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ThriceShy 28-06-2015 05:16 AM

A question for those excusing Danny's behaviour
 
Having watched dannys violent outbursts, would you want your daughter to live alone with him as his girlfriend?

Be honest now.

ConnieLingus 28-06-2015 05:20 AM

I definitely would...for a short while.

My daughter is a 3rd Dan Karate black belt, and a Tae Kwon Do black belt though, and hates pieces of sh it like that.

I know she would bide her time and then do the right thing.

Withano 28-06-2015 05:21 AM

Nobody has excused his behaviour.

reece(: 28-06-2015 05:22 AM

He has shown to be a decent bloke with good intentions.

The same could not be said for the aggressive cup thrower.

ConnieLingus 28-06-2015 05:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939026)
Nobody has excused his behaviour.

You did...or at least tried to.

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 05:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939026)
Nobody has excused his behaviour.


Yes they have. I have been reading posts all night that suggest his behaviour was justified by marc winding him up.

Jack_ 28-06-2015 05:24 AM

This is three threads on the same incident, can they be merged plz

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 05:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939026)
Nobody has excused his behaviour.


Here you go:

Quote:

Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 7939027)
He has shown to be a decent bloke with good intentions.

The same could not be said for the aggressive cup thrower.


Withano 28-06-2015 05:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ConnieLingus (Post 7939031)
You did...or at least tried to.

Because I explained in your thread that he didnt threaten to murder someone.. That's all I've done... He didn't say anything of the sort, you misheard, his behaviour was inexcusable but telling Marc that he would put pasta in his face is different to the ridiculously hysterical thread you made about Danny 'disfiguring and attempting to murder Marc'

ConnieLingus 28-06-2015 05:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 7939027)
He has shown to be a decent bloke with good intentions.

The same could not be said for the aggressive cup thrower.

A decent bloke who continually loses his temper, and threatens others?

We can do without those kind of good intentions thank you very much.

Those are the kind of good intentions that get women abused in this country. He's a nutjob who can't control himself.

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 05:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939039)
Because I explained in your thread that he did t threaten to murder someone.. That's all I've done! He didn't you misheard, his behaviour was inexcusable but telling Marc that he would put pasta in his face is different to the ridiculously hysterical thread you made about Danny 'disfiguring and attempting to murder Marc'

So we know he said pasta and not glass.

So, why hasn't he been booted out? And would you want your daughter living with him as his girlfriend?

reece(: 28-06-2015 05:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ConnieLingus (Post 7939040)
Those are the kind of good intentions that get women abused in this country. He's a nutjob who can't control himself.

Totally asinine comparison. Marc knew what he was doing and goaded him. Of course physical attacks are not acceptable but as if a few pieces of meat thrown in the air are going to warrant a comparison to women getting beaten and abused. Perspective needed............

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 05:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 7939048)
Totally asinine comparison. Marc knew what he was doing and goaded him. Of course physical attacks are not acceptable but as if a few pieces of meat thrown in the air are going to warrant a comparison to women getting beaten and abused. Perspective needed............

Did you miss danny's fit of pure blind violent rage while arguing with helen?

He has had to dragged off twice now to the diary room to stop him trashing the joint and hitting people.

ConnieLingus 28-06-2015 05:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by reece(: (Post 7939048)
Totally asinine comparison. Marc knew what he was doing and goaded him. Of course physical attacks are not acceptable but as if a few pieces of meat thrown in the air are going to warrant a comparison to women getting beaten and abused. Perspective needed............

Hmm...you think people with this kind of rage can control it just because they are in the company of women?

People with his rage issues are a danger...mostly to women because they are physically weaker in general, but to everyone else too because he thinks nothing of using weapons.

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 05:58 AM

Still no answers.

Gee, I guess it must just be a difficult question.

I will try and make it easier next time.

ConnieLingus 28-06-2015 06:05 AM

I swear on my mother's dead cat's grave that Danny should have been ejected for his aggression.

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 06:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939026)
Nobody has excused his behaviour.

Do you agree that he should have been ejected for his violent outbursts?


(I won't hold my breath for an answer:laugh:)

abhorson 28-06-2015 06:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThriceShy (Post 7939051)
Did you miss danny's fit of pure blind violent rage while arguing with helen?

He has had to dragged off twice now to the diary room to stop him trashing the joint and hitting people.

:laugh::laugh:

How on earth could it be "violent rage" when there was no violence:laugh:

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 06:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by abhorson (Post 7939088)
:laugh::laugh:

How on earth could it be "violent rage" when there was no violence:laugh:


Did you not see his violent outburst with the pizza boxes? He had to be restrained and dragged off again.

abhorson 28-06-2015 06:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThriceShy (Post 7939091)
Did you not see his violent outburst with the pizza boxes? He had to be restrained and dragged off again.

