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chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 08:24 AM

Double standards ?
 
Has anyone remembered Roxanne is engaged and wildly flirting with Ben ,more than Jermaine has ever done but seems to float under the radar on here ? Any views on this ?

Crimson Dynamo 30-08-2018 08:31 AM

Yes she seems to be getting away with this

GoldHeart 30-08-2018 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10183289)
Has anyone remembered Roxanne is engaged and wildly flirting with Ben ,more than Jermaine has ever done but seems to float under the radar on here ? Any views on this ?

Because people feel sorry for the silly bint ,as they feel both Ben & Roxanne are in love :laugh3: I couldn't keep a straight face .

I think It's dodgy their friendship and it's still wrong what they were doing , but notice Ben isn't as keen now and has moved onto Gabby, Roxanne is jealous a bit . And Ben even joked about taking Roxanne's dressing gown off :bored: .

Cal. 30-08-2018 08:33 AM

How has Roxanne done the same as Jermaine?

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Cal. (Post 10183301)
How has Roxanne done the same as Jermaine?

Shes not done the same .......Shes done a lot worse !!

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10183300)
Because people feel sorry for the silly bint ,as they feel both Ben & Roxanne are in love :laugh3: I couldn't keep a straight face .

I think It's dodgy their friendship and it's still wrong what they were doing , but notice Ben isn't as keen now and has moved onto Gabby, Roxanne is jealous a bit . And Ben even joked about taking Roxanne's dressing gown off :bored: .

Roxanne will turn into a bunny boiler over it ....but its ok she wont get judged :pat:

GoldHeart 30-08-2018 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10183311)
Roxanne will turn into a bunny boiler over it ....but its ok she wont get judged :pat:

And I think because Roxanne & Ben haven't been passing secret notes to each other, and because she keeps mentioning her partner . So people don't see it as bad as Jermaine .
I know it's not the same ,but it's still weird how flirty both Ben & Roxanne were . But they'll always see Roxanne as innocent as she mentioned her partner everyday to convince everyone she's honest :rolleyes: .

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10183315)
And I think because Roxanne & Ben haven't been passing secret notes to each other, and because she keeps mentioning her partner . So people don't see it as bad as Jermaine .
I know it's not the same ,but it's still weird how flirty both Ben & Roxanne were . But they'll always see Roxanne as innocent as she mentioned her partner everyday to convince everyone she's honest :rolleyes: .

A lot more real flirting going on ,the kissing of the finger tips ,her lecturing him about his new look ...oh yes shes playing a blinder and seen as the innocent little girl SHES 35 FFS !!

Crimson Dynamo 30-08-2018 08:58 AM

she is going to react badly to Ben now flirting with Gabby

Josy 30-08-2018 08:58 AM

I dont see her as innocent and the childish act, voice etc she puts on makes me uncomfortable.

She tbf never denied her fiance existed though

GoldHeart 30-08-2018 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10183318)
A lot more real flirting going on ,the kissing of the finger tips ,her lecturing him about his new look ...oh yes shes playing a blinder and seen as the innocent little girl SHES 35 FFS !!

Yeah she's annoying, the bratty reaction she made over Ben's look was pathetic she even ruffled his hair up :bored: :facepalm: .

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 10183322)
I dont see her as innocent and the childish act, voice etc she puts on makes me uncomfortable.

She tbf never denied her fiance existed though

But neither has Jermaine ,hes spoke often of his partner openly to everyone, Chloe must have been laid in the bathroom or putting her make up on at the time, but never did either of them fancy each other, he wanted the leg over and she wanted a storyline to make money on out of the house

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10183323)
Yeah she's annoying, the bratty reaction she made over Ben's look was pathetic she even ruffled his hair up :bored: :facepalm: .

As you would if he was you're everyday partner

Beso 30-08-2018 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10183300)
Because people feel sorry for the silly bint ,as they feel both Ben & Roxanne are in love :laugh3: I couldn't keep a straight face .

I think It's dodgy their friendship and it's still wrong what they were doing , but notice Ben isn't as keen now and has moved onto Gabby, Roxanne is jealous a bit . And Ben even joked about taking Roxanne's dressing gown off :bored: .

Funny how they have both cooled it down a bit after seeing chloe evicted.:joker:

Josy 30-08-2018 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10183325)
But neither has Jermaine ,hes spoke often of his partner openly to everyone, Chloe must have been laid in the bathroom or putting her make up on at the time, but never did either of them fancy each other, he wanted the leg over and she wanted a storyline to make money on out of the house

Jermaine never told anyone he was married especially not Chloe, he said his relationship with his gf was badically over, he took his wedding ring off, slept in the same bed as Chloe

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 10183335)
Jermaine never told anyone he was married especially not Chloe, he said his relationship with his gf was badically over, he took his wedding ring off, slept in the same bed as Chloe

SHE got in his bed uninvited and unwanted ,thats why he made her have her own duvet !!

