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iRyan 18-06-2010 02:02 AM

Why are the guys always laying all over each other
 
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

vesavius 18-06-2010 02:03 AM

whys it weird?

arsenalforever 18-06-2010 02:04 AM

they want man love brokeback style

headaball 18-06-2010 02:04 AM

They're just comfortable around each other. I think it makes a nice change tbh.

arsenalforever 18-06-2010 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted by headaball (Post 3364786)
They're just comfortable around each other. I think it makes a nice change tbh.

yep sadly its forbidden on these forums

chauncey 18-06-2010 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by iRyan (Post 3364778)
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

Let me just say I love your *stunning* artwork,haha


I think they do it to let out sexual frustration,they need some kind of outlet since the girls are off limits because some of the boys might not fancy any of the girls in there(unlikely),Dave is married,(remember him nominating Rach cause she shows flesh),some of the girls are in relationships,and they are pretending to hate the other girls in there because their little egos have been dented by them.

No girl love = increased manlove

paper-cut-exit 18-06-2010 02:27 AM

Because they all want to bum each other.

arsenalforever 18-06-2010 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by paper-cut-exit (Post 3364837)
Because they all want to bum each other.

get out the vaseline

chauncey 18-06-2010 02:33 AM

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Originally Posted by paper-cut-exit (Post 3364837)
Because they all want to bum each other.

yeah and that.
:elephant:

paper-cut-exit 18-06-2010 02:41 AM

Seriously tho, i'd be mortified if my dad went on live TV and sat with his arm around the gay guy while holding his hand... then cuddled up with him in bed etc. (like dave does)

There's a certain line you don't cross if you don't wanna be perceived to have gay/bi tendencies.

Laying in bed cuddling and stroking each others hair etc. crosses that line imo.

arsenalforever 18-06-2010 02:43 AM

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Originally Posted by paper-cut-exit (Post 3364866)
Seriously tho, i'd be mortified if my dad went on live TV and sat with his arm around the gay guy while holding his hand... then cuddled up with him in bed etc. (like dave does)

There's a certain line you don't cross if you don't wanna be perceived to have gay/bi tendencies.

Laying in bed cuddling and stroking each others hair etc. crosses that line imo.

:joker: daddy likes his little boys

Jessica. 18-06-2010 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by paper-cut-exit (Post 3364866)
Seriously tho, i'd be mortified if my dad went on live TV and sat with his arm around the gay guy while holding his hand... then cuddled up with him in bed etc. (like dave does)

There's a certain line you don't cross if you don't wanna be perceived to have gay/bi tendencies.

Laying in bed cuddling and stroking each others hair etc. crosses that line imo.

:joker::joker:

Bigbrofan25 18-06-2010 03:34 AM

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Originally Posted by iRyan (Post 3364778)
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

You are such an homophobic pr*k coming out with language like that

Can you please explain to me why You have a problem with guys showing each other some kind of affection with one another

Is it because You don`t think its normal? well my advise is this get with the 21st century its no longer against the law for guys to show affection its legal they are not hurting anyone else and if you find it strange or if you personally don`t like it thats just your problem

As far as I am concerned being homophobic is just has bad as being racist against black people and sexist against the other gender

And before you call me part of the PC brigade May I remind you that its not just a Politically correct requirement either its also becoming very anti social and offensive

Yes you are allowed to air your views and state you don`t like gay people or men touching etc but what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest

I am glad to see guys finally both straight and Gay show affection in public its now normal

eye sea 18-06-2010 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by iRyan (Post 3364778)
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

I agree. That would be far too gay for me to handle. Especially when they lie back on each other and the one above drapes his 'loving' arms over the shoulders below.:nono:

LiquidGold 18-06-2010 04:00 AM

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Originally Posted by iRyan (Post 3364778)
Every guy except Steve and Nathan is constantly laying on each other and kissing each other goodnight, it's getting really weird.....DAVE is doing it the most.

whats weird is t wat john is acting gay! him and govan are always layed super close to eachother like lovers!!!!!!! :laugh3:

LiquidGold 18-06-2010 04:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3364913)
You are such an homophobic pr*k coming out with language like that

Can you please explain to me why You have a problem with guys showing each other some kind of affection with one another

