I was wished cancer tonight
 

On the way to my night out w the chicks tonight some guys in a car at the petrol station were looking at my w very devious looks and as they drove off someone said 'I hope you get testicular cancer.'

I really don't know how to feel. Like my friends tried to convince me to not let it bother me, but that's about one of the worst things you can say to a person. I mean it was probably homophobically motivated and one of my friends tried to say it wasn't which I found a bit cheeky!

Honestl sick of the straighties underestimating the gay struggle!

Wtf that is absolutely horrible, I hope you're ok :(

Words mean nothing, rihmember that

Yeah whoever said that is obviously scum so don't let it get to you

Scummy thing to say but I would laugh it off, the more someone tries to offened me the less I am offended

TomC

Move on faster
ignore Thugs.

Some people are just nasty, he is not worth worrying over

don't let those disgusting words get to you babe :(

Why would anyone give any thought to the intentions of idiots like that. Don’t waste any time thinking about it - to do so gives them value, when they clearly have none.

That's vulgar! There's a thing called Karma so they'll probably get cancer.

Just ignore them hun x

ugh ****ing scumbags

hopefully they crashed into a tree or s/t after they left

Horrible bastards, unfortunately the world is full of them

I often find the definition of ugliness is the bitterness and nastiness inside people.

I've never seen an ugly person on the outside.

Perhaps crude word choice in my drunken state! However I do feel that some still underestimate struggles of being gay in this age.

It's actually such a horrible thing to hear though.

people underestimate all sorts of things so you are not special

try being disabled or a child whose parents die


someone called you a name, get over it

:(

Unless the culprit was a witch you've got nothing to worry about

piss awff

That's disgusting. And these were just random people? :unsure:

Yes indeed sir

So uncalled for and horrible

yeah this instance aside I’m pretty sure the gay community never face any prejudice

can you tell me how you know the sexuality of the person who shouted and how you think its correct to call non gay people "straighties" or assume they dont understand "the gay struggle"

Damn that's horrible. :( Such a cringy thing to say / wish on someone. Some people are so cold-hearted.

:joker:

But yeah his words can't affect you physically so don't let it affect you mentally either. Probably a miserable asshole trying to bring you down too.

Karma will ge them. Vile *****.

I thought you just told him to “get over” being called a name?

sorry and you are?

It’s alarming that you see what he said as a massive issue but you’re willingly writing off homophobia

dONT YOU ****ING COME TO HER!

very mature as per

Not really, he's just pointing out that he wouldn't know his sexuality, plus he could have been gay himself :shrug:

People are very quick to bring up sexuality, race, colour, religion etc every time they get into an argument or anything of the like and sure sometimes it may be the reason but in many cases it's not

It just seems a tad curious that this group of lads were watching him for no reason (when he was with a load of his girlies too) and chose to single him out. Anyway, horrid to hear this!

Realistically they could just be jealous he was with a bunch of girls and they had a meat fest going on. :joker:

This is also plausible.

I've had some of my friend's boyfriends get jealous when I've been at a 'girls night' with them and they aren't there. It's kind of ridiculous but whatever. Up to them I guess.

Nobody has “gotten into an argument” though, the OP received random and unwarranted abuse and I think it’s pretty easy to see why he’d believe it to be homophobic? How do you know that “in many cases” sexuality/race/colour aren’t factors in abuse? Take the upsurge in abuse directed at women wearing headscarves after recent attacks, is that not directed at religion?

No, of course not every argument boils down to the above, but it’s pretty obvious when someone is being racist or xenophobic or homophobic and when someone like the OP feels attacked, “get over yourself” isn’t really the answer

:joker: Yeah that is ridiculous.

Also I think this is very likely to be homophobia in this case but at the same time you can't guarantee it as there are other possibilities as well.

Don't let some random pricks that you don't know and will probably never see again bring you down.

Like somebody else said, words mean nothing. Especially from pond life.

I've also had a friend's boyfriend defend himself keeping it a secret he was with two random girls days after cheating on my friend by saying my friend had the nerve to come to my party!