Am i homophobic?
 

I have no problem with gay people and voted for brian to win (bb2)...and my sister is a lesbian.
But i do have a problem with watching a gay romance on big brother.
As much as i accept gay people kiss and hold hands and bum each other...I don't want to watch it on big brother.
I am a straight man and it repulses me to see it.
Big brother has done everything they can this year to make it happen and sometimes i wish they just get on with it get it over and done with so i can eat while i watch big brother again.

Ok now you can all call me homophobic :thumbs:

Me thinks you doth protest too much?

so you can eat while you watch?

Turn your telly over, or switch off!

homop...:laugh3: just kidding, everyone is entitled to their own views on things, likes n dislikes etc

I don't think you're homophobic although plenty of people will probably disagree. I think you are the same as the majority of straight men!

Did you have the same problem when kris and sophie kissed?

Or freddie and angel?

If not, then yes...you are homophobic ;)

My proble with the gay characters is that they're so utterly predictable and boring.

I mean, david and charlie- two utterly interchangeable, prancing, mincing queens.

rodrigo - a hysterical queen.

They bring nothing to the house.

It shouldn't matter whether your homophobic or not.. your opinion wont change about it, if it makes you feel awkward (which it does for me) then your not going to feel any different about it. Men can be with each other thats fine, its been a way of life for a long long time but like yeah we don't have to see the kissing. Infact Kris/Dogface kissing was awkward to watch so maybe you just have a problem with public kissing?

Yes you are indeed homophobic, as I am breederphobic. Do you really think I want to see two breeders slobbering over each other all day. It's not that I hate breeders.....some of my best friends are that way inclined. But do we really need to see breeders exchange saliva and more on our TV's?

So not enjoying watching 2 men at is means i am homophobic?? ok fair enough :bigsmile:

Na you are not homophobic. You don't like watching two men kissing etc (and there is no problem with your views). In much the same way there are many gay men (not all) who don't like to see men and women kissing etc.

Throw a skirt on Rodrigo and I might.

no man or woman in the UK wants to see 2 blokes kiss each other, unless they are gay.

You can accept it as what happens but you dont have to like it.

I find myself agreeing with superfanno1, but it extends to most levels of the housemate selection process

try flicking through a copy of "What Car" whilst its on...i believe many straight men find this soothing......

personally all sex makes me vomit...i wonder if i'm doing it right:puzzled:

So now it is homophobic to be repulsed by unnatural acts?

I thought the whole idea of tolerance for gays was that they cannot help the way they feel, and neither do they want to change the way they feel?

How does that not apply to someone who is repulsed by homosexuality?

I agree with you i have nothing against them, i just dont want to watch it to be honest..

i think most folks agree

I dnon'don't want to watch it - I want to take part in it. lol.

I don't want to see anyone get it on whatever their sexual preference. It isn't what interest me in the programme.

lol he says he is bi but he seems more gay then charlie and david

Nowadays (especially forums) you can be called homophobic if you dont happen to agree with a homosexual point of view. It seems to be a defence mechanism.

a guy on big mouth said it best.
I don't mind spiders the same as i don't mind gays.But i would'nt want to go home one night and find one in me bath. :bigsmile:

LOL very true

You asked :tongue:

I gave my opinion...not saying Im right

to be honest i hate all bb romance's cause most are fake and the rest are mostly shallow heads aka dale jen mikey grace channell ziggy kris (like dogface) though.

it makes me feel ill to watch 2 guys kissing if im being completely honest. Im sure Every guy I know would feel the same.

How do you feel watching 2 girls kiss? :laugh:

Yeah i heard that before.

Though i hate spiders in general they scare me..:sad:

pretty damn good

what about enjoying 2 homophobic men kissing, what would that be?

That would be them being honest about their feelings for the first time. :devil:

Assuming the girls are hot, That's one of the most fantastic sights, and makes me feel happy...providing me with faith that the world can indeed be a wonderful place.

I can see what you're saying. A gay couple looking at a staright couple won't tell you it repulses them but a straight guy looking at two blokes noshing each other off can turn some people off.. big time.

But I'd say the way to approach it is to understand it happens and just be aware that BB has a huge gay following and therefore it's bound to happen. Don't forget other people are watching the show as well.

I see exactly what you're saying though and it is completely natuaral to feel like this.. You are not homophobic, you just don't like c**k.

we find women attractive so it's double the attraction...we don't find men attractive so it has the opposite effect

I cant watch 2 blokes kiss either or 2 butch lezbos.

:thumbs:. Friends with the popular girl, flirt a little but don't really do much, and bitch constantly... :sleep::sleep::sleep:

If you're referring to Charlie and Rodrigo then I would say you're extremely homophobic. Since when has it been a romance? They've kissed once and even then it was in bed with the covers over so you couldn't even see anything, so any repulsion over this 'gay romance' you are having is a symptom of your own imagination. :whistle:

You should say "I don't like watching other peoples sex lives" that would indeed not be homophobic.

If you dislike a gay couple kissing then that would not be homophobic, so long as you don't say "I want them to stop kissing".

I am a gay guy myself and don't mind kissing, whatever sex, but I wouldn't want to watch others having sex, regardless of what gender the two consenting adults are, that is THERE sex life not mine.