Originally Posted by Slevin (Post 9361688)

i would say the bully card is the most popular these days

Originally Posted by Jason. (Post 9361181)

Makosi, Vanessa, Gina

Originally Posted by Lilbro (Post 9361188)

+ Adjoa

Originally Posted by armand.kay (Post 9361232)

I cant believe I ever thought black girls were unfairly labeled as aggressive... turns out the ones i thought were nice were actually just passive aggressive.

Originally Posted by Tozzie (Post 9361294)

because it gets on some peoples tits when colour comes into it, like it or not some coloured people have chips on their shoulder about colour and bring the subject up themselves, even that black bloke on BBots said she shouldn't have done that

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9361764)

But how would you know what experiences a black person has in everyday life? Just because you don't personally see it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9361775)

We don't know what experiences a white person has in everyday life either, but you dont here them bleating on

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9361778)

I am a white person so yeah I know how it feels to be a white woman and I know how other people treat me as a white woman

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9361784)

If you have a vile attitude regardless of colour ,you will one day be met with it back ,and it doesn't go down well,Im not saying you've got a vile attitude lol

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9361788)

Ok but that isn't the point I was making

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9361778)

I am a white person so yeah I know how it feels to be a white woman and I know how other people treat me as a white woman

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9361789)

My point is when you talk to people like **** REGARDLESS of colour of skin, one day you will get your just deserts ,white people don't have a race card to throw in

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 9361797)

Again you're missing the point I was making when replying to Tozzie

Originally Posted by sampvt (Post 9361791)

In summer I go pink but i get treated ok all the time, white or pink. Most aggressive blacks use the race card like free passes just because its become a bit of a trend. Modern society sides with the intolerance of racist issues so its easy to bring up if you feel you are loosing an argument. is it the colour of my skin that offends you is the fav. we dont need to bring it up, they do. Most blacks have learned to live without race issues and most whites shy away from these issues but there are allways the idiots in society that drag up colour, weight, in fact anything to gain an edge, thats life im afraid.

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9361672)

Spotted that one yesterday, clearly a banned member ^^

Originally Posted by sampvt (Post 9361802)

Im missing it as well. I am Irish like you and when I came to england yrs ago i got the usual Paddy and spud basher, but when things got hot i got the thick mick handle, that hurt. So being white does not exclude you from race issues.

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9361809)

That would explain why they told me that we finally agreed on something

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 9361775)

We don't know what experiences a white person has in everyday life either, but you dont here them bleating on

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 9361820)

....if Sukhvinder called Rebecca aggressive she wouldnt call out Sukhvnder for being racist...it works both ways. Why does the race card only ever come up when black/Asian people are called out for something. White people are a race but I have never seen them use that card when they are being shouted at. :shrug:

Originally Posted by *mazedsalv** (Post 9361520)

Thought it was awful and uncalled for.

Jeez, are people saying that we didn't call Helen aggressive because she's white? Helen was aggressive as **** and she was seen as that from Day 2. Nothing to do with whether she was white or black.

In this series alone, we have heard of people calling Chanelle, Joe and Tom aggressive too. Are they black? No.

Effing race card, such a poor thing to bring out. I would understand if something like "well your a stereotypical angry black woman" was said, but it came from nowhere.

Does this mean I am never allowed to call a black person aggressive in the chance I may be called racist? I'll call any Dom, Dick or Harry aggressive if they are aggressive.

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 9361820)

....if Sukhvinder called Rebecca aggressive she wouldnt call out Sukhvnder for being racist...it works both ways. Why does the race card only ever come up when black/Asian people are called out for something. White people are a race but I have never seen them use that card when they are being shouted at. :shrug:

Originally Posted by Samm (Post 9361827)

You're missing the point, Helen won, if Helen was black she wouldn't of won for a fact

Originally Posted by ethanjames (Post 9361837)

well she isn't wrong? if she was white she would be labelled as a queen but because she is black she is labelled as aggressive