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bbfan1991 24-05-2012 04:03 PM

Sweden make forced marriages a criminalised offence!
 
http://www.thelocal.se/41012/20120524

Good move:). I hope the UK follows suit!

InOne 24-05-2012 04:04 PM

Even if the UK followed suit it would still go on. All kept hush hush within the 'community'.

bbfan1991 24-05-2012 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 5151986)
Even if the UK followed suit it would still go on. All kept hush hush within the 'community'.

I agree and I know plenty of people who have had forced marriages, although something clearly needs to be done about things like this...

Niamh. 24-05-2012 04:07 PM

The Scandinavians are way ahead of the rest of world

Niamh. 24-05-2012 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by bbfan1991 (Post 5151991)
I agree and I know plenty of people who have had forced marriages, although something clearly needs to be done about things like this...

Really? That must be awful for them

arista 24-05-2012 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 5151986)
Even if the UK followed suit it would still go on. All kept hush hush within the 'community'.


Yes that stinks

arista 24-05-2012 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5151994)
The Scandinavians are way ahead of the rest of world


Rubbish
they are a Far smaller amount
of people.


And they have Nazi's
ready to Murder Socialists
(Also in Norway)

Niamh. 24-05-2012 04:25 PM

Denmark especially, Danish people are amazing and always happy :love:

http://www.tiptoptens.com/2012/02/07...-to-live-2012/

MTVN 24-05-2012 04:30 PM

Yeah the Scandinavian countries are great

Kizzy 24-05-2012 05:38 PM

I would of hoped it already was criminal to force a marriage?...

Shaun 24-05-2012 05:39 PM

Scandinavia uber alles.

lostalex 26-05-2012 01:24 PM

oh plz. they are just as ****ed up as the rest of us. ask julian Assange, he used to think they were better too...

Redway 26-05-2012 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155097)
oh plz. they are just as ****ed up as the rest of us. ask julian Assange, he used to think they were better too...

At least they have the decency to make forced marriages a criminal offense. Everyone else could learn from that.

Samuel. 26-05-2012 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5152029)
Denmark especially, Danish people are amazing and always happy :love:

http://www.tiptoptens.com/2012/02/07...-to-live-2012/

Bit suspect all the countries being European.

lostalex 26-05-2012 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 5155151)
At least they have the decency to make forced marriages a criminal offense. Everyone else could learn from that.

I'm pretty sure FORCING anyone to do anything is illegal in the UK. Last time i checked it's a free country.

Redway 26-05-2012 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155154)
I'm pretty sure FORCING anyone to do anything is illegal in the UK. Last time i checked it's a free country.

You're a don, Alex. Well done for completely contradicting your own argument. I think you'll find that forced marriage hasn't yet been made illegal in the UK, as has been mentioned in this thread. Go away, learn the lingo, do your research then think about coming back to have an argument.

Samuel. 26-05-2012 03:04 PM

lul

lostalex 26-05-2012 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 5155173)
You're a don, Alex. Well done for completely contradicting your own argument. I think you'll find that forced marriage hasn't yet been made illegal in the UK, as has been mentioned in this thread. Go away, learn the lingo, do your research then think about coming back to have an argument.

yur lucky I don't report to the mods everytime time someone says something insulting to me, unlike you and some other people around here who have a trigger happy "report" finger and love to get me infractions every 5 seconds for things i say that arn't even half as insulting.

Keep on enjoying your double standards though. :)

Redway 26-05-2012 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155178)
yur lucky I don't report to the mods everytime time someone says something insulting to me, unlike you and some other people around here who have a trigger happy "report" finger and love to get me infractions every 5 seconds for things i say that arn't even half as insulting.

Keep on enjoying your double standards though. :)

How do you know I report you? I don't see your name in green anywhere, mate. You made a completely wrong statement and I''m pointing out the truth to you. What is the point of being on an open forum posting away if when someone disagrees with you or knows for an absolute fact you're wrong you do this? I wasn't being insulting - I don't insult people when I argue cases, certainly not over the internet. I just pointed out the truth. And I suppose it's funny that you didn't even attempt a constructive reply to my actual post you quoted because you know I'm right.

Omah 26-05-2012 03:18 PM

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2012...matrimony-laws

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In October last year, David Cameron called for the contentious issue of forced marriage to be the subject of a public consultation, which will conclude at the end of this month. The consultation will decide whether forced marriage should become a criminal offence, punishable by imprisonment. Describing it as "little more than forced slavery" Cameron said we should not shy away from addressing the issue because of "cultural concerns".

