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Lstan 05-01-2017 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by 12bigbrother12 (Post 9128301)
This hypersensitivity to anything that isn't politically correct has been killing the show for a decade now. If you put 14 people in a house and film then some prejudices will be revealed, this is supposed to be a social experiment and society has prejudices. I wish the producers would keep their morally superior attitudes out of it. Unless someone is being singled out and bullied then there should be no interference.

Edit: I say this as a gay man too.

I do wonder if this hysteria is caused mainly on forums like this (I mean in general like you say not just this incident)

I dont have any opinion on this specific issue as im not part of the group affected. A lot of time people speculate what other people are going to find offensive (in general) and sometimes make things seem more serious than they are.

jennyjuniper 05-01-2017 06:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Daniel. (Post 9127480)
How is calling a gay guy gay unacceptable

Mess

This thought had crossed my mind too.:shrug:

caprimint 05-01-2017 06:23 AM

Absolutely not.

Ithinkiloveyoutoo 05-01-2017 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 9128269)
I've made it clear why she was a dick but you haven't accepted it since you want to see racism everywhere. There's very little point in discussing this further, we're just going around in circles.

Well I am not the only one who thought there could have been some underlying racism when they chose her to be edited out, at least out there, not so much on this board. I saw things like "an all white panel choosing the black girl hmmm"

Northern Monkey 05-01-2017 06:57 AM

Well if she's a scientologist she could very well be homophobic.

Vanessa 05-01-2017 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Northern Monkey (Post 9128342)
Well if she's a scientologist she could very well be homophobic.

Yes, I get this feeling as well. I actually liked her until last night.

BB-Germany 05-01-2017 09:07 AM

The only controversial thing was Coleen asking if it was OK for someone to sleep next to a gay guy. In connection to her past opinions on gays it just shows where her mind is set.

Niamh. 05-01-2017 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Hayden (Post 9127438)
She was pointing out that Ray was uncomfortable sleeping with an older straight guy but not with a gay guy, don't really see the problem it's a fair question

Yeah that's how I saw it too

Vanessa 05-01-2017 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by BB-Germany (Post 9128414)
The only controversial thing was Coleen asking if it was OK for someone to sleep next to a gay guy. In connection to her past opinions on gays it just shows where her mind is set.

I didn't like Colleen the last time and she"a still awful. :fist:

chuff me dizzy 05-01-2017 09:16 AM

I wouldn't have been offended if she had described someone as the straight white man, so why should I be offended by her saying gay boy?

Jamie89 05-01-2017 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by BB-Germany (Post 9128414)
The only controversial thing was Coleen asking if it was OK for someone to sleep next to a gay guy. In connection to her past opinions on gays it just shows where her mind is set.

What's this referring to? I don't really know much about her

sampvt 05-01-2017 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9128426)
I wouldn't have been offended if she had described someone as the straight white man, so why should I be offended by her saying gay boy?

Chuff I see nothing wrong with it either and what you say is right and probably so do 99% of the GBP. The problem lies within this forum. Ive been on DS and another site this morning and its mentioned in fleeting posts but its got 6 pages on here. Personally I think the issue is the word boy being used, and if she was older it would be ok but as a young lass, it come across as demeaning. Sadly Ghetto speak comes out and gets analised in the wrong context so thats where it all falls down.

Some people really need to lighten up and brush off silly verbiage poo pahs and move on. Making an issue of everything not in conformation to PC rules is creating a gender gap and fallouts like these.

Saph 05-01-2017 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 9127440)
No it was not acceptable but as a Cult of Scientology member she has to believe that homosexuality is in the same league as pedophilia...

mess

chuff me dizzy 05-01-2017 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by sampvt (Post 9128449)
Chuff I see nothing wrong with it either and what you say is right and probably so do 99% of the GBP. The problem lies within this forum. Ive been on DS and another site this morning and its mentioned in fleeting posts but its got 6 pages on here. Personally I think the issue is the word boy being used, and if she was older it would be ok but as a young lass, it come across as demeaning. Sadly Ghetto speak comes out and gets analised in the wrong context so thats where it all falls down.

Some people really need to lighten up and brush off silly verbiage poo pahs and move on. Making an issue of everything not in conformation to PC rules is creating a gender gap and fallouts like these.