Is it because You don`t think its normal? well my advise is this get with the 21st century its no longer against the law for guys to show affection its legal they are not hurting anyone else and if you find it strange or if you personally don`t like it thats just your problem

As far as I am concerned being homophobic is just has bad as being racist against black people and sexist against the other gender

And before you call me part of the PC brigade May I remind you that its not just a Politically correct requirement either its also becoming very anti social and offensive

Yes you are allowed to air your views and state you don`t like gay people or men touching etc but what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest

I am glad to see guys finally both straight and Gay show affection in public its now normal

i was wondering when homophobia would be accused :sleep::joker:

iRyan 18-06-2010 04:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3364913)
You are such an homophobic pr*k coming out with language like that

Can you please explain to me why You have a problem with guys showing each other some kind of affection with one another

Is it because You don`t think its normal? well my advise is this get with the 21st century its no longer against the law for guys to show affection its legal they are not hurting anyone else and if you find it strange or if you personally don`t like it thats just your problem

As far as I am concerned being homophobic is just has bad as being racist against black people and sexist against the other gender

And before you call me part of the PC brigade May I remind you that its not just a Politically correct requirement either its also becoming very anti social and offensive

Yes you are allowed to air your views and state you don`t like gay people or men touching etc but what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest

I am glad to see guys finally both straight and Gay show affection in public its now normal

I'm not homophobic at all, so don't even make that assumption about me when you don't know me. I just think it's weird seeing gay and straight guys practically cudding each other. How is that being homophobic? I'm not saying it's bad, it's just a little odd.

iRyan 18-06-2010 04:28 AM

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Originally Posted by LiquidGold (Post 3364920)
whats weird is t wat john is acting gay! him and govan are always layed super close to eachother like lovers!!!!!!! :laugh3:

JJ is really affectionate with the other guys.

billy123 18-06-2010 04:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bigbrofan25 (Post 3364913)
You are such an homophobic pr*k coming out with language like that

Can you please explain to me why You have a problem with guys showing each other some kind of affection with one another

Is it because You don`t think its normal? well my advise is this get with the 21st century its no longer against the law for guys to show affection its legal they are not hurting anyone else and if you find it strange or if you personally don`t like it thats just your problem

As far as I am concerned being homophobic is just has bad as being racist against black people and sexist against the other gender

And before you call me part of the PC brigade May I remind you that its not just a Politically correct requirement either its also becoming very anti social and offensive

Yes you are allowed to air your views and state you don`t like gay people or men touching etc but what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest

I am glad to see guys finally both straight and Gay show affection in public its now normal

i think your over reacting with this post you know im a live n let live kind of guy but you are infringing other peoples rights to air their views you even admit yourself in this post " Yes you are allowed to air your views" but you then in your very next sentence say " what you are not allowed to do is force outdated views on the rest"
that doesnt make sense nor is it correct.
im as liberal as people come and being liberal means i can see when the hunted becomes the hunter dont attack other peoples views unnecessarily there is a balance to be found as much as you have a right to your opinion so do other people.

not having a go at you bigbrofan25 its just how i am il defend anybodys right to do what they want and believe what they want. :thumbs:

Captain.Remy 18-06-2010 05:07 AM

Well, 3 of them are gay (Mario, Ben and Govan), Dave is bi-bi, John James thinks he's hot for women but also men so he's playing on it.

Tenantry 18-06-2010 06:14 AM

Ben is gay, I thought he said to Mario he was straight.

Angus 18-06-2010 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by iRyan (Post 3364930)
I'm not homophobic at all, so don't even make that assumption about me when you don't know me. I just think it's weird seeing gay and straight guys practically cudding each other. How is that being homophobic? I'm not saying it's bad, it's just a little odd.

I would say its enlightened - its refreshing to see guys in touch with their feelings and not afraid to show affection for fear of being labelled weird, odd or gay.

discotheque 18-06-2010 06:21 AM

Steve will be snuggling up with them next. :eek:

Angus 18-06-2010 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy (Post 3364936)
Well, 3 of them are gay (Mario, Ben and Govan), Dave is bi-bi, John James thinks he's hot for women but also men so he's playing on it.

Ben is NOT gay, although I know that he has had threesomes in the past, so perhaps he could be up to experiment. If so, so what? However, what I take issue with is the assumption by many that any kind of physical contact between males HAS to be seen as sexual instead of just genuine affection.

