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Crimson Dynamo 19-03-2014 10:31 AM

Feeding babies with boobs in public?
 
How do you feel about Mums feeding babies by using their boobs to secrete milk in places such as restaurants, park benches, churches, bowling alleys and supermarkets such as AsdaWallmart?

Niamh. 19-03-2014 10:32 AM

Its the most natural thing in the world, good on them I say :douf:

Cherie 19-03-2014 10:35 AM

Yes given new Mums are practically demonised by midwives for using a bottle! I can't see the big deal myself, most people who have an issue with public breastfeeding, seem to have no issue with boobs on display in a sexual way. :umm2:

Niamh. 19-03-2014 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 6761274)
Yes given new Mums are practically demonised by midwives for using a bottle! I can't see the big deal myself, most people who have an issue with public breastfeeding, seem to have no issue with boobs on display in a sexual way. :umm2:

Maybe it's spoiling their boob fantasies by seeing them used for what they were intended :laugh:

Cherie 19-03-2014 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6761277)
Maybe it's spoiling their boob fantasies by seeing them used for what they were intended :laugh:

That must be it! :joker:

Kyle 19-03-2014 10:40 AM

As long as they let me have some I don't see the problem tbh.

Crimson Dynamo 19-03-2014 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 6761288)
As long as they let me have some I don't see the problem tbh.

If you have ever tasted that foul gruel you would not say that

bleugh

AnnieK 19-03-2014 10:42 AM

I see no problem with it at all - most women who are feeding, you would never know anyway as they are so discreet.

Kyle 19-03-2014 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 6761292)
If you have ever tasted that foul gruel you would not say that

bleugh

Not had chance yet obviously. For some reason women don't take too kindly to me walking up to them and asking if they don't mind letting me have a swally.

Vicky. 19-03-2014 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 6761292)
If you have ever tasted that foul gruel you would not say that

bleugh

It actually tastes like sugary milk :p

And I think it should be encouraged tbh. Its the most healthy thing for the baby (I couldnt breastfeed with Skye and was devastated..gunna try again with this one) and if more women did it, the less strange people would find it.

Crimson Dynamo 19-03-2014 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 6761296)
Not had chance yet obviously. For some reason women don't take too kindly to me walking up to them and asking if they don't mind letting me have a swally.

If you just politely say "aw hen, gonny ge us a wee swatch at yur tuts"

I find that 9/10 oblige :spin:

Kyle 19-03-2014 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 6761302)
If you just politely say "aw hen, gonny ge us a wee swatch at yur tuts"

I find that 9/10 oblige :spin:

Not surprised in Govan, any excuse to get their tits out. :hugesmile:

Nedusa 19-03-2014 10:45 AM

There is no reason why a mother cannot be discreet and find a place not to public and if not she can always position her clothing so everything is not on display.

We are not living in the Victorian era now so I don't understand why anyone has a problem with this...

thesheriff443 19-03-2014 10:46 AM

i saw two examples of this on sunday while out walking at a nature reserve that includes a kids play park and cafe.

one lady was feeding her child while covering up with a blanket the other lady had the childs mouth to her breast for all to see!

i dont have a problem but the second lady could have been a bit more discreet.

Vicky. 19-03-2014 10:47 AM

http://www.digitalspy.co.uk/fun/news...ntroversy.html

This however, I do find rather creepy. Yes teach kids that its natural, but I would feel uncomfortable seeing a 5 year old walking round with a doll stuck to her chest tbh

Kizzy 19-03-2014 10:48 AM

Just shows the benny hill mentality of some British men... :idc: Pathetic.
And those who think it's disgusting do you know where the milk for your coffee comes from?
http://www.smartsamm.co.nz/images/find-1---udder.jpg

thesheriff443 19-03-2014 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 6761309)
Just shows the benny hill mentality of some British men... :idc: Pathetic.
And those who think it's disgusting do you know where the milk for your coffee comes from?
http://www.smartsamm.co.nz/images/find-1---udder.jpg

no need for you to get you're tits out kizzy:joker:

Crimson Dynamo 19-03-2014 11:00 AM

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-NbGZ0AyTXp...nted+boobs.jpg

Crimson Dynamo 19-03-2014 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 6761309)
Just shows the benny hill mentality of some British men... :idc: Pathetic.
And those who think it's disgusting do you know where the milk for your coffee comes from?
http://www.smartsamm.co.nz/images/find-1---udder.jpg

I get mine from the fridge

:crazy:

user104658 19-03-2014 11:18 AM

Why would the babies have boobs??? Damn you, Fukushima, damn you!


...more seriously: the obvious answer is, if you dony want to see it, dont look? My partner has breastfed both of our children and often "in public" without a second thought. If certain chronically immature individuals are "grossed out" by that we'll... I'm afraid to break the news... that none of us give a stuff. Not even slightly.