Currently, potential victims of forced marriage are protected by civil law. They – or their representatives, such as teachers or social workers – can take out a forced marriage protection order (FMPO). The order lays down conditions that try to change the behaviour of anyone trying to force a person into marriage. But FMPOs are hard to monitor, and there is no automatic sanction for breaking them. Last November, Scotland became the first country in the UK to make breaching the orders a criminal offence and Cameron has pledged to do the same for England, Wales and Northern Ireland. But he has gone further, asking the home secretary to consider making the very act of forced marriage a criminal offence.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forced_...tion)_Act_2007

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The Forced Marriage (Civil Protection) Act 2007 (c 20) is an Act of the Parliament of the United Kingdom. It seeks to assist victims of forced marriage, or those threatened with forced marriage, by providing civil remedies. It extends to England and Wales and Northern Ireland -- it does not extend to Scotland, as this is a devolved competence.

The centrepiece of the Act is the forced marriage order. A person threatened with forced marriage can apply to court for a forced marriage order can contain whatever provisions which the court finds would be appropriate to prevent the forced marriage from taking place, or to protect a victim of forced marriage from its effects, and may include such measures as confiscation of passport or restrictions on contact with the victim. The subject of a forced marriage order can be not just the person to whom the forced marriage will occur, but also any other person who aids, abets or encourages the forced marriage. A marriage can be considered forced not merely on the grounds of threats of physical violence to the victim, but also through threats of physical violence to third parties (e.g. the victim's family), or even self-violence (e.g. marriage procured through threat of suicide.) A person who violates a force marriage order is subject to contempt of court proceedings and may be arrested.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisf...age-illegal-uk

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In 2011, here in Britain, the forcing of women or girls into marriage is a sad reality for thousands of people.

While the prevalence of such practices has come to light in recent years, many myths about forced marriage remain. For example, it is assumed that it is confined to certain religions; but there are Sikh, Muslim, Hindu and Christian victims. Some think forced marriage is a rare practice; but the government estimates up to 8,000 cases a year in the UK. Some assume forced marriage affects only adults; but figures show that more than half are under 16 and some are as young as eight. Some think the victims are solely women; but 14% of complainants are actually men. Some believe it's limited to certain countries; but Brits are being sent to Afghanistan, Egypt, Bangladesh, Iran and Turkey.

For me, there is one overriding myth about forced marriage: that it is illegal. In fact, to coerce, threaten or blackmail someone into matrimony is not in itself a criminal offence.

lostalex 26-05-2012 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 5155188)
How do you know I report you? I don't see your name in green anywhere, mate. You made a completely wrong statement and I''m pointing out the truth to you. What is the point of being on an open forum posting away if when someone disagrees with you or knows for an absolute fact you're wrong you do this? I wasn't being insulting - I don't insult people when I argue cases, certainly not over the internet. I just pointed out the truth. And I suppose it's funny that you didn't even attempt a constructive reply to my actual post you quoted because you know I'm right.

i already replied to you in a "constructive" manner. I said: it is already ILLEGAL for anyone to FORCE someone into marriage in the UK. THAT IS A FACT. are you too much of a "don" to comprehend that?

You were the one that decided to be a total ***** in response, so obviously it's YOU who cannot respond in a mature or "constructive" way.

Forced MARRIAGES ARE ILLEGAL IN EVERY WESTERN COUNTRY. the US, Canada, Australia, UK, all of the EU.... so i don't understand why you are acting like it's impressive that it's illegal in scandanavia. You cannot FORCE anyone to marry someone in ANY western country. that's a FACT. you can't FORCE anyone to do ANYTHING in any free country. That's what makes free countries free.

IF you don't understand that, then poo on you, but don't act like i'm the one who's ignorant.

Omah 26-05-2012 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155192)
I said: it is already ILLEGAL for anyone to FORCE someone into marriage in the UK.

Forced MARRIAGES ARE ILLEGAL IN EVERY WESTERN COUNTRY. the US, Canada, Australia, UK, all of the EU.... so i don't understand why you are acting like it's impressive that it's illegal in scandanavia.

From what I've read, forced marriages in the UK (not Scotland) are subject to civil law but not criminal law, so, technically, forced marriage is NOT illegal.

Redway 26-05-2012 03:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155192)
i already replied to you in a "constructive" manner. I said: it is already ILLEGAL for anyone to FORCE someone into marriage in the UK. THAT IS A FACT. are you too much of a "don" to comprehend that?

You were the one that decided to be a total ***** in response, so obviously it's YOU who cannot respond in a mature or "constructive" way.

