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21-12-2019 12:52 AM |
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Originally Posted by Swan
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They shouldn't except it, they also shouldn't assume a white straight male doesn't care about their struggles (this is a very dangerous growing trend) because a lot do.
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They don't. That probably comes up when they're presented with whataboutery, which I explained in a previous post.
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Originally Posted by Swan
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No i think in order to achieve the change you want to see, no matter what they may be, you need to accept that a minority will never see things your way, or accept you for who you are. Those people need to be dismissed, why give them attention?
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Because it's not just about bullies in a playground or name-calling. It's about those bullies in a playground mis-educating the next generations, growing up to become the leaders and employers in our society. No offence, but that doesn't really need explaining. That's why it needs to be addressed.
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Originally Posted by Swan
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No, we need to unite and fight together, no matter our race, sexuality etc. Again, if i accept you, you need to accept me. We are more divided than ever imo. I wont face homosexual hardships as a straight man, granted, that doesn't mean that straight males aren't sympathetic towards the cause.
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True. But they're not saying ALL straight men aren't sympathetic but that straight men are the problem because they are. It's not gay people discriminating other gay people, it's the straight people who see straight as the "normal" default position. That's what's being addressed. I feel people need to not feel personally admonished when a societal problem is discussed in those terms.
It's a bit like talking about the ills of the British Empire and taking offence as though you are being admonished for it because you are British.
You are straight and you are not homophobic, great, so you aren't the problem. :thumbs:
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