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arista 29-09-2015 10:18 AM

Manchester: aged 15 boy had sex 50 times with 30 year old lady teacher assistant
 
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/...3494040809.jpg
[Teaching assistant: Caroline Berriman, 30,
from Oldham, avoided a jail sentence
last week despite admitting
two counts of sexual activity with a child]

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...#ixzz3n7aurZOV



typical Female Peodo gets away with it

Liam- 29-09-2015 10:19 AM

Stories like this actually make me sick.

the truth 29-09-2015 10:20 AM

why would a woman that good looking be fiddling with children? she must be mental

Kyle 29-09-2015 10:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 8186435)
Stories like this actually make me sick.

I know tell me about it. Lucky little sh*t.

the truth 29-09-2015 10:23 AM

if it was a man hed have gone to prison for many years...totally sexist

Liam- 29-09-2015 10:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 8186438)
I know tell me about it. Lucky little sh*t.

:joker: :nono:

the truth 29-09-2015 10:27 AM

if it was a man hed have gone to prison for 5 years, as did the last male teacher who had an affair with a 15 year old

Liam- 29-09-2015 10:27 AM

For once I agree with the truth, if the roles were reversed, a man would be going to prison, but women get nothing more than a slap on the wrist and a stern talking too, it's ridiculous.

the truth 29-09-2015 10:32 AM

I am the truth , but a lot of people cant handle the truth

Niamh. 29-09-2015 10:38 AM

These cases are even worse when it's a teacher or teaching assistant because they have such a duty of care towards students.

kirklancaster 29-09-2015 10:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by the truth (Post 8186439)
if it was a man hed have gone to prison for many years...totally sexist

Very true.

LukeB 29-09-2015 10:42 AM

Looks like aisleyne

empire 30-09-2015 02:08 AM

we live in a narcissistic pervert culture, in todays world, where women and girls are oversexualized and obsessed with there image, and because they are like that, some can't abandon their teenage girly years, and they think that they do no wrong in there own minds, too them it would not of mattered if he was 15 or 10, because people who are sexully attracted to the underage, like a type of age, and that is what is in her mind, it was lucky that they caught her, because she would of picked out another boy who would be alot younger than he is,

Mystic Mock 30-09-2015 03:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by the truth (Post 8186437)
why would a woman that good looking be fiddling with children? she must be mental

Attractive people can be paedos too.:laugh:

I'm surprised you're not using the argument of a woman getting away with something that a man wouldn't get away with.

Kyle 30-09-2015 04:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 8188748)
Attractive people can be paedos too.:laugh:

I'm surprised you're not using the argument of a woman getting away with something that a man wouldn't get away with.

Look a bit further down the thread mate :laugh:

Mystic Mock 30-09-2015 04:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 8188753)
Look a bit further down the thread mate :laugh:

Yeah I should've guessed that I spoke to soon.:laugh:

If only I was 15 again.:flutter::joker:

Josy 30-09-2015 07:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8186453)
These cases are even worse when it's a teacher or teaching assistant because they have such a duty of care towards students.

I agree completely.

I also hate how the media deal with these stories too, say if it's a decent looking female they post pics of them all dressed nice with make up etc or you get headlines like 'glamourous teaching assistant sleeps with boy' and then you get people saying things like 'what a lad' etc etc now if you swing the story around and it's a male teaching assistant it's a completely different story.

Regardless of what gender those involved are it's completely unacceptable.

letmein 30-09-2015 07:30 AM

They were counting? I guess that was his math lesson.

Amy Jade 30-09-2015 07:53 AM

Iggy Azalea?

Ashley. 30-09-2015 08:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by the truth (Post 8186437)
why would a woman that good looking be fiddling with children? she must be mental

because she knew she'd get away with it.

Ammi 30-09-2015 08:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8186453)
These cases are even worse when it's a teacher or teaching assistant because they have such a duty of care towards students.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Josy (Post 8188824)
I agree completely.

