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daniel-lewis-1985 06-09-2010 01:28 PM

Nikki on lf talking crying about her anorexia
 
She's just opened her heart to Vannesa that today she tried on her jeans and they didnt fit her anymore and got upset.

Then really went into detail about her eating disorder.

I have alot more respect for her then i actually did before she has overcome alot and is so gratefull to be on Big Brother

M X 06-09-2010 01:31 PM

Aw bless her :(

BJ 06-09-2010 01:38 PM

It was good to hear them talking about real feelings for a change. I think Nikki is to be commended for what she has achieved and Vanessa was really encouraging and supportive. I found their talk very moving.

BigBrotherfan4ever 06-09-2010 01:38 PM

Yeah i've been watching it on E4, had internet problems this morning, i found it really moving when she was talking about her anorexia.

starry 06-09-2010 01:51 PM

Well Sunshine talked about such things during her time in the house and they didn't seem to do her much good with some of the audience. She was probably the most honest person in BB11.

Livia 06-09-2010 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by starry (Post 3763374)
Well Sunshine talked about such things during her time in the house and they didn't seem to do her much good with some of the audience. She was probably the most honest person in BB11.

Sunshine didn't so much talk about such things as hold a lecture.

InOne 06-09-2010 01:58 PM

Well it's nice they're talking about it ect, but I hope it doesn't make the HL's. UBB isn't a therapy session for Nikki.

starry 06-09-2010 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 3763376)
Sunshine didn't so much talk about such things as hold a lecture.

Does she have to cry over it to make you interested? Certainly nothing like a lecture either, quite short really.

Livia 06-09-2010 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by starry (Post 3763401)
Does she have to cry over it to make you interested? Certainly nothing like a lecture either, quite short really.

No. There isn't anything she could have done to make it interesting instead of one of her usual "ME! ME! ME!" performances. But that's just Sunshine, I guess. And this is a thread about Nikki.

Patricia4 06-09-2010 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by BigBrotherfan4ever (Post 3763341)
Yeah i've been watching it on E4, had internet problems this morning, i found it really moving when she was talking about her anorexia.

Me too.

MassiveTruck 06-09-2010 02:30 PM

Oh it must be the final week where she needs to get some votes to win the show.

Whatever happened to her lying to the psychologist to come on the show and how doing reality TV is detrimental to the show.

Whatever happened....

Whatever happened to the pressures and stresses of the show (her anger being a product of mental health problems) causing to have relapse.

Whatever happened to those stories...

Whatever happened...

I guess, Nikki knows all too well... how gullible... the public are...

for a sob story.

Jordan. 06-09-2010 02:40 PM

Poor Nikki. :(

starry 06-09-2010 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 3763419)
No. There isn't anything she could have done to make it interesting instead of one of her usual "ME! ME! ME!" performances. But that's just Sunshine, I guess. And this is a thread about Nikki.

Nikki is literally defined by her Me Me Me moany performances (and they are performances), it's about the only dimension she has.

icecakes 06-09-2010 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 3763322)
She's just opened her heart to Vannesa that today she tried on her jeans and they didnt fit her anymore and got upset.

Then really went into detail about her eating disorder.

I have alot more respect for her then i actually did before she has overcome alot and is so gratefull to be on Big Brother

what an oscar winning performance :bawling::bawling::bawling::bawling:

dont tell me you fell for it :devil:

daniel-lewis-1985 06-09-2010 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by icecakes (Post 3764148)
what an oscar winning performance :bawling::bawling::bawling::bawling:

dont tell me you fell for it :devil:

Oh god stop being so cynical she was being for real.

People like you really p!ss me off it must be very tyring being grumpy and negative all the time!

And has anyone actually ever seen a positive thread or comment form forum member: MASSIVE TRUCK?

dwarling 06-09-2010 06:40 PM

Saw this today, and I was close to tears myself. Everthing about the convo was genuine..

icecakes 06-09-2010 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 3764180)
Oh god stop being so cynical she was being for real.

