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calyman 03-07-2010 08:35 PM

Ben's Queenie stroll
 
I am fully in agreement with Mario. ben showed his true colours with that throwaway comment of his about the USA. It is indicitve of the discomfort Ben has around homosexuality.

All Mario is guilty of, is understamding where Ben is in regard to his "career". He explained it to Ben calmly and rationally, even saying he wasn't angry at Ben over this.

Ben however, cannot let it be. He hounded Mario, insisting he be listened to, despite Mario's repeated requests to leave him be. I suspect Ben is less concerned with the damage done to his friendship with Mario, than any potential damage he feels may affect his possible career in the USA, by seeming to be supportive of Gay people. In my mind, Ben is now a ****.

Claymores 03-07-2010 08:54 PM

"You've followed me into 3 rooms now" was a classic line by Mario!

Angus 03-07-2010 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Claymores (Post 3441202)
"You've followed me into 3 rooms now" was a classic line by Mario!

He can talk after stalking Ben from day 1! I'm surprised Ben was able to go to the toilet without Mario tailing him to wipe his bum.

calyman 03-07-2010 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by angus58 (Post 3441251)
He can talk after stalking Ben from day 1! I'm surprised Ben was able to go to the toilet without Mario tailing him to wipe his bum.

I take it you believe that Ben didn't welcome his interest. i seen it as mutual, useful for only as long as Ben messed up. And he has of course messed up big time now, with even further lies today.

Angus 03-07-2010 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441269)
I take it you believe that Ben didn't welcome his interest. i seen it as mutual, useful for only as long as Ben messed up. And he has of course messed up big time now, with even further lies today.

Well Ben liked Mario as a FRIEND only because he is NOT gay - he made it perfectly clear to Mario he was NOT interested in anything else, and Mario is now reacting to rejection like a stereotypical bitchy queen. If I were Ben I'd steer well clear since Mario is clearly the obsessive type.

calyman 03-07-2010 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by angus58 (Post 3441293)
Well Ben liked Mario as a FRIEND only because he is NOT gay - he made it perfectly clear to Mario he was NOT interested in anything else, and Mario is now reacting to rejection like a stereotypical bitchy queen. If I were Ben I'd steer well clear since Mario is clearly the obsessive type.

The best that can be said of Ben is that he gave enough signals to Mario, enough for Mario to believe there was potential there. It's not the first time a "straight" man has went further than "just good friends".

In any event, Mario is not angry at Ben for his rejection of him but for the homophobia he heard from ben.

Jordan. 03-07-2010 09:16 PM

He was joking, Mario went OTT and was just been bitter because Ben doesnt fancy him.

Stacey. 03-07-2010 09:16 PM

Yeah, I agree totally. Mario said a few things tonight that made me laugh a lot. :laugh:

DrunkerThanMoses 03-07-2010 09:18 PM

Mario did go over the top, and Im annoyed the highlights showed him as the bitch, they missed out Ben being bitchy and very nasty about mario, and then they mario as the bitchy one, but if anyone else watch the l/f last night, he said nothign but good things :)

calyman 03-07-2010 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Jordannn! (Post 3441313)
He was joking, Mario went OTT and was just been bitter because Ben doesnt fancy him.

I must have missed the bit when Mario went over the top, what I saw was Ben hounding Mario, then speaking disrespectfully about him behind his back. In fact on one of those occasions, he said " ohh, he's coming in to the room, no he's not". In the meantime "honest" Ben kept his trap shut.

pixee 03-07-2010 09:28 PM

American media is very anti gay btw and if Ben was gay he wouldn't get near a career there (although he wouldn't anyway for different reasons)

But i though it was a joke about america rather than at marios expense.