I also hate how the media deal with these stories too, say if it's a decent looking female they post pics of them all dressed nice with make up etc or you get headlines like 'glamourous teaching assistant sleeps with boy' and then you get people saying things like 'what a lad' etc etc now if you swing the story around and it's a male teaching assistant it's a completely different story.

Regardless of what gender those involved are it's completely unacceptable.

..I agree with you both, it's a complete betrayal of someone who is in a position of trust and akin to something like a police officer...school staff have endless training of situations that may arise of a child 'making a disclosure' to them of something that had made/was making the child feel uncomfortable...the disclosures are often made to school staff and within schools because children don't always feel they can talk to parents or family members for whatever reasons and school staff represent 'trust' to them...it's one of the worst things for someone to betray that trust like she did and exploit his vulnerability....

...also, yes Josy...when you look at the pics of this story and try to 'flip it'...say it was an attractive male school worker..?..I just can't imagine that anyone or many people in the public would find it anything other than distasteful and inappropriate to the story and what he had done...if he was media presented as a physically 'hot guy'...

Ammi 30-09-2015 08:40 AM

..and maybe some of the school staff who have abused in this way have actually themselves sat in on children's meetings and talks with social workers..I just find this so, so hard...

user104658 30-09-2015 08:56 AM

http://www.southparkstudios.co.uk/clips/155304/nice

Entirely relevant to this thread.

Liam- 30-09-2015 09:00 AM

I actually can't stand the way people don't take stories like this seriously if it's a woman doing the wrong, but go all out and want blood when a man takes advantage of a girl, it's actually infuriating.

Ammi 30-09-2015 09:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 8188872)
http://www.southparkstudios.co.uk/clips/155304/nice

Entirely relevant to this thread.

..so yeah I had to click and admit to the over 18yrs bit, trust you TS...they always get it so right though, don't they...South Park...

Northern Monkey 30-09-2015 09:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 8186438)
I know tell me about it. Lucky little sh*t.

That's what i thought too!When i was 15 my hormones were raging.I'd have given a bollock to **** her.:laugh:

Niamh. 30-09-2015 09:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Josy (Post 8188824)
I agree completely.

I also hate how the media deal with these stories too, say if it's a decent looking female they post pics of them all dressed nice with make up etc or you get headlines like 'glamourous teaching assistant sleeps with boy' and then you get people saying things like 'what a lad' etc etc now if you swing the story around and it's a male teaching assistant it's a completely different story.

Regardless of what gender those involved are it's completely unacceptable.

Absolutely agree. Also, can I point out that the majority of the time it's men that make those comments as well. So you have some men screaming reverse sexism which is fine but they need to realise that it's mostly men enforcing that reverse sexism. I think the majority of women would as disgusted by either male or female teachers in this kind of situation.

user104658 30-09-2015 09:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 8188878)
..so yeah I had to click and admit to the over 18yrs bit, trust you TS...they always get it so right though, don't they...South Park...

If I remember right, when that episode came out there was something similar going on in the US. A teacher had been having sex with various teenage boys but absolutely everything in the media was just about how hot she was, "teachers didn't look like that when I was at school!!", and all of that.

I know age isn't entirely the point, but I swear, people would have less problem with an attractive 40 year old female teacher having a relationship with a 13 year old boy than they would with a 30-something year old male teacher and a 16 year old female pupil. There's this perception that the girl must have "been groomed" whereas the boy is "lucky!".

Crimson Dynamo 30-09-2015 09:26 AM

The devious breaking of trust is unforgivable.

Kyle 30-09-2015 09:26 AM

It's totally wrong and I can see the hypocrisy and double standards when you switch genders but looking at this from the perspective of a red blooded male that was once a teen this is a fantasy for a lot of lads at that age so when we are talking about people calling him 'lucky' in my opinion yeh he is lucky. I'm well jealous myself. I'd have loved it if I was the kid.

Ammi 30-09-2015 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 8188889)
If I remember right, when that episode came out there was something similar going on in the US. A teacher had been having sex with various teenage boys but absolutely everything in the media was just about how hot she was, "teachers didn't look like that when I was at school!!", and all of that.