Shiver me old timbers. Let us have a funeral in cardboard city:laugh:

Withano 28-06-2015 06:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThriceShy (Post 7939087)
Do you agree that he should have been ejected for his violent outbursts?


(I won't hold my breath for an answer:laugh:)

No, if it was consistent or regular or lasted longer or he threw something heavier than a sandwich or if he wasn't being goaded into an argument and his temper came from nowhere, then maybe.

But when I watched the show I saw a guy finally lose a temper for about 20 seconds before he calmed back down.

Losing his temper like this is not okay and I'm glad that he was warned to not repeat it. Anything less than a warning would have been irresponsible for bb, anything more would have been OTT in my opinion.

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 06:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by abhorson (Post 7939095)
Shiver me old timbers. Let us have a funeral in cardboard city:laugh:

It was still violent.

And in fact, it shows an escalation. First the pizza boxes, then in the second incident actually throwing things that hit people.

What next?

ConnieLingus 28-06-2015 06:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThriceShy (Post 7939087)
Do you agree that he should have been ejected for his violent outbursts?


(I won't hold my breath for an answer:laugh:)

I find it hilarious that when someone uses a naughty insult (especially against a favoured housemate), you can't move on this board for offended posters on this board demanding retribution.

However, get a good old boy favourite threatening/committing violence, and you get a defence for them on here that puts OJ Simpson's lawyers to shame.

abhorson 28-06-2015 06:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThriceShy (Post 7939099)
It was still violent.

And in fact, it shows an escalation. First the pizza boxes, then in the second incident actually throwing things that hit people.

What next?

Things? Which things are they?

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 06:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939098)
No, if it was consistent or regular or lasted longer or he threw something heavier than a sandwich or if he wasn't being goaded into an argument and his temper came from nowhere, then maybe.

But when I watched the show I saw a guy finally lose a temper for about 20 seconds before he calmed back down.

Losing his temper like this is not okay and I'm glad that he was warned to not repeat it. Anything less than a warning would have been irresponsible for bb, anything more would have been OTT in my opinion.

But he did repeat it.

TWICE now he has completely lost it and had to be dragged off.

And you are excusing his behaviour by saying he was goaded.

Would you want your daughter to live with him as his girlfriend? (Don't panic, it's on topic:laugh:)

Ammi 28-06-2015 06:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ConnieLingus (Post 7939100)
I find it hilarious that when someone uses a naughty insult (especially against a favoured housemate), you can't move on this board for offended posters on this board demanding retribution.

However, get a good old boy favourite threatening/committing violence, and you get a defence for them on here that puts OJ Simpson's lawyers to shame.

...I really haven't noticed Danny being a forum favourite at all tbh...and I for sure don't have any particular 'Danny love'....he's barely done anything through the series, or it hasn't been highlighted so has seemed so and now he's 'coming to the fore' a bit more, it's mostly been in a negative/aggressive type way...so really noting much 'likeable' about him....

Withano 28-06-2015 06:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThriceShy (Post 7939103)
But he did repeat it.

TWICE now he has completely lost it and had to be dragged off.

And you are excusing his behaviour by saying he was goaded.

Would you want your daughter to live with him as his girlfriend? (Don't panic, it's on topic:laugh:)

He wasn't even warned with the pizza boxes.. Because it wasn't a big deal.. Just a bit out of character.. Are you saying that pushing 3 pizza boxes off a kitchen side deserves a warning.. Really?

I'm not excusing his behaviour, his behaviour was gross. You asked if the behaviour deserved ejection last night and I personally think no because he lost his temper for less than a minute after being goaded, it deserved nothing more than a warning. I've ran out of ways to express my opinion on this, if you're still unsure, I can't help. Maybe reread it.

I don't have a daughter, I'm the wrong person to ask. Not into answering hypothetical questions either.

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 06:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939111)
He wasn't even warned with the pizza boxes.. Because it wasn't a big deal.. Just a bit out of character.. Are you saying that pushing 3 pizza boxes off a kitchen side deserves a warning.. Really?

Yes, because that is exactly what he did isn't it. He just nonchalantly pushed the pizza boxes off the counter as he breezed past, whistling a happy tune.



Quote:

I'm not excusing his behaviour, his behaviour was gross. You asked if the behaviour deserved ejection last night and I personally think no because he lost his temper for less than a minute after being goaded,
Daley was goaded by Hazel and he grabbed her throat for only a few seconds. Is there a time limit?

What would Danny have had to do to get ejected?