I think you are all forgetting mario wants to **** ben.

boomoo 03-07-2010 09:35 PM

Mario's behaviour towards Ben is the same as Craig chasing Anthony. That got really bad in the end and if a male housemate had done that to a female they would have been put out.
Mario is a BB fanatic and he knows that the reason Craig and Anthony stayed in to the last week was because of Craig pursuing Anthony. So Mario is the game player, he just thinks no one can see through him. He is the worst housemate in there at the moment with Ife a close second.

Zippy 03-07-2010 09:36 PM

Mario was the one at fault in tonights show...by far! He was being a ridiculous bitch. Blatantly being difficult and contrary. Trying to twist everything Ben said. So childish and selfish considering Ben had other things on his mind.

Mario has now dropped down the polls I'd bet.

DrunkerThanMoses 03-07-2010 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Zippy (Post 3441400)
Mario was the one at fault in tonights show...by far! He was being a ridiculous bitch. Blatantly being difficult and contrary. Trying to twist everything Ben said. So childish and selfish considering Ben had other things on his mind.

Mario has now dropped down the polls I'd bet.

Again there was no show of bens 5 hour bitch feast of mario.

Yes mario was in the wrong but ben was too.

Angus 03-07-2010 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441309)
The best that can be said of Ben is that he gave enough signals to Mario, enough for Mario to believe there was potential there. It's not the first time a "straight" man has went further than "just good friends".

In any event, Mario is not angry at Ben for his rejection of him but for the homophobia he heard from ben.

Actually Ben was citing the homophobia that is rife within the American showbiz scene.

calyman 03-07-2010 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by angus58 (Post 3441449)
Actually Ben was citing the homophobia that is rife within the American showbiz scene.

Which Ben was not challenging, but condoning. His prospects meant more to him than being concerned about the hurt his comment caused mario, even referring to mario as a Bitch, when challenged on this.

Pato 03-07-2010 10:10 PM

anyone else think ben looks like thomas muller (german striker)

flamingGalah! 03-07-2010 10:53 PM

Ben was joking, he is very obviously not homophobic, Mario went completely over the top & acted like a twat... The reason Ben kept following Mario is because he wouldn't lusten to Ben & kept up with his childish tantrum...

As Ben said he's just annoyed because he wants to put his wiener in his bum...

vesavius 03-07-2010 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DrunkerThanMoses (Post 3441410)
Again there was no show of bens 5 hour bitch feast of mario.

Yes mario was in the wrong but ben was too.

Ben's edit is always incredibly kind.

He is 10% an ok/ funny guy, but the 90% sh1t part of him is rarely shown and thats why he has a fanbase.

Hopefully it will be from tommorow.

vesavius 03-07-2010 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by flamingGalah! (Post 3441740)
Ben was joking

Ben said himself he was 'half joking'.

calyman 03-07-2010 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by flamingGalah! (Post 3441740)
Ben was joking, he is very obviously not homophobic, Mario went completely over the top & acted like a twat... The reason Ben kept following Mario is because he wouldn't lusten to Ben & kept up with his childish tantrum...

As Ben said he's just annoyed because he wants to put his wiener in his bum...

"wiener", which is American slang,the country he want to crack, yet more evidence of Ben's homophobia.

flamingGalah! 03-07-2010 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441883)
"wiener", which is American slang,the country he want to crack, yet more evidence of Ben's homophobia.

Some people need to get a sense of humour...

flamingGalah! 03-07-2010 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by vesavius (Post 3441822)
Ben said himself he was 'half joking'.

Yes, but the reason it was half joking is because he is fed up of Mario suggesting that he is gay, he isn't, he's just camp & even if he was gay it's his business if he wants to be "out" or not... Mario just made himself look like a twat...

Kazanne 03-07-2010 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441112)
I am fully in agreement with Mario. ben showed his true colours with that throwaway comment of his about the USA. It is indicitve of the discomfort Ben has around homosexuality.

All Mario is guilty of, is understamding where Ben is in regard to his "career". He explained it to Ben calmly and rationally, even saying he wasn't angry at Ben over this.

