insurance companies suck, they treat us like the fraudsters and we're only claiming what we got nicked