Quote:

it deserved nothing more than a warning. I've ran out of ways to express my opinion on this, if you're still unsure, I can't help. Maybe reread it.
I'm reading it loud and clear. You are excusing his behaviour because you like him. If Marc behaved that way then you would probably be asking for police involvement.

Quote:

I don't have a daughter, I'm the wrong person to ask. Not into answering hypothetical questions either.
Then stop posting in threads whose topic is "would you want your daughter to live with danny as his girlfriend?"

Just a suggestion. What with you being so keen to stay on topic and all.

Withano 28-06-2015 06:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThriceShy (Post 7939119)


Daley was goaded by Hazel and he grabbed her throat for only a few seconds. Is there a time limit?



There's no way that you're being serious.

I can't be bothered to reply to you anymore.

Withano 28-06-2015 06:47 AM

You posted a lot of ridiculous **** tonight but that was just dumb, you'll be on my ignore list so there's no point in replying to me, but I believe you still can if you wish.

Try watching the show for what actually happens instead of watching what you want to see.

DrunkerThanMoses 28-06-2015 06:49 AM

Nope I would push her to live with real men like Christian or Joel

ThriceShy 28-06-2015 06:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939129)
You posted a lot of ridiculous **** tonight but that was just dumb, you'll be on my ignore list so there's no point in replying to me, but I believe you still can if you wish.

Try watching the show for what actually happens instead of watching what you want to see.

My 5 year old puts me on his ignore list sometimes. He puts his hands over his ears and repeatedly shouts "Nar nar nar nar nar!"

Bless him.

But I understand. Being asked relevant, precise questions that prevent you from muddying the waters can get tiring. Give yourself a break.:laugh:

abhorson 28-06-2015 07:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by abhorson (Post 7939102)
Things? Which things are they?

So, no reply!!

Well i will help. It was not "things" it was a sandwich. But if you want to be picky, i will stretch to two halves of a slice plus filling.

So pizza boxes and a sandwich? You make it sound like Rommel has just come over the dunes with a division of Tigers to face one measly Churchhill tank.

Give over and play fair FFS:joker:

Jimrod 28-06-2015 07:15 AM

Ahh so a little occasional violence is ok so long as someone's getting a bit wound up? Got it. I guess it's similar to those women who go out and get sexually assaulted because they were wearing provocative clothes, they were asking for it after all... How about Danny just walking away if he was wound up, not getting in Marc's face and threatening him, would that not have been a solution?

smudgie 28-06-2015 07:24 AM

Come across more as a temper tantrum than violent intent to me.
Perhaps he should learn to control it, then again it might be down to going stir crazy.
I have no idea what he is like on the outside of the house, we are not seeing these people in normal circumstances either.
Somebody throwing a few pizza boxes or a Sandwhich would not make me think my daughter would be in imminent danger if I am being honest.
If he was putting his fist through the walls I might have a rethink.

abhorson 28-06-2015 07:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jimrod (Post 7939154)
Ahh so a little occasional violence is ok so long as someone's getting a bit wound up? Got it. I guess it's similar to those women who go out and get sexually assaulted because they were wearing provocative clothes, they were asking for it after all... How about Danny just walking away if he was wound up, not getting in Marc's face and threatening him, would that not have been a solution?

Not really a comparison. And you belittle the woman analogy. An aggressive temper, yes. Violence, no. Marc's behaviour to nearly all is passive aggression. He should do the same.

Northern Monkey 28-06-2015 07:30 AM

I have had a glass in my face and i have also had pasta in my face.The glass actually knocked me out and caused me to have stitches,The pasta was much less harmful.True story.

abhorson 28-06-2015 07:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 7939125)
There's no way that you're being serious.

I can't be bothered to reply to you anymore.

Someone seems to have it in for you, even with your reasoned multiple replies.

Well done for staying calm. I would be banned:laugh:

Mick 28-06-2015 08:01 AM

Where is the balance.The BB wants confrontation between HMs actively promotes it then objects when it escalates.

Danny was wrong yet imo there was nothing wrong in his objection to what marc was doing.Ask someone a question and not receiving the answer he wanted then question there honesty.This is a tactic he frequently uses. A passive way of calling someone a liar.After the picnic task he called cristian a coward many men would find both insulting but hey its only banter and all should understand.

Ever since marc entered the house danny has been on a hiding to nothing because he is the only one able to physically stand up to marc.When others are intimidated dominated and manipulated if he stands back and does nothing he gets stick but when he intervenes on behalf of another he is accused of game playing.

I feel objective about this as frankly I don't wish to see either of them win but in this instance I think dannys reactions where very understandable. The Wasp does have a sting and this is what marc does not like.

ebandit 28-06-2015 08:07 AM

danny was wrong..............considering why he acted in such a manner

is not excusing that behaviour

Mark L


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