Originally Posted by joeysteele
(Post 6609953)
I try hard not to do that Mock, however sometimes there is such a great knowledge that it is hard to change an opinion held of a celebrity no matter how they are in the house.
Such as mine concerning the Nolan lot, I never liked Colleen before she went in,then couldn't find anything from her actions in the house to make me like her.
I tried hard with Linda and for a short time, she was acting as a good and interesting housemate and I thought I may have got her wrong.
Then her mask slipped and showed her spiteful real nasty side, the one I have seen all the time before and that was that with her for me too.
However, from the opinion I had of Frankie Cocoza before he went in, he,for me anyway, behaved really well in the house and he changed my opinion as to him.
I didn't care for Dappy when he went in, however he is winning me over now and I find him a good housemate,especially since he dumped the fake romance nonsense as to Jasmine.
I liked Jasmine but now cannot be bothered with her for her antics in the house with Lee in the main, not for anything she has done outside the house.
I didn't care for Luisa on the apprentice I admit and I find her someone who seems unable to think before she speaks in the house.
I find her offensive a fair bit of the time,again however I have judged her on what I have seen of her in the house.
Lee, I liked before he went in the house but I have rarely been sickened so much by someone's pathetic obsession with sex and playing people off against each other,so again from what he has done in the house, I have changed my view of him bigtime.
As to Jim, he is supposed to be this really awful man, incapable of any change or control as was seemingly shown on the kitchen programme he took part in.
Well, for me he has shown really good control in CBB and I can only judge him on what I am now seeing in the house.
He is, (and she was the one who started it first), being pushed by Linda who likely has her own nasty agenda as to him so much, I am amazed he is showing such control.
With her, I couldn't myself I doubt.
She has said on a few occasions she doen't like him,making sure others hear her say it too then pushing to make him look bad all she can, he doesn't take the bait but if he did,I think I would still think it was justified in her case.
Also, events can affect people, it can make them think and Jim has had a difficult thing going on for the last year or more with the allegations made against him which have now been dropped and no action taken.
That can affect a person too, maybe he has learned to hold back, control his anger and be more patient too.
He will never be a saint for sure but his actions in the house so far have presented nothing to suggest he is some monster.
No one can change their past but they can build their future given the chance.
Maybe Jim sees this as his chance to put a few things to bed from his past life.
I am prepared to afford him that benefit of the doubt now and still for me, how he hasn't really blown at Linda is a mystery to me, because she is desperately waiting for him to do that and then watch for the rotten filthy vile venom that will likely come from her mouth when and if he does crack under her pressure.
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