I'd also say to consider this, especially with newborns: breastfed babies don't feed like bottle babies. They dont have a big "feast" and then KO for hours, they "snack" frequently and are quiet and content when doing so. So my question is this: if you're out for dinner, would you rather have to "put up with" a breastfeeding mum and baby causing no fuss or noise that you can simply avert your gaze from if for some unfathomable reason it offends you... OR would you prefer to listen to an unhappy, grumbling baby at the next table for 45 minutes?


I swear the whole argument about being "put off food" by it is ridiculous. Some peoples faces put me off my food. I'm not just saying that: they genuinely do. Some people are so ugly and grubby looking that they give me the dry heave. So, yes, you guessed it! I simply *don't look at them*! I don't tell them they should leave or request that they kindly put on a mask. And they're sure as **** more offensive to look at than a peacefully breastfeeding baby.

user104658 19-03-2014 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 6761336)
I get mine from the fridge

:crazy:

How do you milk a fridge? That sounds like a money-saver right there.

Vicky. 19-03-2014 11:20 AM

Surely even if the mother just flops a boob out and puts the baby on (most breastfeeding mothers have a shawl or a lose top or something to be discreet though)...you still cant see anything anyway? The babies head would be blocking everything

the truth 19-03-2014 11:49 AM

who c\ares....the only problems youll have is women will soon start complaining and alleging that someone is looking at them and then youll have a zillion other problems

Me. I Am Salman 19-03-2014 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 6761333)

<3

Niamh. 19-03-2014 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 6761404)
who c\ares....the only problems youll have is women will soon start complaining and alleging that someone is looking at them and then youll have a zillion other problems

:joker:

Livia 19-03-2014 11:54 AM

I don't mind, so long as they're discreet about it. I know it's natural... but so is having a wee and I don't want to watch someone turn that into a performance. I have to say most mothers do use a shawl and are quite sensitive to other people's feelings. However... one of my MPs attended a Remembrance service in a church with lots of veterans, and his wife quite brazenly fed the baby in the front pew while all the old boys tried to find somewhere else to look. That's just wrong.

user104658 19-03-2014 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 6761412)
I don't mind, so long as they're discreet about it. I know it's natural... but so is having a wee and I don't want to watch someone turn that into a performance. I have to say most mothers do use a shawl and are quite sensitive to other people's feelings. However... one of my MPs attended a Remembrance service in a church with lots of veterans, and his wife quite brazenly fed the baby in the front pew while all the old boys tried to find somewhere else to look. That's just wrong.

Why is it wrong? Why should she care that she's making the "old boys" blush? It's ridiculous.

Moreover, what does t have to do with anyone elses' "feelings"?

Livia 19-03-2014 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 6761420)
Why is it wrong? Why should she care that she's making the "old boys" blush? It's ridiculous.

Moreover, what does t have to do with anyone elses' "feelings"?

Because she was indiscreet about it, and they were there for a very serious reason. She had a "******* you" attitude, as if she was the only one who's feelings mattered because she'd managed to pop out a kid. I don't mind seeing it in a restaurant, on the Tube... anywhere really so long as it's discreet. But this wasn't discreet. And it was ill-timed and rude. And incidentally, those "old Boys" deserve a little respect, it was a Remembrance service... their feelings were the only ones that mattered.

the truth 19-03-2014 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 6761420)
Why is it wrong? Why should she care that she's making the "old boys" blush? It's ridiculous.

Moreover, what does t have to do with anyone elses' "feelings"?

IT WILL SOON BECOME WRONG WHEN many women start to make complaints about being perved at and you can bet your life that complaint will multiply throught every corner of the land. thus wasting even more police time
by the way can I tug my willy and shoot my load in public rather than stain by underwear , its all perfectly natural too

Jesus. 19-03-2014 12:42 PM

What kind of parents let their babies grow boobs? Sick bastards.

user104658 19-03-2014 12:42 PM

I still have literally no idea why anyone's "feelings" come into the equation at all... But anyway. If she was genuinely doing it knowingly to prove some sort of "point" then yes, the timing was poor. However if she simply didn't realise that it would be an issue (which it shouldn't be, having a problem with it IS immature, but I can appreciate that war vets are generally old enough to still be suffering the aftereffects of the Victorian era) then I don't see the need for demonising or suggesting that she did anything "wrong". Again, what's worse at a remembrance service? A baby being fed in a completely normal way, or a hungry baby crying and disrupting the entire thing?