Ben however, cannot let it be. He hounded Mario, insisting he be listened to, despite Mario's repeated requests to leave him be. I suspect Ben is less concerned with the damage done to his friendship with Mario, than any potential damage he feels may affect his possible career in the USA, by seeming to be supportive of Gay people. In my mind, Ben is now a ****.

Mario was totally in the wrong tonight,Ben told him he was joking and it was a throw away line mario is so obviously jealous of ben as it is Mario infact who wants to be a TV presenter,the proof is in his profile,He didn't mention that one!did he,crafty little oik!

calyman 03-07-2010 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by flamingGalah! (Post 3441903)
Some people need to get a sense of humour...

And some need to get a sense of proper perspective.

calyman 03-07-2010 11:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kazanne (Post 3441931)
Mario was totally in the wrong tonight,Ben told him he was joking and it was a throw away line mario is so obviously jealous of ben as it is Mario infact who wants to be a TV presenter,the proof is in his profile,He didn't mention that one!did he,crafty little oik!

Ben also told the housemates the TOT task was to get scabbys hats. He lied then (and got found out), why should he be believed about his comments to Mario.

flamingGalah! 03-07-2010 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441943)
And some need to get a sense of proper perspective.

Indeed you do... ;)

flamingGalah! 03-07-2010 11:51 PM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441956)
Ben also told the housemates the TOT task was to get scabbys hats. He lied then (and got found out), why should he be believed about his comments to Mario.

Er because he wasn't supposed to let them know what the TOT task was... Keep up...

AtomicKitty 04-07-2010 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Jordannn! (Post 3441313)
He was joking, Mario went OTT and was just been bitter because Ben doesnt fancy him.

totally agree... he is just bitter because of the rejection

calyman 04-07-2010 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by flamingGalah! (Post 3441960)
Indeed you do... ;)

You do, indeed :hugesmile:

WOMBAI 04-07-2010 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441112)
I am fully in agreement with Mario. ben showed his true colours with that throwaway comment of his about the USA. It is indicitve of the discomfort Ben has around homosexuality.

All Mario is guilty of, is understamding where Ben is in regard to his "career". He explained it to Ben calmly and rationally, even saying he wasn't angry at Ben over this.

Ben however, cannot let it be. He hounded Mario, insisting he be listened to, despite Mario's repeated requests to leave him be. I suspect Ben is less concerned with the damage done to his friendship with Mario, than any potential damage he feels may affect his possible career in the USA, by seeming to be supportive of Gay people. In my mind, Ben is now a ****.

I am sick of people on here constantly trying to shove their views about gay relationships down the throats of others! I don't know what Ben's personal views are - but whatever they are, he is entitled to them! It is none your business, my business or anyone else's business! If he doesn't approve of gay relationships that is his right, just as it is your right to take the opposite view! They don't make him a bad person - so stop trying to imply they do!

flamingGalah! 04-07-2010 12:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441994)
You do, indeed :hugesmile:

Not me love, you need to look past your hate for Ben (who I don't actually like that much) & see what was actually going on... ;)

calyman 04-07-2010 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by flamingGalah! (Post 3441966)
Er because he wasn't supposed to let them know what the TOT task was... Keep up...

He had already disclosed that he'd been talking with the TOT, which he was told not to. Given that he had already failed in this, he had nothing to lose by telling the truth, instead he chose to lie. That's what liars do, you know, Do you see, or must I explain further?

calyman 04-07-2010 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by flamingGalah! (Post 3441997)
Not me love, you need to look past your hate for Ben (who I don't actually like that much) & see what was actually going on... ;)

If you look at my previous posts, you will see I championed Ben, that is, till he showed he's nothing but a petty and untrustworthy liar. Incidentally, why should I hate him, he's a chancer whose been found out to be a liar. Is that reason to hate someone? Maybe in your world, but not in mine.

calyman 04-07-2010 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by WOMBAI (Post 3441996)
I am sick of people on here constantly trying to shove their views about gay relationships down the throats of others! I don't know what Ben's personal views are - but whatever they are, he is entitled to them! It is none your business, my business or anyone else's business! If he doesn't approve of gay relationships that is his right, just as it is your right to take the opposite view! They don't make him a bad person - so stop trying to imply they do!

