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Jessica. 22-10-2014 12:27 AM

Do you have friends on the internet?
 
Would you consider anyone you speak to online, but haven't met, as an actual friend? Do you think it's possible to have a true friend online? What do you look for in a friend? Do you think friends in real life are more important than online friends or are they equal?

Jords 22-10-2014 12:29 AM

I used to have many 'online friends' (inc. you Jess :bigsmile:) but Id probably consider them more as 'online acquaintances' now due to lack of interaction.

Drew. 22-10-2014 12:30 AM

A few from here i'd consider friends on the same level as friends in real life, it kinda becomes like that when you speak to some of them every day for years. I probably have more in common with some people online too. Much easier to lose contact and just forget about people online though.

Black Dagger 22-10-2014 12:31 AM

I don't really have real life friends, sad really, apart from my old school friends who I see once a week for pub quiz.

But yes I definitely have a lot of friends online (and enough to actually meet 4 of them irl :amazed:)

Jessica. 22-10-2014 12:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Drew. (Post 7334214)
Much easier to lose contact and just forget about people online though.

I agree, that is one of the toughest things about online friendships, I have had so many friends who just disappeared one day. :sad:

Jessica. 22-10-2014 12:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by _LucasMichael_ (Post 7334217)
I don't really have real life friends, sad really, apart from my old school friends who I see once a week for pub quiz.

But yes I definitely have a lot of friends online (and enough to actually meet 4 of them irl :amazed:)

I don't really have friends in real life either, Lucas, it's not sad, you're just superior. :smug:

Shaun 22-10-2014 12:34 AM

Voted the first option because social interaction (plus the history :laugh:) is way more important, but on the other hand I probably talk to some from here about more personal things than I do with any RL friends.

Braden 22-10-2014 12:34 AM

I speak to people on here like I would with my real-life friends, but I have much deeper connections with my real life friends,

With that said there are people on here I would (probably) get on with if I met the in person.

Liam- 22-10-2014 12:35 AM

I have made some amazing friends on the internet over the past couple of years, not always having the pleasure to meet all of them but am still In contact with them, it's so much easier to make friends online for me, I find people irl to be too judgey, I could never have spoken to some of my real friends about things that I've told my online friends tbh :flutter:

Jessica. 22-10-2014 12:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LiamPRW (Post 7334233)
I could never have spoken to some of my real friends about things that I've told my online friends tbh :flutter:

Yeah, same, I find it so much easier to talk about things with my online friends rather than with family or people I know in real life, it's weird, but it's always great to have that option because sometimes you just NEED to talk about things. :joker:

Liam- 22-10-2014 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Jessica. (Post 7334282)
Yeah, same, I find it so much easier to talk about things with my online friends rather than with family or people I know in real life, it's weird, but it's always great to have that option because sometimes you just NEED to talk about things. :joker:

Exactly, I was going through some **** last year that if I went to my friends about it, they'd have probably turned it into a joke and I'd have still been no better than I was :laugh: but my online friends helped me through it and have me stellar advice without judging me or making me feel bad.. Internet ftw :joker:

LukeB 22-10-2014 01:10 AM

Yes one of my best friends is from the internet

Dollface 22-10-2014 01:51 AM

My best friend is someone i've known online for over 5 years
All my real life friends ended up stabbing me in the back at some point or another, so i thought "true friends" were just a myth. Turns out true friendships are possible though, via the internet in my case :)
We're meeting up this November though (finally!) so she wont be an online friend for much longer :smug:

Xtopher 22-10-2014 01:54 AM

Ugh I accidentally voted the wrong option. I have many online friends and a good amount of them are best friends. I also have real life friends and the same story. I love both.

Novo 22-10-2014 10:51 AM

Well yeah i suppose Purds has been equal for years despite being a Scouse jobber

Vanessa 22-10-2014 10:52 AM

Yes, i do. met them from facebook. We meet up from time to time. :)

T* 22-10-2014 10:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shaun (Post 7334227)
Voted the first option because social interaction (plus the history :laugh:) is way more important, but on the other hand I probably talk to some from here about more personal things than I do with any RL friends.

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Niamh. 22-10-2014 10:53 AM

I have a couple of people from here I consider friends, it's difficult to take it to the next level of friendship without having met up in person though

Vanessa 22-10-2014 10:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7334599)
I have a couple of people from here I consider friends, it's difficult to take it to the next level of friendship without having met up in person though

Same.

Glenn. 22-10-2014 11:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shaun (Post 7334227)
Voted the first option because social interaction (plus the history :laugh:) is way more important, but on the other hand I probably talk to some from here about more personal things than I do with any RL friends.

Same

Jessica. 22-10-2014 12:14 PM

Lots of internet love in this thread. :love:

Ramsay 22-10-2014 12:25 PM

I dunnnooooo

MTVN 22-10-2014 12:36 PM

Would consider people on here friends but I only really interact within the forum and don't use off-site stuff, plus the obvious never met them in person thing, so it's very different to 'real life' friends

LukeB 22-10-2014 12:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 7334752)
Would consider people on here friends but I only really interact within the forum and don't use off-site stuff, plus the obvious never met them in person thing, so it's very different to 'real life' friends

Depends because people can meet up if they want to and trust them

MTVN 22-10-2014 12:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LukeB (Post 7334754)
Depends because people can meet up if they want to and trust them

Yeah sure but I was just talking about myself

LukeB 22-10-2014 12:47 PM

I spoke to this girl on msn who i didn't know 8 years ago and we still talk now, she is from london and i met her about 10 times

Liam- 22-10-2014 12:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LukeB (Post 7334766)
I spoke to this girl on msn who i didn't know 8 years ago and we still talk now, she is from london and i met her about 10 times

:evilgrin:

LukeB 22-10-2014 12:51 PM

And i think im pretty close with 1/2 people on here too

LukeB 22-10-2014 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LiamPRW (Post 7334767)
:evilgrin:

See her as a friend :p

Liam- 22-10-2014 12:53 PM

Yeah yea, that's what they all say :laugh:

LukeB 22-10-2014 12:54 PM

She has a bf and we just close don't see her in that way :p

Vanessa 22-10-2014 12:55 PM

I think it's possible to make friends on the internet. I have made a lot on twitter and facebook. I haven't met anyone in here, but there are people i like.

lostalex 22-10-2014 01:00 PM

what a silly question.

Livia 22-10-2014 01:57 PM

I have friends on the Internet who are just as important as my real life friends. I have friends on this forum who have been wonderful friends to me.

Mitchell 22-10-2014 02:24 PM

Definitely, I've made around 9 or 10 really good online friends, I met up with one last July, I currently host a podcast with one of them and will be meeting in December and I've spoken to one literally every day for the last 2 years, recently my friend has moved to uni, so I speak to her online now and it feels the same, I like to treat them equally as I've grown close to all of them.

Plus I only really have one friend in real life now and even her I can't really be myself to :p

Vanessa 22-10-2014 04:42 PM

The only person i'm really close to is my twin sister. She knows me more than anyone else and we just chat on messenger or skype all the time.

Daniel. 22-10-2014 04:45 PM

I have 2 real life friends I actually like. The others I hang around with when I'm bored but don't like them too much

I have a few I met online

Daniel. 22-10-2014 04:45 PM

I had a Gay Friend from Texas called Michael I met online but now we don;t talk

Crimson Dynamo 22-10-2014 05:04 PM

I have no internet friends as such

Im not a particularly friendly person tbh

Vanessa 22-10-2014 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7335196)
I have no internet friends as such

Im not a particularly friendly person tbh

Neither am i. I've always struggled to make friends. :laugh:


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