Can someone specify how exactly Aaron has messed with Faye's head
 

Alot of people have said 'Ohh, I feel Aaron is messing with Faye etc'. 'I get the impression he's using Faye' 'Aaron will dump Faye' etc. Forget the guess work and conjecture, can someone specifically give clear examples.

Bare in mind Faye nominated Aaron 3 times, slags him off behind his back, slags him off to his face, never let's him forget the fact that as a single man not then with Faye he kissed Maisy, and she draped herself all over Anton on evening and said 'have you got a semi Anton?'.

Thanks

He hasn't! In fact she's messed with his head waaaaay more!!!!
BB has gone so far beyond being a joke now i don't think it can possibly be saved.

This is a good question and I'm waiting to hear those examples as well. :conf:

Anyone?

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Faye is messing with his head,she is so needy,the whole family is puddled,and gem,don't even go there!!

Seems to be the other way round to me.

Though I still like Faye and think shes just highly emotional rather than doing it on purpose.

It's no wonder she's such an emotional mess with a family like hers, I feel sorry for her actually

Hard as I've tried, I cannot for the life of me see any replies that give solid, concrete reasons or evidence from anyone so far that Aaron has messed with Faye's head........ unless treating her like a responsbile adult when it's due, respecting her, not jumping on her bones when she's pissed, not falling out with her when she's blind drunk but looks after her and makes sure she's in bed before he falls asleep,, doesn't fall out with her or cause a scene when she's pissed & groping other men and trying to get them to kiss her, apologising to her when he feels he has hurt or offended her, and even discussing with other housemates that if it worked out on the outside, he would be able to work from her home town area - if it was serious enough - unless any of that can be regarded as messing with her head.

If anyone is messing - it's her. Not him.

he jumped into bed with Maisy after telling her he really liked her on that date thing..he ignore her the other day just after she told him how much she loved him.

but it's all ok now he's stood up for her and he's there for her! Faye and Aaron 4ever!

but she's clearly learning nothing though.

She's behaving in the way in which it appears she has been conditioned to: by berating him, critisising him, acting with him the way Jem acts with her.

You think she'd see the bigger picture here - but she doesn't - she seems to think only of when that type of behaviour affects HER - not how that same behaviour that SHE displays, affects him.

Yeah I know.

I'm glad I have a supportive family, rather than ones who just try to run my life. They dont agree with a lot of my decisions, but realise they are MY mistakes to make, and are just there to pick up the pieces if it all goes wrong. I thought most families were like this :/

you're really lucky Vicky not all families are like that

Faye's pretty emotionally immature and extremely high maintenance and I take my hat off to Aaron for lasting this long!

TBH Vicky, I'd have thought not only most families were like this: but most people who care for someone else, whether families, friends, other loved ones.

We can steer people on a path -but as adults, they are individuals, with their own thoughts, ideas, views, wants, needs and desires and that must be respected. One size does not fit all - that's what families/friends care about - them being there if adn when those times come, to comfort - not the 'be there to berate and make the person feel like crap and want to control'.

In my honest opinion...Fayes mother and sister have made her look more of a fool than Aaron could have ever done.

They have basically told the world that at 21 she is incapable of making her own decisions...still needing mummy and big sis' backing for everything. Fayes mum had to wait like 2 weeks to tell her daughter her concerns, not do it on TV where 1m ish people will see. Shes kinda made her a laughing stock :/

Two things stick out to me

Harry said
"The attention to detail is unreal" regarding his relationship with Faye
Aaron made no effort to correct him.

In the bathroom suggesting she could of dumped her mates to support him. After he had took the brunt of the criticism after the stranded task

What do you think?

yep, hard not to agree with that.

the mother has also shown to the whole BB viewing audience: what type of family Faye has and their influence on her. (as well as Jem).

Let's be honest: it would be enough to send many a half decent bloke running for this hills....... Mrs 'Bates' clearly wants to control her daughters - and they are allowing her to do precisely that.

Well Aaron non Fans are a rare bread around here be patient, were like the no 49 bus, one will turn up eventually. :wink:

the only ones messing with fayes head are her sister and mother and not Aaron

Let's break this down.

1. He jumped into bed with Maisy after date. Yes and Faye made it clear that she didn't fancy Aaron and that she saw him as a geek and bit of a joke. She also fancied Jay back then but he turned her down. After the date she mocked Aaron romantically, ridiculed him with Tom for not speaking dirty and even offered to help him come out as gay.

1. Ignored her when she declared her love - Aaron was deep in conversation with Tom and Faye was just jumping in like an attention-seeking toddler. He can speak to other people and she needs to realise that Aaron's life doesn't evolve around pleasing her. In the real world Aaron has a 6 year old, he doesn't need another one. That's not messing with her head, that's putting her in her place and telling her to grow the ******* up!!! :joker:

So if Harry says something that becomes evidence. Really?! :joker: Tell me you're not a lawyer. What next, Jay says that Tom is a leprechaun so it *must* be true. :joker: btw Aaron also did correct Harry if you watch that back ONLINE.

Not sure what you mean about stranded task

Well said :thumbs:......I agree

Not true. Aaron said: "I do like her."

Harry: "I know. That's the problem." (or "that's what I'm worried about" - something like that)

Exactly but I think that was cut off right at the end of the HL but on BB website

really?go back n watch highlights