Very sorry to hear you havent got a partner Ella ((((Hugs))))). Did he walk out on you???.

Its a very long story lol...Me and the babies father were together for 3 years..But we split last July sometime..then he got with someone else..Got her pregnant! Then she left him because she has ante natel depression I think you call it.. Then he contacted me in March just after my Birthday and we started seeing each other and you know lol...then He gets back with his Ex..whos baby is due in June..then I find out im Pregnant. him and his ex split up over it and he thinks I tricked him into getting me pregnant! And says he wants nothing to do with me or the baby because I ruined his life. :sad:

Its like something off Jeremy Kyle

whenever I have a girl her name will probably be Hayley..

**looks to the future** lol

You dont need him anyway Ella..

Yeah I know, Me and Baba will be fine without him!

I mean he could change his mind but at this moment in time in so angry with him I dont want him to change his mind.

It's annoying though, because he's been through the exact same thing (more or less) with another girl. Which shows he's just not trustworthy. You're much better off without him!

Yeah exactly! I will be a great Mother, and I dont need him around to spoil that for me!

Oh my god!!!! thats so horrible him doing that to you Ella :bawling: :mad:. Dont worry hun you dont need someone like that in your life. Its obvious from reading that how he treated you cant ever trust him again. I hope you told him where to go as I would of. I so hate men like that. They should be hung up by their whats its. Do you have your family to help you out with the baby???. I hope you will have the love and support of your family there all you will need to bring up your baby. And you know possibly you will meet someone else and they will be good enough to take on your baby with you. Be strong girl! ((((((Hugs))))). By the way I love those names you have thought of very sweet :bigsmile:.

I completely agree Amy. And luckily for Ella, she does have lots of family and friends who are there for her, and to help her. :flowers:
Men like that are absolutely terrible, which is why I think she or anyone else who has been treated like that is far better off without them!

There are soooo many names to choose from though, you're probably going to keep deciding right up till the last minute! :hugesmile:

If there is one thing I can't wait to have with the love of my life, it's a baby.

You enjoy being a fantastic mother Ella, I have no doubt you will be. The guy is missing out on alot of things, mostly emotional, mostly happy.

Congratulations and Good Luck.

Aww thats great Ella has many friends and family to help her with the baby :bigsmile:. Thats all she need then.

Oh sweetie, sod him..... he aint worth it.

Just remember that if you need any advice I am only 9 or 10 weeks ahead of you xxx

And anytime you want to come shopping in Leeds xxx I am right there xxx

Thanks sweet, Thats really nice of you to say. And I can't wait to be a Mother. It will be totally life changing, But worth it!

And thanks Kiz...I will be asking your advice all the time! And we will have to make a shopping date! We will go mad for baby clothes!

And thanks to everyone on here for their kind words and support. :love:

Thats great news Ella!! Im so happy for you:cheer2: Congrats:bigsmile:

Thanks Davie!

Congrats Ella - great news

Kiz lets hope you have more luck finding out the sex of the baby than my daughter did.

She has just over 8 weeks to go I am getting excited for her

I hope so.....Red said he cant wait another 5 months to find out what we are having.

And if we do find out then we can stop calling the bump Freddie (as in Freddie Eastwood who plays for South End :rolleyes:)

lol - my daughter calls hers bean!

I hope Red has to wait lol

You took Lola! Yay!

Layla's also cool, I saw it spelt Leila once...

Hiya Ella :bigsmile:.

I hope your feeling ok today hun not too much morning sickness. When do you have your first scan???. Will you try post the scan photo on here please???.

x.

Im not sure when my first scan is..But I have my fisrt appointment with the midwife on the 18th of june.

And yeah i will post the picture of the scans on here! Depending on how many people wanna see them lol!

xx

Aww cool. Your appointment should go very well no need to worry hun. And I would like to see your scan picture if thats ok with you :bigsmile:.

Do you work? or are you still in education?.

Ha ha ha ha he would be a right pain if he did :laugh:

Oh Cool. Your appointment is on my birthday!
I'm Sure it will Go fine!

I did work..But I recently quit because I wanted to go to college...Now that one is out of the window! So i need a job so i can save up money for the Baba..Dont get me wrong i have enough money in my savings to get him/her evrything they need...But I am going to spoil him/her rotten!!