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Epic. 31-05-2018 06:06 PM

Is calling a female by 'woman' offensive?
 
As in saying 'woman' as alternative to calling the female by name. I don't think it is tbh, unless it's intentionally used to demean them. People get commonly called 'man' in conversation i.e. Hey man. So do you think it's bad to do that to females or is there no harm in saying it?

montblanc 31-05-2018 06:09 PM

i feel like when it has that tone like 'woman! :oh:' it sounds a bit much but other than that no

i HATE when people call woman/girls 'females' though :oh:

Vicky. 31-05-2018 06:09 PM

Its hardly the same way as 'hey man' though. I guess if someone used it as 'hey woman' it might be ok but its generally not in that way at all :laugh: Tone and intent matter tbh

I would honestly rather generally be called bitch than woman, love, hun and so on. And often am :D

Epic. 31-05-2018 06:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by montblanc (Post 10017906)
i feel like when it has that tone like 'woman! :oh:' it sounds a bit much but other than that no

i HATE when people call woman/girls 'females' though :oh:

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GiRTh 31-05-2018 06:17 PM

It depends on the context and tone
Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 10017908)
Its hardly the same way as 'hey man' though. I guess if someone used it as 'hey woman' it might be ok but its generally not in that way at all :laugh: Tone and intent matter tbh

I would honestly rather generally be called bitch than woman, love, hun and so on. And often am :D

Agree. I call everyone man. I say 'Yeah man' as often as I say 'Yeah' I even call my own daughter 'man' from time to time.:joker:

RileyH 31-05-2018 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 10017908)
I would honestly rather generally be called bitch than woman, love, hun and so on. And often am :D

Bitch

bots 31-05-2018 06:26 PM

i thought hey man, was more of a unisex term, hey woman just doesn't have the same contextual meaning.

arista 31-05-2018 06:51 PM

Its OK so long as its not said in a
aggressive fashion.....................

arista 31-05-2018 06:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 10017908)
Its hardly the same way as 'hey man' though. I guess if someone used it as 'hey woman' it might be ok but its generally not in that way at all :laugh: Tone and intent matter tbh

I would honestly rather generally be called bitch than woman, love, hun and so on. And often am :D


how nice

Redway 31-05-2018 07:02 PM

It’s funny how the most PC person on here when it comes to sexuality doesn’t see anything wrong with calling a female woman.

AnnieK 31-05-2018 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Epic. (Post 10017896)
As in saying 'woman' as alternative to calling the female by name. I don't think it is tbh, unless it's intentionally used to demean them. People get commonly called 'man' in conversation i.e. Hey man. So do you think it's bad to do that to females or is there no harm in saying it?

Do you mean when someone says "I was talking to that woman over there?" I wouldn't be offended by that.

Epic. 31-05-2018 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 10018069)
Do you mean when someone says "I was talking to that woman over there?" I wouldn't be offended by that.

No I mean being like 'Hey woman' or 'Listen woman'

Withano 31-05-2018 07:16 PM

I think anything could be offensive if you try hard enough really. But generally, no. Its rarely used with an intent to be offensive.

GiRTh 31-05-2018 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Epic. (Post 10018075)
No I mean being like 'Hey woman' or 'Listen woman'

:laugh:

AnnieK 31-05-2018 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Epic. (Post 10018075)
No I mean being like 'Hey woman' or 'Listen woman'

Ah right.....yeah, I wouldn't be impressed by that :laugh: if someone didnt know my name I would prefer them just to say "hey" and "listen".

Jason. 31-05-2018 07:17 PM

Don't GRIT your teeth at me like a dog, woman!

Amy Jade 31-05-2018 07:20 PM

I don't like it much personally although not enough to worry about it

In work irish men call the till ladies 'woman' and me and a few of the younger girls get called 'cutty' or 'dolly birds' :shrug:

GiRTh 31-05-2018 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 10018087)
Ah right.....yeah, I wouldn't be impressed by that :laugh: if someone didnt know my name I would prefer them just to say "hey" and "listen".

What if someone said 'Hey Lady'. :smug:

The Slim Reaper 31-05-2018 07:23 PM

They prefer wench.

user104658 31-05-2018 07:38 PM

Sometimes I'm like "WOMAN! MAN IS HOME! BRING FOOD!"

