Lol @ bend and snap :hehe:

Aw how cute is Simone in this! Why is there not much buzz she's an Olympian. (even though the video is meh)And why the heck is Jamelia axed over a fat comment when those hags offend every bloody time?:joker: :rolleyes:

..Simone looks stunning..:lovedup:...I don't know with the Jamelia thing CeeCee...I had to google because I'm not up on celeb/TV gossip...maybe it was lots of things and 'artistic differences'...:laugh:..and that was more an excuse because it gave a reason..?..but maybe they were generally going to part ways anyway...

Why do I still miss the prick 4 years later. The fack:bawling:

She does look stunning.

When you Facebook stalk and you accidentally hit the "add friend" button but you only realise when they've added you back and you know that your hour of death has come. Bye earth

...when your body needs sleep but your head doesn't listen to it because it thinks the way to make sure you're awake early and on time is to not sleep at all.../just be on stand-by mode...

...oooops, unfriend them again...can you do that on Facebook..if not then bye CeeCee, we loved your time here on earth.../your were fabulous..:lovedup:..

When someone makes a great point on a subject that makes you think and actually see things from their point of view, only for them to then end the great point they were making with... and anyone who believes different to me is clearly a bigot racist and a moron of the highest order.

Lol. I unfriended them

About Jamelia it wasn't creative differences


"Janet Street Porter, 68, then said: 'I was completely in agreement with Jamelia and I said you've got to ask yourself if a young girl is already size 20-25, can she run around with her children, can she enjoy life or is she storing up health problems for later?"
"So I do feel like Jamelia has been somewhat unfairly picked on"
https://www.google.co.uk/amp/www.dai...?client=safari

I mean Janet called Prince George a cross dressing millionaire. If Jamelia was going to be axed over anything she might've as well said that. And see how Janet is saying she added to Jamelias argument- but is she still going to plop her ass on that overpaid chair come Monday? Oui!

..I wonder if Jamelia has definitely been axed CeeCee, has it been officially announced and the reason given....?...I just always think that Loose Women opinions of the panel are 'staged' to offer differences and varied opinions that people could have...so they're all told which perspective to 'argue their views'..?..

Yup in the link posted

....hmmm, it's a bit dodgy if that really is the reason and others on the panel haven't had the same response to their 'controversial opinion which could offend'...because that's the whole concept of the show...I'm always a little dubious of the DM and it's slant anyway in these things...she seems as though she's set on her career path direction anyway with the segment she's doing on This Morning.../I was thinking a little while ago myself how little devotion to beauty products for the black skin...

It'll be interesting to see if anyone is sacked over this Chad Evans controversy recently, if they've axed Jamelia for that.

..yeah I did read over the weekend that he could take a lawsuit against them../the programme...

...Marsh, put your hat on...it's a bit unsettling seeing you naked at 7.30am...

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Ammi, those that have wanted to leave for a different path, were given the honor of announcing they left, this was not the case!! She was unfairly targeted, as Janet Street Porter said. http://i.imgur.com/3qFbYNa.gif Poor bae hasn't posted on social media in 5 days.
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..I've just looked at some of the comments on YouTube..(I imagine some may have been taken down..)...but one of them near the top would suggest it's from a black guy as well...awful though...it feels like regression as well because I'm sure there has been similar videos in the past..?..maybe those had the same negativity, it's just that I didn't notice the comments...

Yeah we get negativity from all sides. When you see a black girl with attitude or that is defensive, don't be quick to judge. Everyday black girls deal with this sort of thing where you can feel like everybody is against you just because you're not fair skin. A black girl can get hated just for existing. Every video has a light skin girl or white girl but put a dark skin girl in **** hits the fan. And that's in everything.
But black guys nowadays are morons. It stems from self hate. They date all the fair skin girls they want but let them see a black girl do the same! Black girls can date interracially and still support black men but can black women expect the same? Nope! While black women create organisations to support the black community black boys create #whitegirlsareevolving. #ruinablackgirlsdate all we do is exist :shrug: all white girls do is exist too but they get praised for it. Well any ways I don't respect black guys like that. Luckily not all of them are like that. There are still many that realise that black women have it hard even before racism and they can still support you

....hmmmm, I'm just going to try to break this down a bit....I haven't experienced things that you have CeeCee and experienced the prejudices that you have and you always make me think about stuff that I hadn't thought about so much...but I don't know, maybe I'm over-thinking and I am obviously aware that prejudice against skin colour exists...but hmmm, how am I trying to explain this..if for instance you say...when you see a black girl with attitude, don't judge/be quick to judge..?...well, I probably wouldn't anyway, just knee-jerk judge anyone 'with attitude' because it's just not generally how my thought processes work, I would probably tend to think there must be a reason for that 'attitude' and for their defensiveness...(I'd probably also think, did I say/do something that I wasn't aware of that had offended..)...anyways though, we're all different aren't we and some would judge someone else who appeared to have attitude for what to them would appear to be no reason, but that's it though..they would judge anyone with that attitude no matter what the skin colour because it's the attitude without cause..(so it would be seeming to them..)...that they would be judging and not the skin colour of the person with it...?...and then because by the by that girl is a black girl, it goes around and around that a black girl is being judged for an attitude that she has built up through time and her own life experiences...so almost like self prophesising a need to feel defensive..?....I mean just generally 'having an attitude' in character is only going to bring negative judgement because it would whoever that person was but because she would be black, she would probably be factoring in something that (for some people she had attitude with...)...wouldn't apply...if she did feel a definite prejudice toward her though from someone specifically, then yeah...attitude away girl or confront them on their prejudice or etc...



