Dumped on Valentines day!
 

How bad is that!

We have been dating 4 months, since before Xmas and seen each other ALOT! The plan was to go to his house.. but 3 days before valentines i began to get ignored, i tried calling and all that stuff, but he is active on facebook yet i'm being ignored..

I didn't get one text or message saying happy valentines.. so who knows what has happened?

Is it best to just MOVE ON already you think? Cause this is what my head is telling me to do? I'm angry at him!

Glad im not the only one.

Move on. He seems to be a jerk or a coward.

thats nasty

Is it wrong that something inside me wants revenge!?

I want to meet him once more
kiss him
and then go
you know what
Im suddenly not interested in you
or like
heavily pett
then say that
then just GO
just to sting him
i am childish like that
I watch too many movies
and i want the world to slow down
as i walk away
and my hair to vibrantly bounce
like a wella advert

.. I have been thinking about this all day, I'm just soo angry and it is amplified because it is Valentines day, I don't think i can forgive him? I mean what possible reason could there be for him not to contact message or even txt me, ... He didn't give any hint of this :conf::bawling:

Today has been terrible,

Maybe he spent V. Day with another girl?

:hug: You're wonderful.

And Possiblehousemate you are soo much better without him. Yes it may hurt for the next few months and you maybe filled with self doubt. But on the plus side you are rid of the jerk.

well that has crossed my mind..
but we have been dating 4 months,
to just do this when we had valentines plans is mean!

I havent had a card or anything today not even a text!
I'm fed up, I wonder if he realised he would upset me?

he must have, he has been on facebook all day though, as ive seen his stuff being updated and he has been talking to ppl just ignoring me, and he isn't a "player" or anything, we were getting on absoloutley fine,

maybe valentines freaked him out? :S

Go have sex with his best friend.

LOL! His best friends a lesbian ><

:)

Are you a guy or girl?

I don't wanna say, because my username is possiblehousemate and ive said in other posts im in waiting for a call back off big brother, so dont want them to figure out who i am.. I'm anonymous for now [ i know it sounds sketchy but i gotta be secret, they said going on any forum would automatically exclude me from being in the house ] they can fit the puzzle together n figure you out quite easily i would imagine

OH! and i hope i get on big brother! TO rub it in his face ¬_¬ He doesn't know i auditioned

Well I hope you get on BB too. I was going to apply but I chickened out.

Cheers i hope i get on too, Maybe i will meet someone in the house! When i auditioned i did say i was single, because we didn't announce ourselves as GOING OUT, but he had hinted that was the plan for valentines day.. at least now if i get on big brother i will be fully single and ready to mingle ><

you should have applied, i was nervous the whole day but ya just gotta fight your nerves! It is tough

Chances are thAT if you get in, you will meet someone and fall for them. But on the plus side you will get a magazine deal.

And I'm glad now that I didn't apply. I wouldn't have been able to cope.

I think he is probably the type of guy who would laugh and say; "well I can't catch it twice!"

Was it Valentines day yesterday?

I was too busy contemplating Chinese New Year

aww. :sad:
Maybe in the long-run it was the right thing for you both though :)

idiot

That's life. Better off without him, he was probably cheating behind your back anyway.

Yes. It's a holiday with no real signifigance. A bit like Easter & Christmas rolled into one.

That isn't nice!>!!?>!

Sorry to hear that!

Hmmmmmmmmmm could it be possible he has met someone else?

Harsh........................

Oh come off it. It's a public forum posting personal stuff up like that on a PUBLIC BB forum is askig for trouble - epecially the "heavy" petting bit!

Go and chat to your mates about it not a bunch of cyber peeps.

hilarious

Oi! Niamh is a legend!

And aww possiblehousemate.. this sounds cruel but you are better off without him and I hope you get on bb! :)

Thats horrible :(

how does the op know that official status is dumpsville?

I was talking about being dumped on Valentines day being harsh

aaawwww, thanks Beasty

Ah sorry!

My bad!

It's only just another day to be honest though is it not?

Loads of nonsense if you ask me. And before anyone wades in about my being single and sad and as got no cards, I have a lovely guy who treats me every other week, do not need "the most romantic day of the year" to prove it!


Just another way of cashing in...........................tacky tacky taaaacky!

Did I say anything untoward again Niamh? No, I was only commenting.

Her posts are always spot on....................not a personal attack here

Okay dude.

Yeah, I agree with you but when you're younger or at the beginning of a relationship it means more. Plus, If something crap like being dumped happens on Valentines Day you have to relive the bad memories even more so every year cos you have all the romantic and lovey dovey ****e being pushed in your face for a week or so!!

the upside is that you get 364 days to get a new valentine

Or................................................ .................................................g o out this weekend and pull a hottie!!!!!

But my Chinese friends find it very significant. I even had a Chinese takeout today :sad: