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Niamh. 05-07-2018 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10073255)
Im down to accepting it being ok after a certain age...probably 14
My baby boy is 14 and a black belt in Karate , no one is hitting him [emoji12]

Niamh. 05-07-2018 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10073258)
I remember just from watching Supernanny the parents on there use to be too soft and timid to discipline their kids :bored: . Which is why they were in such a huge mess .

Kids going to bed when they like
Punching kicking their parents
Screaming/ swearing
:facepalm:

When parents ground their kids it Should mean GROUNDED :nono:
No toys ,no TV , no sweets ,no friends allowed round and go to bed early .

Some kids push boundaries today as they know they'll get away with it with no consequences . So yes punishment should happen but that doesn't necessarily mean slapping them,it can be removing their games away, take away their computer etc , and properly ground them .
The parents on that show were ridiculous tbf

Beso 05-07-2018 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10073272)
My baby boy is 14 and a black belt in Karate , no one is hitting him [emoji12]
Not even his opponents?:joker:


He will have discipline drummed into him from his club.. My niece n nephew are the same..both are a lot calmer everytime i go up to visit and thats down to karate....and my sterness when i see them.:nono:

GoldHeart 05-07-2018 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10073275)
The parents on that show were ridiculous tbf
Ong they were aggravating to watch :fist: . And they use to break and reward the kids even when they behaved badly WTH :notimpressed:.

Niamh. 05-07-2018 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10073278)
Not even his opponents?:joker:


He will have discipline drummed into him from his club.. My niece n nephew are the same..both are a lot calmer everytime i go up to visit and thats down to karate....and my sterness when i see them.:nono:
They can try [emoji12]

But yeah it's a great discipline to have and he lives and breathes it

Beso 05-07-2018 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10073291)
Ong they were aggravating to watch :fist: . And they use to break and reward the kids even when they behaved badly WTH :notimpressed:.
The kids are like a tv for these numpties.

montblanc 05-07-2018 07:59 PM
if punishments include 'beating,' NO

Beso 05-07-2018 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10073293)
They can try [emoji12]

But yeah it's a great discipline to have and he lives and breathes it
Scotland v ireland, you never know.
:cat:

Niamh. 05-07-2018 08:09 PM
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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10073299)
Scotland v ireland, you never know.
:cat:
He was only in Scotland at a competition at the start of June actually [emoji23]

Beso 05-07-2018 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10073315)
He was only in Scotland at a competition at the start of June actually [emoji23]
Chris ewing karate?

Niamh. 05-07-2018 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10073325)
Chris ewing karate?
WTKO

Beso 05-07-2018 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10073338)
WTKO
Ygtf.:joker:

Redway 05-07-2018 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted by armand.kay (Post 10072979)
A more suitable punishment for a kid nowadays would be taking away privileges and technology/grounding for a week because honestly what is more likely to make you think twice about what you're doing a smack thats over in no time (and if your parents aren't completely abusive probably wont hurt that much) or knowing that you'll get all your privileges stripped away from you for a week?
Do you have black parents at all?

Niamh. 05-07-2018 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 10073359)
Do you have black parents at all?
[emoji58]

Redway 05-07-2018 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10072904)
I can see you've put a lot of thought into this so I guess we have to respect your stance.
In some cultures discipline for kids goes a little further than threatening them with the naughty step. And they grow to realise that their parents aren’t their mates and have respect for them.

Completely, completely different cultures TS. Completely different.

armand.kay 05-07-2018 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 10073359)
Do you have black parents at all?
Yeah both strict but just in other ways like I can only recall being sacked by my mum 2 times and it wasn't really painful :laugh:

Redway 05-07-2018 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted by armand.kay (Post 10073400)
Yeah both strict but just in other ways like I can only recall being sacked by my mum 2 times and it wasn't really painful :laugh:
Only twice? Flipping hell.

The usual order’s twice a week.

user104658 05-07-2018 08:53 PM
At 14 I was already 6'2 and my dad was 6'1. If he'd slapped me it would have sparked a Royal Rumble :umm2:

Niamh. 05-07-2018 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 10073402)
Only twice? Flipping hell.

The usual order’s twice a week.
You do an awful lot of stereotyping black people Redway

Redway 05-07-2018 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10073427)
You do an awful lot of stereotyping black people Redway
That’s because I’m not white British myself. I might not have said it out-and-out but I’ve hinted at it for a long time.

Northern Monkey 05-07-2018 09:00 PM
The thing is.There’s no one size fits all approach.There’s no guide that suits all kids because they’re all different(it’d be so much easier if their was).They respond differently to different things,They have different innate temperaments.What works for some kids doesn’t for others.
I usually find that i’m scary enough without having to smack mine.Blackmail works well too :laugh:
However if it works for some kids i’m not against it within reason obviously.

Niamh. 05-07-2018 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 10073433)
That’s because I’m not white British myself. I might not have said it out-and-out but I’ve hinted at it for a long time.
It doesn't matter, you can't just basically say all black parents hit their kids or black people are homophobic, it's a ridiculous generalisation

Kizzy 05-07-2018 09:03 PM
Omg Supernanny! I didn't hit mine but I'd watch that and shout 'Whack the little bleeder!!!!' :fist:

Redway 05-07-2018 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10073468)
It doesn't matter, you can't just basically say all black parents hit their kids or black people are homophobic, it's a ridiculous generalisation
It’s not a ridiculous generalisation though. It’s a non-PC truth. I’m allowed to say that.

It’s not something that’s even that deep a thing in our culture. It’s just a trend in black parents. It might not sound nice and super-duper PC but we don’t make it a big deal in our culture. It only shocks people who assume we all have the same culture and attitudes to things. Shock alert we don’t. We really don’t.

GoldHeart 05-07-2018 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 10073468)
It doesn't matter, you can't just basically say all black parents hit their kids or black people are homophobic, it's a ridiculous generalisation
Redway is probably talking from his own experience .

But yeah every family is different and from different cultures , some are very strict when it comes to disciplining their kids and others are more laid back .

And then you get total idiots who spoil their kids constantly and never punish them :bored: .


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