...the same with...it's ok for a black guy to date a white girl but the other way around it would be judged differently..?..there again though I completely bow to your knowledge and experiences and there is certainly judgement in the comments in the vid but those are surely individual comments and saying something about an individual rather than a 'general black guy' type thing..I mean in all of our worlds, what's good for the male is sometimes not good for the female.../we just have to look at something like Big Brother to see that.../how a female, any female is judged much more harshly and in a way that males aren't for their general relationship and sexual behaviour...


..I mean I totally agree with you about the vid and the comments and that there is prejudice in some but I guess what I'm trying to say is that in any colour and in any world, how much has to also be put down to general being an idiot in character of individuals..it's kind of taking each individual thing for me I guess and some things will be prejudice against skin colour without question but some won't, they'll be more prejudicing against gender and sexism...and if 'black' is factored in when it didn't apply then does it not just contribute to a prejudice...


...ughhh, I'm useless at getting thoughts straight in my head in the mornings but hopefully that makes a little bit of sense...

..I guess what I'm trying to say/trying to do is look at all of the 'isms' and 'ists' and 'judgements' individually because someone would be judged for an attitude when their attitude against a specific person seemed to show a defensiveness that wasn't necessary with that person.../whatever their life experiences of prejudices just wouldn't be considered if they were deemed to be rude for no reason..?...and females are (sometimes and often) judged in a different way to males and that's also a separate 'ist' where some thought process may come from...(not all obviously..)...

Well there is a stereotype all around the world of black girls being loud, aggressive, defensive, I suppose that's what I was referring to. You can't deny that stereotype exits in fact, some people believing that stereotype, use at a reason to not date black girls, or as to why they have no black girl friends. I am saying if a girl is like that, take into consideration what I mentioned above.

There are loud and aggressive girls in all races and they are given a pass but all black girls seemed to be stereotyped as that and are given a massive X if you even dare to show a sign of that stereotype.

Trust me it's not just an individual thing under the video. It's an everyday thing black women go through and there are tons of forums where black women are discussing this. I just read a thread called ''I'm beginning to hate black men'' where these were discussed at length and this was before this video.

''the same with...it's ok for a black guy to date a white girl but the other way around it would be judged differently..?'' yes unfortunately that's the way some black guys think, which I don't understand but they think like this. Black girls with white guys are called bend wenches and all sorts. And the favorite ''black women are at the bottom of the barell and you're just a fetish'' I suppose black men feel like being in an interracial relationship makes them feel special and they're somehow think that it makes them better than their race (it doesn't) so it's a blow when a black woman is doing the same. I see black women and men arguing back and forth and it's always the lady saying who you date doesn't make you special get over it. You're just dating a human. Then the black men goes into the myth that all of them have BBC and that's why they're preferred...sigh...my head... literally the same arguments from them. It's a lengthy complicated subject.

...yeah I can see that it's complicated CeeCee, I haven't got time today with work today but I'm going to have a google for some sites../forums when I have more time and look at some discussions to try to get a better insight../perspective because I think that I'm very limited on this with my thoughts atm...

Don't it's nasty. Let us battle it out

When you're running up the stairs, clearly in a rush and some random from the opposite direction is like "slow down take your time, hun " bitch I ain't an exercise freak! I'm running because I got somewhere to go and I'm late. Mind your biz!

WELL where do I start

When you're skinnier than somebody else so they think they can have a go at you for saying you want to lose some weight. NO HUN I want to lose weight for myself. If you're gonna cry about your weight every day lose some yourself. NOT MY PROBLEM.

When you're so tired from reading reports that you keep calling the paper a C U ** when it doesn't flip because of your dry hands

...awww that sounds grim..:hug:..I hope the reports are a little bit interesting to compensate, CeeCee...

That's terrible CeeCee, listen to the lovely Michelle though and remember for every ignorant asshole there's also a really great person too
http://www.nbcnews.com/news/nbcblk/m...t-lady-n585056

On a side note, I have to say while we were in the States just recently i met so many black women and I didn't come across any kind of negative attitude, they were all so lovely and friendly and helpful, infact two lovely black women adopted us one night in New Orleans and brought us around to all their favourite bars and plied us with Tequila :laugh:

...speaking of Michelle, did you both see the recent racist comments made about her..?..


http://www.msn.com/en-gb/news/world/...cid=spartandhp

..I adore her I have to say, now there is a lady so worthy of admiration...:lovedup:...

Disgusting comments from a Mayor no less??? And what's worse it was another woman who said it too

Michelle has more class in her little finger than Melania has in her whole body as well

..yeah I always find comments attacking female's appearances by other females really awful as well even if they don't racial undertones.../it's something I can never understand...

Thanks for the link, i'll make time to watch it. :hee:

Yes, of course for every asshole there is a lovely person. There are wonderful black men out there, those aren't the ones that annoy me.

Great experince you had. I dream of ''NOLA''

Ugh that racist comment. Not surprised. A lot of people now aren't afraid to voice their opinions anymore and that's a good and bad thing because we get to know who those that discriminate are.


Was only interesting because it made me realise I don't read as much as I should anymore :laugh:

That TIBB don't understand the concept of 'I'm _______' when they see a picture. You just don't randomly say it you say it about something odd in the pic but whatever.