Bullying
 

I don't know if there is already a thread on this but;

Have you ever been bullied?
What happend?
What did you do about?
Has it stopped?

I don't know if this is bullying but someone at my bowling calls me Jonny Biscuits non stop and holds my shoulders and shakes me and pushes me.

I've been bullied, don't really want to go into it but it was verbal not physcial and used to be every day.

lol i was never bullied other than joing around i was always short and skinny.

now im at the gym i get no trouble at all.

ive bullied people but only in fun ways aswell just like i got.

Were your friends with you when it happened?

You only need to share if you want to. You don't have to.

In primary school, I got the Dennis treatment :thumbs:

They didn't get punished at all, I was pissed off.

I still get the occasional stick thin based joke.

When you're getting bullied someones degrading you, it covers a large area.

It does sound like someone is bullying you. Is it a friend or is it someone you don't know?

No. Although there is one friend who laughs along with it doesn't exactly stick up for me but that's because he's scared and asslicks everyone.

Well yes I do know the person who is doing it. He does in front of people though his cousin occasionally joins in. Everyone finds it funny except me. I asked him on MSN and he said that he is not bullying me he is only doing it for a laugh.

can you avoid going where ever he is without being with a few firends?

and you not have a brother or anything?

if its a laugh do it back?

No I can't do it back. I am not like that.I couldn't possibly.

Aw, I'm sorry firewire. :hug:

I wish I could help but I really don't know what to say.

Problem is I go on a Thursday.

And it will happen again tonight. I know I will sit against the wall.

Have you ever been bullied? - ginger hair, big no no for any male child in school
What happendd? - verbal, sometimes even physical, no punching or anything like stuff thrown, got spat on once! some knob head
What did you do about? - not much, can't really do much, i was a push over at school, never really stood up for myself
Has it stopped? - has now, college has been very refreshing, to be able to go to college with people who are grown up and not idiots has been brilliant, bring on uni!

I've not bullied myself, though I take the piss a lot but thats just me, wouldn't ever punch someone or physically harm someone... :kiss:

Wow, that must be a horrible situation to be in. I don't want you to feel you have to give up bowling, but I will make a suggestion. Be ready, then if this bully grabs your shoulders, "accidentally" push him really hard with your elbow or something. The next time he does it, push him off, then turn around and "accidentally" punch him. Be sure to make it look like it was just a reflex (meaning you have to do it fast before you have a chance to see who it is!). Be shocked and be like, "Oh my God, I am SOO sorry! I thought you were a mugger or something!" (Note: Don't punch him until the second time he does it. Chances are you won't need to; after a good hard shove he'll likely have learned his lesson and stop or go pick on someone else.)

Hopefully he'll stop doing this. Everyone will think it was an accident (and who wouldn't be scared when someone sneaks up on him from behind, right?) and he'll learn that there's a price to pay for his bullying ways.

Hope this helps, and good luck!

Firewire - 1
Bully - 0

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I am to scared what happens if I cause a fight. I really don't know what I would do then.

It only happened in school. Outside of school there alright I get on with them.

Have you ever been bullied?
Yeah but in Primary 1 when i was 5 :laugh:

What happend?
Mostly verbal but i had my hair pulled and i was pushed the girl was a fatty :laugh: she nearly squashed me :laugh2:

What did you do about?
Told my mum then she told the head teacher and it got sorted out

Has it stopped?
Yeah

Have you ever been bullied?Yeah.

What happend?This guy in my school kept calling me names and punching me (really hard punches as well..) for no reason at all.

What did you do about? i moved school.Well i had to anyway,the school was far from where i lived.

Has it stopped? obviously.

Theres also another one,When i moved to my new school,this guy and his friends kept telling me to "open my eyes" which is ****ing racist(because im asian).What i did?i stood up to him and he got scared of me and now he wont dare to say **** about me lol.

never been bullied

Once or twice at Primary school, because of who my friends were mostly i guess, one time we went on a trip and when a friend defended me they said they'd stop if i'd stop hanging round with them but i obviously didn't, can't let bullies tell you who you can be friends with, it stopped though after i got to secondary school.

ive been picked on...but they didnt kno who they were picking on!
and now there all stuck up....

I'm sorry to hear that, Firewire. Have you spoken to anyone (any potential figure of authority...like a teacher/the manager at this bowling alley? I should have read the first post more haha, I forgot what you said mostly). Welcome back, btw.

Aw thats a horrible situation to be in Jonathon. I suggest that you dont do it back because it could cause confrontation however just have a word with him or your friends say that you dont really feel comftable with it etc..
Hopefully he will stop, if he dosent maybe get one of your mates to tell him, he may listen to them maybe?

And to answer your question i havent ever been bullied, luckily. But i have seen people being bullied and i have put a stop to it. Luckily i am the kind of person who people listen to in school so by me having a quick word they kind of sided with me and said that they would stop the nasty comments etc... Unfourtunatly the girls who was being mum died and everyone was really supportive towards her. Now they dont do it anymore. xx

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