Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 10477621)

Well if you can remember graphic details times and dates as a 7 year old you must have a photographic memory,so I would expect him to remember the dinners but as explained in the last video posted his memory isn't so good:laugh:

Originally Posted by Samm (Post 10477629)

He remembers graphic details because they stand out as not ordinary, I can visually remember myself as a child remembering moments in my childhood that stand out to me because they were frightening and scary, where’s if you told me to remember a specific dinner I had when I was a child I probably won’t be able to

Halfway through the documentary, I do believe their stories, no one who hasn’t got bad intentions invites a young child to bed with them who they don’t know.

Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 10477627)

But that makes sense though Kaz......I hate to bring it up, but with your past experience I am sure you will remember exactly what happened, (times dates, locations etc) to you....but then can you remember the times you had dinner around that time and who you were with??

Those types of things tend to be a bit more ingrained than day to day things surely?

Unless I'm misunderstanding this

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10477617)

Really? You remember every dinner you had since you were 10?

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10477668)

Yes actually I do.

Special dinners and treats yes.

I recall all good and special times, especially when its spent with people I wanted to be with.

At 10 and early teens to be at special meals and occasions with special relatives and friends.
All my schoolfriends parties and them at mine too.

Should I go on.
As my memory is actually red hot as to my life.
I can even remember my Grandmother taking me to my first lunch in a cafe at 4 years old and her lifting me onto a stool.

Yes, I can remember.
No need for me to make anything up.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10477674)

Well considering how **** hot your memory is you should have no trouble convincing Kazanne then that yes infact, if people can remember every dinner they had since they were 10 they almost certainly will remember exact details of having been sexually abused

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 10477677)

He didn't say every dinner he said ,special dinners surely we all remember those

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10477678)

Since I was 10? Nope. But if you agree that people would remember special dinners then how on Earth can you argue that they wouldn't remember being abused? That makes zero sense unless you think eating food is more memorable than being abused?

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 10477682)

I never said they wouldn't remember,but dates and times,C'mon

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10477617)

Really? You remember every dinner you had since you were 10?

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10477668)

Yes actually I do.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10477674)

Well considering how **** hot your memory is you should have no trouble convincing Kazanne then that yes infact, if people can remember every dinner they had since they were 10 they almost certainly will remember exact details of having been sexually abused

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10477791)

..........do you have eidetic memory, Joey? Have you looked into it? Because if this is true; I can assure you, it isn't usual, it is extremely rare.

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10477887)

Why the blotting out.
I said red hot not a swear word.

I would hold the view people could remember dates and times they were abused.

However on such as dinners and occasions, they are good memories.
I'd doubt being abused is.

Actually I will do no convincing of Kazanne at all thank you.
Unlike myself she has been abused and has shared that, I think courageously.

I will show her the respect she should have as to that and not constantly just nitpick.
She knows how she felt, what she recalls and I'd guess they're at times painful memories.

She speaks from experience however.
I admire and respect her incredibly for even trying to guide us on the issue.s.

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10477887)

Why the blotting out.

I said red hot not a swear word.



I would hold the view people could remember dates and times they were abused.



However on such as dinners and occasions, they are good memories.

I'd doubt being abused is.



Actually I will do no convincing of Kazanne at all thank you.

Unlike myself she has been abused and has shared that, I think courageously.



I will show her the respect she should have as to that and not constantly just nitpick.

She knows how she felt, what she recalls and I'd guess they're at times painful memories.



She speaks from experience however.

I admire and respect her incredibly for even trying to guide us on the issue.



What I admire too re Kazanne, is her more respect for law and not willing to override the law on the strength only of 2, ( being generous to them here), apparent liars.

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10477891)

No, just a brilliant memory.

My family call me the encyclopedia of family matters.

I can recall in an instant, conversations, events, dates and times.

It's a massive bonus in my work too.



So I won't be looking into it.

No requirement for sarcasm.



I simply have a brilliant memory, pure and simple.

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 10477677)

Joey didn't say every dinner he said ,special dinners surely we all remember those, and yes I remember being abused but not the time and date.

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10477954)

It's not sarcasm; if you do have a memory that is capable of these things then you're very lucky but I do think it's worth pointing out that it's also very rare, and you probably shouldn't judge situations based on the idea that it's usual and that other people (such as MJ's nephew) are likely to be able to remember every single dinner party.

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 10477986)

Name I haven't seen before in all of this, and not seeking cash either.

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10478140)

I think I'll judge things and what people say and how they act as I wish.
I don't need you or anyone telling me what I should or should not be doing.

As long as I'm not breaking rules or the law.

Originally Posted by Matthew. (Post 10478196)

57 pages jesus christ

A lengthy discussion

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10477447)

It might be "convenient" or for some reason amusing to you Marsh but it is also true; there is no "standard reaction" for victims of abuse or emotional trauma.

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10478187)

Obviously you're free to do what you want and you're free to continue to believe that most people can remember every dinner they've had with family / friends from decades in the past, I'm just saying... you're wrong and most people's memories don't work like that. But by all means, press on.

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10478253)

Do you actually bother to read posts properly.

I said I could remember.
Not everyone.
I can't speak for others.
.