Forced MARRIAGES ARE ILLEGAL IN EVERY WESTERN COUNTRY. the US, Canada, Australia, UK, all of the EU.... so i don't understand why you are acting like it's impressive that it's illegal in scandanavia. You cannot FORCE anyone to marry someone in ANY western country. that's a FACT. you can't FORCE anyone to do ANYTHING in any free country. That's what makes free countries free.

IF you don't understand that, then poo on you, but don't act like i'm the one who's ignorant.

Alex, you entered an argument without even knowing the facts. You clearly stated that forced marriage is illegal in the UK because we're a free country (and by the way the UK isn't a country - it's made up of countries). I told you that isn't true (and you should have picked that up from the thread as it's been mentioned numerous times). No, it isn't illegal, as I think you'll find. As Omah rightly says, if you are found forcing someone to marry and actually going through with it, you are subject to civil law but not criminal law. Criminal law is the bridge between legal and illegal. As in the UK you're not subject to criminal law as a consequence of forced marriage it therefore isn't illegal over here. Are you too little of a don to understand that?

Redway 26-05-2012 03:45 PM

In fact, for the sake of it, yeah, that's right - I believe it's very impressive that Scandinavia has made forced marriage illegal (because it is - that's a fact, dear). So does everyone else on this thread. Why are you having a go at only me but not them?

lostalex 26-05-2012 03:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Redway (Post 5155210)
Alex, you entered an argument without even knowing the facts. You clearly stated that forced marriage is illegal in the UK because we're a free country (and by the way the UK isn't a country - it's made up of countries). I told you that isn't true (and you should have picked that up from the thread as it's been mentioned numerous times). No, it isn't illegal, as I think you'll find. As Omah rightly says, if you are found forcing someone to marry and actually going through with it, you are subject to civil law but not criminal law. Criminal law is the bridge between legal and illegal. As in the UK you're not subject to civil law as a consequence of forced marriage it therefore isn't illegal over here. Are you too little of a don to understand that?

No the UK is a single country. What you call countries are called states or provinces in other countries. The UK has 1 single seat at the UN and 1 single team at the olympics, why? because the UK is one single country. If you think england, wales, and scotland are separate countries, well then take it up with the UN, not me.

Redway 26-05-2012 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155216)
No the UK is a single country. What you call countries are called states or provinces in other countries. The UK has 1 single seat at the UN and 1 single team at the olympics, why? because the UK is one single country.

To be honest, fair enough with that, so kudos to you (my personal flaw) but the rest of my post is correct.

lostalex 26-05-2012 03:49 PM

Well i think it would be criminal to force someone to marry, i'm assuming some violence or intimidation must be involved to FORCE someone to sign a document against their will. You cannot be married without both parties signature correct?

Redway 26-05-2012 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155222)
Well i think it would be criminal to force someone to marry, i'm assuming some violence or intimidation must be involved to FORCE someone to sign a document against their will. You cannot be married without both parties signature correct?

The thing is, it isn't criminal over here. Immoral, yes (quite presumably) but most definitely not illegal. What's your opinion has been absolutely crushed to crumbs by statistics, as has been explained to you numerous times on this thread. Here - where we have valid substantiation present to prove and disprove arguments - we have to argue objectively (i.e. as a definite answer), not subjectively (i.e. not as an opinion, e.g. I think voluntary euthanasia is wrong but you're welcome to disagree) and if you cannot comprehend that then I'm not wasting my time arguing with you on this matter.

lostalex 26-05-2012 04:02 PM

So you are telling me, a man can walk into a british office and violently force a woman to sign a marriage application? and there would be no criminal charges laid against that man?

i don't believe it.

arista 26-05-2012 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Redway (Post 5155227)
The thing is, it isn't criminal over here. Immoral, yes (quite presumably) but most definitely not illegal. What's your opinion has been absolutely crushed to crumbs by statistics, as has been explained to you numerous times on this thread. Here - where we have valid substantiation present to prove and disprove arguments - we have to argue objectively (i.e. as a definite answer), not subjectively (i.e. not as an opinion, e.g. I think voluntary euthanasia is wrong but you're welcome to disagree) and if you cannot comprehend that then I'm not wasting my time arguing with you on this matter.


Yes thanks to New Labour

Redway 26-05-2012 04:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155233)
So you are telling me, a man can walk into a british office and violently force a woman to sign a marriage application? and there would be no criminal charges laid against that man?

i don't believe it.

Well, look, whether or not you believe it, it's true. You can argue about this and take it round the houses all day but it's been proven in black and white. You have to accept that, whether or not you agree with it.