People like you really p!ss me off it must be very tyring being grumpy and negative all the time!

And has anyone actually ever seen a positive thread or comment form forum member: MASSIVE TRUCK?

we piss you off,because we dont agree with you :hugesmile:

funny how we got the little performance when the livefeed was on, or was that just a coincidence, GO MASSIVE TRUCK :devil:

Lee. 06-09-2010 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 3763322)
She's just opened her heart to Vannesa that today she tried on her jeans and they didnt fit her anymore and got upset.

Then really went into detail about her eating disorder.

I have alot more respect for her then i actually did before she has overcome alot and is so gratefull to be on Big Brother


Yeah, I saw her on a programme once talking about it and warning other young girls.. I ended up with a lot more respect for her too.. Behind the childish tantrums and the funny quirky behaviour, is somebody who has been through a lot! :(

daniel-lewis-1985 06-09-2010 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by icecakes (Post 3764333)
we piss you off,because we dont agree with you :hugesmile:

funny how we got the little performance when the livefeed was on, or was that just a coincidence, GO MASSIVE TRUCK :devil:

pffft.

Go away.

daniel-lewis-1985 06-09-2010 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Grimnir (Post 3764384)
aww boo fu**in hoo

lets all feel sorry for the nasty little granny grunt

:bawling:

She doesnt want people to feel sorry for her :rolleyes:

daniel-lewis-1985 06-09-2010 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by icecakes (Post 3764458)
shall we have a wip round and buy some tissues,with all this sobing going on the forum will be flooded out,ha ha:bawling::bawling::bawling::bawling:

Im naked

Lee. 06-09-2010 07:32 PM

Aw come on folks.. a bit of compassion please.The girl has an illness, and a horrible one at that. :(

icecakes 06-09-2010 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 3764466)
Im naked

WOT NO BOXERS:shocked::shocked::shocked:

starry 06-09-2010 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by happyland (Post 3764347)
Yeah, I saw her on a programme once talking about it and warning other young girls.. I ended up with a lot more respect for her too.. Behind the childish tantrums and the funny quirky behaviour, is somebody who has been through a lot! :(

Other people have been through alot too but for some reason don't get sympathy.

bbfan1991 06-09-2010 07:40 PM

:( Awww, although Nikki is battling her demons and I wish her well after BB, always liked her.

Lee. 06-09-2010 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by starry (Post 3764514)
Other people have been through alot too but for some reason don't get sympathy.

I'm not saying other people haven't been through a lot?! The thread is about Nikki being upset about her anorexia... It's a horrible illness and I don't understand people not being able to feel a little sympathy for here, even if she isn't their faveourite housemate!

MassiveTruck 06-09-2010 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by happyland (Post 3764479)
Aw come on folks.. a bit of compassion please.The girl has an illness, and a horrible one at that. :(

An illness that her Mother and her said got worse because she went in the Big Brother house and she would never go back in again.

Lee. 06-09-2010 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by MassiveTruck (Post 3764569)
Nikki doesn't have anorexia.

She's just very thin with a thin frame. She looks very very very very very very very very very very well for somebody with Anorexia - she behaves very well.

She's never come across as anybody I've seen with Anorexia or Bulimia.

SHe's battled with anorexia since she was 8 and has nearly died several times! Anorexia isn't something tha you just grow out of... that fear of putting on weight will be with her for life. Yes she'll have phases when she will appear ok, but like any mental illness, her anorexia can be triggered at any time.

icecakes 06-09-2010 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by happyland (Post 3764537)
I'm not saying other people haven't been through a lot?! The thread is about Nikki being upset about her anorexia... It's a horrible illness and I don't understand people not being able to feel a little sympathy for here, even if she isn't their faveourite housemate!

off course we have sympathy for anyone with an illness,the only thing that annoys ,is when they keep bringing it up to get people feeling sorry for them,its the same on the x factor, im doing it for me mam, shes only got one leg and half a kidney,we can do without all that :devil:

starry 06-09-2010 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by happyland (Post 3764537)
I'm not saying other people haven't been through a lot?! The thread is about Nikki being upset about her anorexia... It's a horrible illness and I don't understand people not being able to feel a little sympathy for here, even if she isn't their faveourite housemate!