Every word or gesture is analysed and picked through to see if theres is anything folk can moan about, just watch the show and enjoy it,or turn off

Vanessa 05-01-2017 09:41 AM

We will see, I just didn't like that she said that. He has a name and it's Austin :fist:

Niamh. 05-01-2017 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 9128455)
We will see, I just didn't like that she said that. He has a name and it's Austin :fist:

Austin is actually my favourite HM but I think the reason she mentioned him being gay was the whole point she was making, like how come he's ok sleeping with a gay guy but not a straight one

Vanessa 05-01-2017 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9128458)
Austin is actually my favourite HM but I think the reason she mentioned him being gay was the whole point she was making, like how come he's ok sleeping with a gay guy but not a straight one

I hope that's what she meant.

sampvt 05-01-2017 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 9128455)
We will see, I just didn't like that she said that. He has a name and it's Austin :fist:

They are all new to eachother in there and names are hard to remember especially after you are chucked out into the garden. Would it be different if she was to refer to James as the ''dancer boy'' or anyone as the blond girl or big fella.........No....... she said gay boy and that got the homosexual community up in arms which tends to get views on here and its sadly pathetic. My eldest is gay and he says its food and fodder for the PC brigade and it infuriates him as he gets the backlash of it because he feels certain people think the BGLTV community should be treated specially instead of normally like everyone else.

MrWong 05-01-2017 10:23 AM

Stacy put her comments down to sarcasm. Can anyone explain what was sarcastic? I didn't get that at all.

Mullens123 05-01-2017 10:36 AM

Personally I think she worded it badly and I wouldn't be surprised if she had homophobic views due to her religious connections. But I don't think it's bad enough that she should be punished and I'm glad she wasn't given a bs warning about it by Big Brother. If her comment offended anyone then perhaps people need thicker skin, and I'm sure given what other LGBT people go through they'd have skin thick enough to not be offended by being called "gay boy".

chuff me dizzy 05-01-2017 10:45 AM

Everyone walks on egg shells scared to talk as everything and every word is disected,Scared one wrong word can wreck a career ........PC gone mad

Crimson Dynamo 05-01-2017 11:43 AM

In 1950 Hubbard published Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health, introducing his "science of the mind," Dianetics. He classified homosexuality as an illness or sexual perversion, citing contemporary psychiatric and psychological textbooks to support his view:

The sexual pervert (and by this term Dianetics, to be brief, includes any and all forms of deviation in Dynamic II [i.e. sexuality] such as homosexuality, lesbianism, sexual sadism, etc., and all down the catalog of Ellis and Krafft-Ebing) is actually quite ill physically...he is very far from culpable for his condition, but he is also far from normal and extremely dangerous to society

source: wiki

so chances are that if she is batsh1t enough to think Scientology is a thing she is crazy enough to swallow up that bolloxio

Gusto Brunt 05-01-2017 11:46 AM

No, it's not acceptable. :mad:

First of all, he is gay, yes. ;) BUT he is NOT a boy! :mad:

Vicky. 05-01-2017 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Northern Monkey (Post 9128217)
I didn't even know 'gay boy' was homophobic.I mean he is both those words.It would be insulting if he was straight but he is'nt so I don't see the problem tbh.

Its not really the words, it was the way it was said. For me anyway.

But meh..I guess its up to 'gay boys' to decide if its actually offensive. I am not one to take offense on behalf of others tbh. Was just a bit...off.

People would probably think me homophobic if they heard me speaking to my mates whilst on the piss. It will become clear in time if she actually is homophobic.

Jamie89 05-01-2017 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Mullens123 (Post 9128524)
Personally I think she worded it badly and I wouldn't be surprised if she had homophobic views due to her religious connections. But I don't think it's bad enough that she should be punished and I'm glad she wasn't given a bs warning about it by Big Brother. If her comment offended anyone then perhaps people need thicker skin, and I'm sure given what other LGBT people go through they'd have skin thick enough to not be offended by being called "gay boy".

Apparently they have given her a warning. Personally I don't think it warrants a warning either (even though I think she was in the wrong). I don't think the problem was just that she said "gay boy" though, I think it was more the context and that a lot of people think it came across like she might have a problem with gays.

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Originally Posted by MrWong (Post 9128499)
Stacy put her comments down to sarcasm. Can anyone explain what was sarcastic? I didn't get that at all.

I think it was just the first thing that popped into her head when she realised her comment had gone down like a lead balloon :laugh:


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