Kizzy 26-05-2012 04:07 PM

http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/publica...rs?view=Binary

http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/publica...on?view=Binary

Redway 26-05-2012 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by arista (Post 5155234)
Yes thanks to New Labour

It doesn't matter who put the law in action. It's still legal.

Omah 26-05-2012 04:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 5155216)
No the UK is a single country. What you call countries are called states or provinces in other countries. The UK has 1 single seat at the UN and 1 single team at the olympics, why? because the UK is one single country. If you think england, wales, and scotland are separate countries, well then take it up with the UN, not me.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom

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The United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland (commonly known as the United Kingdom, the UK, or Britain) is a sovereign state located off the north-western coast of continental Europe. The country includes the island of Great Britain, the north-eastern part of the island of Ireland and many smaller islands. Northern Ireland is the only part of the UK that shares a land border with another sovereign state—the Republic of Ireland. Apart from this land border the UK is surrounded by the Atlantic Ocean, the North Sea, the English Channel and the Irish Sea.

The United Kingdom is a unitary state governed under a constitutional monarchy and a parliamentary system, with its seat of government in the capital city of London. It is a country in its own right and consists of four countries: England, Northern Ireland, Scotland and Wales. There are three devolved administrations, each with varying powers, based in Belfast, Edinburgh and Cardiff, the capitals of Northern Ireland, Scotland, and Wales.
The UK does not have a team at the Olympics :

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Team GB is an abbreviation of the official nickname given to the representative teams of the British Olympic Association and British Paralympic Association (who are officially known as "ParalympicsGB"[1] ), Team GB and Northern Ireland. The nickname has courted controversy outside of England, Scotland and Wales, who together form Great Britain, mainly from Northern Ireland Unionist MPs who feel it excludes and alienates nations outside of the Island of Great Britain.
The British Isles are made up of several overlapping components :

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedi...diagram_15.svg

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They are a group of islands off the northwest coast of continental Europe that include the islands of Great Britain, Ireland and over six thousand smaller isles. There are two sovereign states located on the islands: the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland (commonly known as the United Kingdom) and the Republic of Ireland (officially and also known commonly as Ireland). The British Isles also include three dependencies of the British Crown: the Isle of Man and, by tradition, the Bailiwick of Jersey and the Bailiwick of Guernsey in the Channel Islands, although the latter are not physically a part of the archipelago.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Termino..._British_Isles

It's rather more complicated than the simple country/state analogy

Omah 26-05-2012 04:20 PM

I think you've scooped the prize for best link today ..... :thumbs:

:worship:

lostalex 26-05-2012 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Omah (Post 5155240)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom



The UK does not have a team at the Olympics :



The British Isles are made up of several overlapping components :

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedi...diagram_15.svg



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Termino..._British_Isles

It's rather more complicated than the simple country/state analogy

1 seat at the UN. The UK is a "soverign state" so what does that mean. lol if the UK wants to be called a state, does that mean you think all 50 of the American states are individual countries too??

we are playing semantics. it's boring.

The UKGBNI is a country, just like the USA, or the Soviet Union(r.i.p.) or the PRC(people's republic of china)

Kizzy 26-05-2012 04:28 PM

Ahhh....Having had a little skeg through the UK are maybe acting a little tricky on this and I agree...
Instead of criminalising the act of 'forced marriage' and risk a cultural backlash, the factors relating to the offence are already covered by current legislation...

Kidnapping
Child Abduction
Assault
False Inprisonment
Threats to kill
Public Order offences
Sexual offences
Harrassment/ stalking
Child cruelty
Blackmail

All these can be put forward as representative and carry considerable sentences...

Kizzy 26-05-2012 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Omah (Post 5155248)
I think you've scooped the prize for best link today ..... :thumbs:

:worship:

Fanks! :hugesmile:

Redway 26-05-2012 04:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Omah (Post 5155240)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom



The UK does not have a team at the Olympics :



The British Isles are made up of several overlapping components :

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedi...diagram_15.svg



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Termino..._British_Isles

It's rather more complicated than the simple country/state analogy

Thank you so much for posting that, Omah. It seems Alex's entire argument was wrong, then.

lostalex 26-05-2012 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Redway (Post 5155261)
Thank you so much for posting that, Omah. It seems Alex's entire argument was wrong, then.

actually it's not lol, the UK still only has 1 UN seat and 1 olympic team.

please tell me what other olympic teams or UN seats the UK has...

I don't see how he proved anything i said wrong... lol


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