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I don't know what it is
That makes feel like this I don't know who you are But you must be some kind of superstar |
Ya let Mokka Jr join
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Waitin for the arrival of Mokkadaughter
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btw i really love my new avi does anyone else love it
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mokka ask mokkadaughter if she likes my avi pls
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Mokka does mokkadaughter have to do the sort of US thing and stay in high school until she's 18 where as we go to college (or sixth form) before uni?
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In Ontario there is a grade 13 |
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Ontario is in the French part... Right??? |
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Adam did you get the free adele song on Google play? I'm currently bopping to Black Magic
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I'll echo what a few people have said and say it's a bad idea.
TiBB, for me is an escape from real life. It's easier to be open on here. Like I wouldn't sit with my nan and discuss that I regret not buying a suction pad for my dildo. I can share that sort of thing on here. It's best to keep home life and TiBB life separate. |
It depends. I think she would probably have to deal with the multi stuff, because i think in the multis eyes, attacking someones daughter would be absolutely hilarious and full of bants, so if she's strong enough to not care about all that stuff, then yeah sure, why not? But at 15 a lot of kids get upset by what they get said to them on the internet, which is fair enough, it takes a while to get used to things not upsetting you.
That would be my only concern really. There was never really anyone that vile when I joined, but there was like 18+ stuff posted which wasnt a bit deal cause i was 15/16 anyway |
Oh and I just 'awwed' at the fact she wants to be friends with Tom, lol!!! They should become pen pals!!!!
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Yes I would love to meet MiniMokka!
Say hi to her for me if she isn't allowed to create an account. |
..I think that it's good and a positive that she wants to join and be on a site/forum with her mum, 15yrs old doesn't last forever, you know...I'm on a site with one of my sons atm who is much older than 15yrs and as close as we are, it was always hmmmm, well we just won't say that you're my mum, eh...
...we know all of the not so good stuff, we know it because we can't deny it so it has to be seriously considered, I think...but if it was me..?..I would also consider the good stuff in equal importance...you say Mokka that you didn't post for a while because of the bad stuff..but you're posting now..you're posting now because of the good stuff..?...and because that good stuff is what keeps us all here and many of us having been here for many years...because however grim sometimes, I'm thinking that the good things about TiBB out-weigh for most of us...and that's something that is not to lose sight of because of the friendships we make on here... ....and tbh, I'm guessing that whatever site/forum that she would be on, some not great stuff would be prevalent there because it's just a part of the internet sadly...I remember when I joined DS, within a few days I was getting some very dodgy PMs, I don't know what I would have thought of them, had I only been 15yrs old...and another much smaller forum I posted on for quite a few years..there were things that made me feel uncomfortable at times...so really, if she was to join a forum/site that wasn't TiBB for instance ..there could be worrying stuff going on that you didn't know about/things that would disturb you somewhat if you did know...but if she joins here, then nothing would be unknown to you, you're here and you know exactly what's going on...the good/the bad/the ugly...it's difficult to protect our children from everything/to shield them from the more grim things on the internet but to be able to be there with them and guide them is always, always a good thing...and her being 15yrs old, it gives you the opportunity to do that...there is a high chance that she'll have more negative internet experiences anyway but with TiBB, she'll also have a close community bond to counter them as well should they happen.... |
...jeez, this is not SD section, I know...that only strated off as a quick few lines before I got my shower../don't let her on, she's made me late for work, I knew she would be trouble and a distraction...
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she isn't even on yet and Ammi wants her banned :hehe: |
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TIBB is a microcosm of the real world, and I would let her join.
Obviously, there ARE certain threads which are full of filth and depravity (Or so I'm told because I would NEVER patronise such threads :hee:) but there really is NOTHING on here that the average 15 year old does not encounter at school or on other internet sites, and such threads are more than compensated for by the vast majority of other thread topics which entertain and inform. In addition, she will, as we all have done, make REAL friends - people who are 'on the same wavelength', have the same interests, and likes and dislikes. While 'cyber life' should never replace real life, and no kids should ever overuse the internet to 'live their lives by proxy', expanding her circle of friends and her knowledge, and honing her communication skills, is always a good thing. Let her join, but educate her on what to expect from certain members by giving her a potted 'bio' - you know; 'LT is a wind up merchant' and 'Kirk is utterly brilliant' :hee: - that sort of thing. If little Mokka is half as nice a person as her mum, the forum will be the winner. |
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