I know age isn't entirely the point, but I swear, people would have less problem with an attractive 40 year old female teacher having a relationship with a 13 year old boy than they would with a 30-something year old male teacher and a 16 year old female pupil. There's this perception that the girl must have "been groomed" whereas the boy is "lucky!".

...mind you I have to say, when I was at school a long time ago..we had a male tutor who was considered 'hot' and the subject of lots of crushes for some girl pupils..he was 27yrs old, with a new wife and young baby..I only really knew his age was what it was exactly because he and a 16yr old student had an affair and obviously it was a HUGE scandal and talking point, so his age was mentioned....I know she was 16yrs old and not a child in the eyes of the law but still, this was all in school ours and in the school itself and so a betrayal of trust and duty of care..from what I recall, there was no 'grooming' thoughts but more that she was the one criticised and being called pretty horrific things...she also became pregnant by him, by the way...

Liam- 30-09-2015 09:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 8188896)
It's totally wrong and I can see the hypocrisy and double standards when you switch genders but looking at this from the perspective of a red blooded male that was once a teen this is a fantasy for a lot of lads at that age so when we are talking about people calling him 'lucky' in my opinion yeh he is lucky. I'm well jealous myself. I'd have loved it if I was the kid.

He's lucky to have been abused? :worry:

Ammi 30-09-2015 09:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 8188896)
It's totally wrong and I can see the hypocrisy and double standards when you switch genders but looking at this from the perspective of a red blooded male that was once a teen this is a fantasy for a lot of lads at that age so when we are talking about people calling him 'lucky' in my opinion yeh he is lucky. I'm well jealous myself. I'd have loved it if I was the kid.

..yeah, I can understand that as well and how it becomes the 'thing to say' as well I guess..oh wow, my teachers never looked like that...

Niamh. 30-09-2015 09:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 8188889)
If I remember right, when that episode came out there was something similar going on in the US. A teacher had been having sex with various teenage boys but absolutely everything in the media was just about how hot she was, "teachers didn't look like that when I was at school!!", and all of that.

I know age isn't entirely the point, but I swear, people would have less problem with an attractive 40 year old female teacher having a relationship with a 13 year old boy than they would with a 30-something year old male teacher and a 16 year old female pupil. There's this perception that the girl must have "been groomed" whereas the boy is "lucky!".

And again, it's other men that reinforce that view, just look at the comments in this thread alone for example

Kyle 30-09-2015 09:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 8188901)
He's lucky to have been abused? :worry:

If I were having a sexual liaison with a female teacher as a 15 year old lad the last word I'd be using is 'abused' I'll tell you that. :laugh:

Look at the end of the day I said it's wrong and I totally understand the double standards but I'm not gonna sit and lie and pretend that if I knew this lad when I was in school that I wouldn't be patting him on the back and teling him well done for doing what we all dreamed of.

Northern Monkey 30-09-2015 10:02 AM

Everyone knows it's wrong.Nobody's stupid enough to think otherwise.I get what Kyle is saying.Looking at it from the 15 year old lad's perspective.I still remember being that age.I'd get a stiffy from the vibrations of the bus seat.Obviously it's wrong!Nobody thinks otherwise.His parents will obviously be furious.

Ammi 30-09-2015 10:10 AM

..that's a bit too much information there Paul...probably why you didn't save bus fare and walk instead...

Northern Monkey 30-09-2015 10:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 8188939)
..that's a bit too much information there Paul...probably why you didn't save bus fare and walk instead...

Sorry.:joker:
I think it's true of most lads that age though was my point.Many blokes remember what it was like to be that age...The frustration,Like torture:laugh:

Livia 30-09-2015 10:58 AM

I fail to see what a fifteen year old boy could offer a thirty year old woman. Inexperience and gratitude isn't such a turn on.

She should get the same treatment at a 30 year old male would get if he went with a 15 year old girl. The punishment has to be seen to be equal. At least her career's over.

Crimson Dynamo 30-09-2015 11:06 AM

Its abuse

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