And if the solution is to suggest that babies shouldn't be there at all... Then in my opinion, the entire point of remembrance becomes an absolute sham. Remembrance is about remembering that men gave their lives supposedly to defend *freedom* ... If people's strange and misplaced values and inability to think of a nipple as anything other than genitalia still result in pointless oppression, then what on earth was the point of any of it?

user104658 19-03-2014 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 6761458)
IT WILL SOON BECOME WRONG WHEN many women start to make complaints about being perved at and you can bet your life that complaint will multiply throught every corner of the land. thus wasting even more police time
by the way can I tug my willy and shoot my load in public rather than stain by underwear , its all perfectly natural too

See above re: nipples are not genitals.

And yes, if you were to shoot your load in a baby's face, I expect there would be a problem.

Niamh. 19-03-2014 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 6761458)
IT WILL SOON BECOME WRONG WHEN many women start to make complaints about being perved at and you can bet your life that complaint will multiply throught every corner of the land. thus wasting even more police time
by the way can I tug my willy and shoot my load in public rather than stain by underwear , its all perfectly natural too

So should women therefore stay indoors and never venture outside again until their babies are no longer breast feeding? Comparing breast feeding with masturbation is one of the most ridiculous things I've heard you say yet and that list is quite long :joker:

the truth 19-03-2014 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 6761469)
I still have literally no idea why anyone's "feelings" come into the equation at all... But anyway. If she was genuinely doing it knowingly to prove some sort of "point" then yes, the timing was poor. However if she simply didn't realise that it would be an issue (which it shouldn't be, having a problem with it IS immature, but I can appreciate that war vets are generally old enough to still be suffering the aftereffects of the Victorian era) then I don't see the need for demonising or suggesting that she did anything "wrong". Again, what's worse at a remembrance service? A baby being fed in a completely normal way, or a hungry baby crying and disrupting the entire thing?

And if the solution is to suggest that babies shouldn't be there at all... Then in my opinion, the entire point of remembrance becomes an absolute sham. Remembrance is about remembering that men gave their lives supposedly to defend *freedom* ... If people's strange and misplaced values and inability to think of a nipple as anything other than genitalia still result in pointless oppression, then what on earth was the point of any of it?

I see you ignored my points? the women will soon start complaining theyre being looked at. also some people dont want to see people naked in the streets thats why there are laws against it. if I played with my todger in public Id soon be arrested for showing off and making other men look inferior :joker:

Niamh. 19-03-2014 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 6761469)
I still have literally no idea why anyone's "feelings" come into the equation at all... But anyway. If she was genuinely doing it knowingly to prove some sort of "point" then yes, the timing was poor. However if she simply didn't realise that it would be an issue (which it shouldn't be, having a problem with it IS immature, but I can appreciate that war vets are generally old enough to still be suffering the aftereffects of the Victorian era) then I don't see the need for demonising or suggesting that she did anything "wrong". Again, what's worse at a remembrance service? A baby being fed in a completely normal way, or a hungry baby crying and disrupting the entire thing?

And if the solution is to suggest that babies shouldn't be there at all... Then in my opinion, the entire point of remembrance becomes an absolute sham. Remembrance is about remembering that men gave their lives supposedly to defend *freedom* ... If people's strange and misplaced values and inability to think of a nipple as anything other than genitalia still result in pointless oppression, then what on earth was the point of any of it?

Exactly, it's absolutely fine for men to walk around topless though .........

the truth 19-03-2014 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6761482)
So should women therefore stay indoors and never venture outside again until their babies are no longer breast feeding? Comparing breast feeding with masturbation is one of the most ridiculous things I've heard you say yet and that list is quite long :joker:

who said stay indoors? just dont go throwing your baps out in public? your exaggerated point makes no sense......unless you advoceate invisible mankins and group masturbation everywhere

Niamh. 19-03-2014 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 6761485)
I see you ignored my points? the women will soon start complaining theyre being looked at. also some people dont want to see people naked in the streets thats why there are laws against it. if I played with my todger in public Id soon be arrested for showing off and making other men look inferior :joker:

If you walked down the street topless would you be arrested?

the truth 19-03-2014 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6761491)
If you walked down the street topless would you be arrested?

i dont have breasts im not a woman? surely youd guessed i was a man by now...bizarre

sassysocks 19-03-2014 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 6761458)
IT WILL SOON BECOME WRONG WHEN many women start to make complaints about being perved at and you can bet your life that complaint will multiply throught every corner of the land. thus wasting even more police time
by the way can I tug my willy and shoot my load in public rather than stain by underwear , its all perfectly natural too

And some accuse women of being the emotional ones. :xyxwave:

Niamh. 19-03-2014 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 6761490)
who said stay indoors? just dont go throwing your baps out in public? your exaggerated point makes no sense......unless you advoceate invisible mankins and group masturbation everywhere

Myyyyyyyy exaggerated point? :idc:

ehem....... by the way can I tug my willy and shoot my load in public rather than stain by underwear , its all perfectly natural too


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