Julie10 18-06-2010 07:13 AM

If the girls were snuggling up with each other no one would probably think anything about it but for some reason when guys get affectionate people are very uncomfortable with it.
I am glad the guys in the house aren't bothered about doing what they want and about being labelled gay.

hels.a 18-06-2010 07:59 AM

Isn't it cute tho.A bunch of big softies this year.

Crimson Dynamo 18-06-2010 08:07 AM

it is not nice to watch. agreed

KMD 18-06-2010 08:26 AM

Ben and Mario is cute but Dave doing does not seem genuine like he's jumping on the band wagon to try and imbed himself better in a group

AngelChair 18-06-2010 08:47 AM

Women are naturally more affectionate, so its not that strange to see them all over each other. Men however are conventionally more aloof.

Saying that, i like the fact that they are comfortable and snuggling up to one another, its refreshing!

eye sea 18-06-2010 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Julie10 (Post 3364964)
If the girls were snuggling up with each other no one would probably think anything about it...

I would!!!!:joker:

*mazedsalv** 18-06-2010 09:16 AM

These man hugs and kisses always happen on italian BB but didnt expect it to happen here, because i had a general feeling that all men on BBUK would want to be seen as Macho, but I'm quite suprised how close they have all become.

camertone 18-06-2010 09:32 AM

because ben, govan, dave are gay!

ben and govan are super gay, a lot gayer than mario!

Captain.Remy 18-06-2010 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by *mazedsalv** (Post 3365083)
These man hugs and kisses always happen on italian BB but didnt expect it to happen here, because i had a general feeling that all men on BBUK would want to be seen as Macho, but I'm quite suprised how close they have all become.

That's in the Italian culture you and I know quite perfectly. I don't think you can compare the two of them.

Anyway, I'm not judging them, they're doing what they want but it's obvious they want to jump on each other. Ben and Govan aren't very convincing when they're saying they're straight. Gimme a break.

Shasown 18-06-2010 05:36 PM

Think about it, when rachel tried to score Brownie points off Dave she mentioned gay marriages, so to prove its simply a church ruling and not his own personal homophobia Dave is overcompensating by being affectionate and close with the other men.

There is also the possibility that its the excuse for the others too, you would have to decide that after considering when the closeness came into being. It could also be a reaction to seeing the girls close ranks and bathing together etc.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 18-06-2010 05:38 PM

last night on the hl show govan had his head resting on JJs lap (jealous!) and i swear if he got any closer JJs cock would have been in his ear

*mazedsalv** 18-06-2010 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy (Post 3366764)
That's in the Italian culture you and I know quite perfectly. I don't think you can compare the two of them.

Anyway, I'm not judging them, they're doing what they want but it's obvious they want to jump on each other. Ben and Govan aren't very convincing when they're saying they're straight. Gimme a break.

Thats what I mean, no one would make any notice if males do it over there as its normal male bonding, here people are like "WTF is going on here?"

Alpertinator 18-06-2010 06:24 PM

It freaks me out to be honest. I mean Ben seems like a great guy and I reckon I'd get on with him really well, but I can't be havin' guys lying with their arm around me or anythin'. Also I don't do man hugs. So yeah, it's the kind of thing I never do with my friends.

Bigbrofan25 18-06-2010 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Alpertinator (Post 3367063)
It freaks me out to be honest. I mean Ben seems like a great guy and I reckon I'd get on with him really well, but I can't be havin' guys lying with their arm around me or anythin'. Also I don't do man hugs. So yeah, it's the kind of thing I never do with my friends.

so you are saying its wrong then you are an homophobe

Bigbrofan25 18-06-2010 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by iRyan (Post 3364930)
I'm not homophobic at all, so don't even make that assumption about me when you don't know me. I just think it's weird seeing gay and straight guys practically cudding each other. How is that being homophobic? I'm not saying it's bad, it's just a little odd.

It is homophobic pure and simple you are saying that straight men shouldn`t mix with gay men

Its like saying black people shouldn`t mix with white people that would be racism

Lostie! 18-06-2010 06:35 PM

It's refreshing to see that instead of the clichéd "We're MEN, we don't show affection!".

And anyway, it's especially refreshing for a bisexual guy :eek: :D


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