But I have to be honest and say that most of the customers don't like it.

Marsh. 31-05-2018 07:39 PM

I wouldn't say "offensive" but it's certainly rude if you're just shouting "Oi! Woman!"

Alf 31-05-2018 07:49 PM

"Hey woman, hey woman, why don't you come down here, and I'll show you a real man"


What film is that a quote from?

Epic. 31-05-2018 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alf (Post 10018221)
"Hey woman, hey woman, why don't you come down here, and I'll show you a real man"


What film is that a quote from?

Rocky 3

smudgie 31-05-2018 07:54 PM

Nah.
I am a woman, but strangers should call me lady:joker:

Alf 31-05-2018 07:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Epic. (Post 10018235)
Rocky 3

Correct, Clubber Lang in Rocky III

You googled it didn't you?

Alf 31-05-2018 08:12 PM

2 people have actually voted yes to this question, bizarre.

Women do not need special treatment. It's more insulting to think they do.

Matthew. 31-05-2018 08:15 PM

i guess if done in the John McCririck context but i don’t think so apart from that example

Kazanne 31-05-2018 08:20 PM

It depends how it is said,like a lot of things really, I am a woman so that doesn't offend me,but if someone said 'Come here woman' I might feel different,but then again that could be said in a sensual way :laugh:

Ashley. 31-05-2018 08:36 PM

Generally don't mind being called a woman (obviously) unless it's preceded by an order, because at that point I'm not being asked, but told to do something based solely on my gender, which is offensive.

user104658 31-05-2018 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ashley. (Post 10018327)
Generally don't mind being called a woman (obviously) unless it's preceded by an order, because at that point I'm not being asked, but told to do something based solely on my gender, which is offensive.

Get back to working on ML 2019 woman :fist:

Maru 01-06-2018 07:22 PM

Like with just about any word... it depends on the tone and context of how it is used...

There are a few words that are tainted with a negative vibe... and woman is not one of them in my book. I've had word used in a joking manner towards me, and I don't find that particularly offensive. I think if I it had had the opposite reaction for me and I had pushed... they would've felt really bad, as I think many of my male companions use it during banter as a term of acceptance... kind of like, glad to have a woman here that can take some hits as well as give it back.

Josy 01-06-2018 07:24 PM

Hmm it depends on the context really if someone referring to me said 'that woman' then that wouldn't bother me at all but for someone to address me as 'woman' then that's pretty insulting IMO

Alf 01-06-2018 07:38 PM

Silly Mooo - (Alf Garnett)
Err' (her) Indoors - (Arthur Daley)
The Enemy - (Del boy used that one a few times)

Now we're questioning whether just the word "woman" is offensive.

Is this what we believe progression to be?

Beso 01-06-2018 09:31 PM

Bint or badger is a more affectionate term..."woman" to me always sounds like the woman is being scorned.....
I would say "her over there" if i was talking to someone about the female in the vicinity.

GiRTh 01-06-2018 09:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alf (Post 10020445)
Silly Mooo - (Alf Garnett)
Err' (her) Indoors - (Arthur Daley)
The Enemy - (Del boy used that one a few times)

Now we're questioning whether just the word "woman" is offensive.

Is this what we believe progression to be?

She who must be obeyed (Rumpole Of the Bailey)

Beso 01-06-2018 09:41 PM

All these terms though is just blokes in the pub blethering with thier mates about thier wives...they all go home and tell the wife how relieved they are to be home.

Ashley. 01-06-2018 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 10018444)
Get back to working on ML 2019 woman :fist:

Ha... Thanks for providing an example though. My partner would never address me like that.

michael21 01-06-2018 09:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ashley. (Post 10020984)
Ha... Thanks for providing an example though. My partner would never address me like that.

What does he call the girl he seeing behind your back :shocked:

Ashley. 01-06-2018 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by michael21 (Post 10020990)
What does he call the girl he seeing behind your back :shocked:

Niamh.

Alf 01-06-2018 09:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ashley. (Post 10020992)
Niamh.

That's spooky, I was gonna reply with that.


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