I am a wolf, not a sheep.

Ha lol I was just about to say that...........as if Ben is an Outsider :laugh:

This, I respect people who have there own opinions instead of sheep.

Me too! :blush:

Insider and Outsider? It is like the last BB repeating itself on here:p.

I have personally not felt like an outsider on here because I just get stuck in with what's going in, although it is a shame if some people do genuinely feel that they are one.

I went through a period of reduced activity so I kind of feel like an outsider at the moment, but it happens like that every now and then, you just have to keep posting and get yourself back in there :)

yes

i not an inders and outsiders

Yeah, sometimes. I don't fit any particular group but that doesn't really bother me. I'm here to comment on stuff I please and for my friends on here. I don't need to fit a group of people just to feel welcome.

In a way yeah. I tend to get a bit ignored in the main chat threads most of the time...but it doesnt bother me too much. When I was accepted in the chat threads and used them a lot I was accused of being part of the clique, so I think I prefer being a semi-outsider :laugh:

I used to feel I fit in a lot more when I used the offsite chats too.

Yes, though probably through my own fault since I rarely ever post in the non-BB fourms :D I just lurk around them instead because i'm too awkward to post anything.

Yeah I remember the whole clique thing.


You can't with either way it seems :joker:

Yes, but I don't really post that much, I mostly just flit around

recently yes because I've just become active again but hopefully that'll change!

awww bless, I hope you're happy i've quoted you here!:hugesmile:

I agree, it doesn't phase me but just interesting seeing all the groups form
Spot on kazanne, the few i've spoken too in depth are really nice here
Apple you are soo relevant :worship:

I did a bit for a while, because I was still comparatively new and didn't really use the chat threads or any off site stuff, not so much anymore though

To hear wise words from you arista, has once again given me hope.

Thanks :) , i like seeing these older members posting around (even if it did turn into a sex thread for a while) because you guys bring a different dimension to the forum which I enjoy.

:hug::hug::hug:

I've always thought that you've belonged on the Forum, I suppose though that when your new you are a bit paranoid in that sense.:joker:

It depends. I do a bit right now, because I don't post so much at the moment. However, during the summer and Christmas season, I have more time on my hands so then, I feel more a part of the forum cause i'm more actively involved. I think it's largely to do with how much time you commit to the site. You shouldn't feel like an outside though, Reece, you're wicked! :)

:joker:Sorry about the 'sex' part reece i have to take the blame for that,it just kinda went that way,:joker:it makes me realise some of the younger ones are more mature than the older ones,well you know what they say about women in their 30s:joker::joker:

Trust me Kazanne your way more mature than me still.

And yeah Reece you shouldn't feel like an outsider, plenty of members like you on here.

thanks Raph :D

you still bring something good to the mix:hugesmile:, without the over 30s there'd be more playground type posting

Definitely yeah.