Never said I didn't have any sympathy, I just wonder about the double standards.

Lee. 06-09-2010 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by icecakes (Post 3764618)
off course we have sympathy for anyone with an illness,the only thing that annoys ,is when they keep bringing it up to get people feeling sorry for them,its the same on the x factor, im doing it for me mam, shes only got one leg and half a kidney,we can do without all that :devil:

Yeah ok.. I agree with that.But to say in Nikki's favour, her anorexia isn't really something she keeps bringing up is it? I've never heard her talk openly about it in the BB house...
She may act like a spoilt brat most of the time,but she does not strike me as a sympathy seeker at all. :)

Lee. 06-09-2010 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by starry (Post 3764622)
Never said I didn't have any sympathy, I just wonder about the double standards.

What double standards?

Lee. 06-09-2010 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by whocares (Post 3764668)
she doesnt? lol!

so whenever she tries to make people feel guilty about something in order to get her own way.. or goes blabbin to magazines how horrible her life is because of this or that... or whining because someone is snorrin and she cant sleep... or theres no bottled water... or because someone calls her a little girl... and so on and so forth.. its not about sympathy.

right, if all that is not about sympathy and people feelin sorry for her little self then i dont know what is.

all i can feel for her is pity.

I'm not saying she's not an attention seeker, but from I have seen, she doesn't use her ilness as a way of getting sympathy

icecakes 06-09-2010 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by happyland (Post 3764673)
I'm not saying she's not an attention seeker, but from I have seen, she doesn't use her ilness as a way of getting sympathy

If she had her little breakdown in the morning, or nightime I would have had more sympathy,but to have it spot on livefeed just her and vanessa in the kitchen camera full on them is a bit suspect,to say the least:shocked:

daniel-lewis-1985 06-09-2010 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by icecakes (Post 3764743)
If she had her little breakdown in the morning, or nightime I would have had more sympathy,but to have it spot on livefeed just her and vanessa in the kitchen camera full on them is a bit suspect,to say the least:shocked:

Number 1: she was in the garden not the kitchen when she broke down.

Number 2: there are cameras everywhere in the big brother house lol

Number 3: You would have more respect for her if she cried at night or in the morning? lol

It wasnt a planned thing. She talked openly about her illness and im sure any young girl suffering with anorexia would take comfort in someone being so open and frank about it on national television.

Number 4: :rolleyes:

Jase. 06-09-2010 09:11 PM

Awwww, bless her. I hope it makes it onto the highlights show tomorrow!

icecakes 06-09-2010 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 3764829)
Yeah im wearing boxers and a hoodie now its getting chilly.

And she broke down whilst sat in the garden.

I watched it with my own peepers

Im sure it will be on the highlits show,lets face it [there,s not much else going on] if you are right ill eat my laptop.:hugesmile:

starry 06-09-2010 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by happyland (Post 3764626)
What double standards?

Sunshine talked about things like that as well, few seemed to have sympathy for her.

LexDex 08-09-2010 11:52 AM

I was moved to tears last night when I watched the highlights show. One of the best Nikki moments ever, so honest and genuine. How she cried and Vanessa hugged her....! They are both lovely. Nikki to win! x

Ammi 08-09-2010 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 3763322)
She's just opened her heart to Vannesa that today she tried on her jeans and they didnt fit her anymore and got upset.

Then really went into detail about her eating disorder.

I have alot more respect for her then i actually did before she has overcome alot and is so gratefull to be on Big Brother

She's not my favourite but she is complicated and has real problems which probably explains some of her behaviour - I like the way Vanessa takes the time to listen and talk to her rather than dismissing her, like Ulrika


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