Do you feel better now?

flamingGalah! 04-07-2010 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3441999)
He had already disclosed that he'd been talking with the TOT, which he was told not to. Given that he had already failed in this, he had nothing to lose by telling the truth, instead he chose to lie. That's what liars do, you know, Do you see, or must I explain further?

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3442005)
If you look at my previous posts, you will see I championed Ben, that is, till he showed he's nothing but a petty and untrustworthy liar. Incidentally, why should I hate him, he's a chancer whose been found out to be a liar. Is that reason to hate someone? Maybe in your world, but not in mine.

He was found out by the others that he had been talking to the TOT, Steve saw him & Scabby guessed he had been given a task... He tried to lie as he wasn't supposed to let them know what his actual task was... Do you understand that or shall I explain it simpler for you??

You seem to be going on that he is homophobic though, something which he is obviously not & you appear to hate him by the way your posts are going, I never said I did hate him by the way, please keep up... ;)

WOMBAI 04-07-2010 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3442016)
Do you feel better now?

No -nevermind homophobic - half the members on here appear to be 'hetrophobic'!

calyman 04-07-2010 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by flamingGalah! (Post 3442017)
He was found out by the others that he had been talking to the TOT, Steve saw him & Scabby guessed he had been given a task... He tried to lie as he wasn't supposed to let them know what his actual task was... Do you understand that or shall I explain it simpler for you??

You seem to be going on that he is homophobic though, something which he is obviously not & you appear to hate him by the way your posts are going, I never said I did hate him by the way, please keep up... ;)

At the risk of repeating myself, he lied, that is why BB showed what the true request was, not the lie that Ben told. He did not need to lie and as a result has been found out by the housemates and the public. If he had any integrity, he would have told the truth, he was going to be punished anyway. No, for whatever reasons, he chose to lie, that appears to be easy for him.

There is nothing obvious about him not being a homophobe, but evidence from his own mouth that he is.

Please read my posts properly; I never said you hate him, though you accused me of doing so, wrongly. What I said was, "that reason to hate someone? Maybe in your world, but not in mine". Do keep up :spin:

calyman 04-07-2010 12:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WOMBAI (Post 3442024)
No -nevermind homophobic - half the members on here appear to be 'hetrophobic'!

I'll have you know that some of my best friends are heterosexual :hugesmile:

flamingGalah! 04-07-2010 12:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by calyman (Post 3442047)
At the risk of repeating myself, he lied, that is why BB showed what the true request was, not the lie that Ben told. He did not need to lie and as a result has been found out by the housemates and the public. If he had any integrity, he would have told the truth, he was going to be punished anyway. No, for whatever reasons, he chose to lie, that appears to be easy for him.

There is nothing obvious about him not being a homophobe, but evidence from his own mouth that he is.

Please read my posts properly; I never said you hate him, though you accused me of doing so, wrongly. What I said was, "that reason to hate someone? Maybe in your world, but not in mine". Do keep up :spin:

You are repeating yourself & again it still makes little sense...

He had to lie in that situation, you are making it out as if he deliberately did it to be devious, when he was just trying to keep the real task a secret (which is kinda the whole point)...

There is plenty obvious that shows he is not in the least bit homophobic & for you to say he is for a silly, jokey, throw away comment is ridiculous... :nono:

I have tried to read your posts, but now I'm not even sure what point you are trying to get across at all, other than that you think he's homophobic? :conf:

Well from your ranting it appears you certainly don't like him, if you do you have a very funny way of showing it! :joker:

Honey, I'm trying to keep up but it's 1:30 am, I'm half cut & I really don't get what your gripe is... ;)


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