GoldHeart 30-08-2018 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 10183335)
Jermaine never told anyone he was married especially not Chloe, he said his relationship with his gf was badically over, he took his wedding ring off, slept in the same bed as Chloe

Chloe arranged with Gabby to share a bed with Jermaine, why does that keep getting forgotten? .

Plus Chloe knew he had a girlfriend of some sort , even if she thinks his relationship is now over it wasn't when he entered the house .

But Jermaine is a sneaky rat . But I don't have sympathy for Chloe . Why is it ok to flirt share a bed who may or may not have a "girlfriend", it's still wrong and humiliating for the woman at home watching.

And if she was still unsure of his relationship status ,she should of confronted him earlier and then stayed away .

Josy 30-08-2018 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10183342)
SHE got in his bed uninvited and unwanted ,thats why he made her have her own duvet !!

It wasnt unwanted at all c'mon chuff, Jermaine was well up for it until Ryan told him it would look bad...

So basically you are saying Jermaine has done nothing wrong when he is married with kids yet Roxanne who is engaged has done something wrong.

That right there is the exact definition of double standards tbh

MTVN 30-08-2018 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 10183347)
It wasnt unwanted at all c'mon chuff, Jermaine was well up for it until Ryan told him it would look bad...

So basically you are saying Jermaine has done nothing wrong when he is married with kids yet Roxanne who is engaged has done something wrong.

That right there is the exact definition of double standards tbh

Lol exactly, this thread is trying to get people to hate on Roxanne for her behaviour but it's also trying to absolve Jermaine for his

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 10183347)
It wasnt unwanted at all c'mon chuff, Jermaine was well up for it until Ryan told him it would look bad...

So basically you are saying Jermaine has done nothing wrong when he is married with kids yet Roxanne who is engaged has done something wrong.

That right there is the exact definition of double standards tbh

What Im saying is its 50-50 ..... IF he had got in her bed i wouldn't have the same opinion, but he didnt ... and in the bathroom last nights hls, she called his couple of words note to her their"storyline" now that speaks volumes

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 10183345)
Chloe arranged with Gabby to share a bed with Jermaine, why does that keep getting forgotten? .

Plus Chloe knew he had a girlfriend of some sort , even if she thinks his relationship is now over it wasn't when he entered the house .

But Jermaine is a sneaky rat . But I don't have sympathy for Chloe . Why is it ok to flirt share a bed who may or may not have a "girlfriend", it's still wrong and humiliating for the woman at home watching.

And if she was still unsure of his relationship status ,she should of confronted him earlier and then stayed away .

You make crystal clear what someones relationship status is BEFORE getting in his bed ,if he's being cagey you don't go there simple as that but she wanted a storyline and she got one so job done for Chloe !! **** what hurt its brought on his family

MTVN 30-08-2018 09:37 AM

He was still trying to get back into her bed 2 nights ago even after the fallout, once he'd had a drink he said to her 'I might have to get into your bed in a bit' or something like that until she refused to talk to him

In hindsight I'm sure Chloe will have regretted a couple of things she did but to make out that the blame is equal is clearly nonsense

MTVN 30-08-2018 09:38 AM

Hell Chloe even apologised in her interview which is more than he will ever do

Niamh. 30-08-2018 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10183342)
SHE got in his bed uninvited and unwanted ,thats why he made her have her own duvet !!

Why not tell her to get out though? That's what I'd expect my husband to do in that situation :shrug:

AnnieK 30-08-2018 09:52 AM

Also, Ben is well aware of her relationship status so if Chloe is to be derided for the flirting with Jermaine and everything that went on, Ben surely should face the same criticism for this situation with Roxanne. Seems the women are getting all the negative threads and posts this series when the men are equally, if not more in Jermaine's case, to blame.

Elliot 30-08-2018 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 10183376)
Also, Ben is well aware of her relationship status so if Chloe is to be derided for the flirting with Jermaine and everything that went on, Ben surely should face the same criticism for this situation with Roxanne. Seems the women are getting all the negative threads and posts this series when the men are equally, if not more in Jermaine's case, to blame.

80% of the last two days worth of threads have been on Jermaine, most of them calling him an awful person/one of the worst to appear on big brother.
50%+ of the people who use this website voted Jermaine as the worst housemate of the series.
I did a poll asking whether Jermaine was one of the worst housemates of all time and it was smth like 28-1 yes to no

AnnieK 30-08-2018 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Elliot (Post 10183381)
80% of the last two days worth of threads have been on Jermaine, most of them calling him an awful person/one of the worst to appear on big brother.

I was talking specifically about the thread yesterday placing the blame on Chloe and this one.....

The Jermaine threads only really started later.

Amy Jade 30-08-2018 09:56 AM

More excusing the married men and throwing any woman possible under the bus I see.

Sad.

jaxie 30-08-2018 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 10183322)
I dont see her as innocent and the childish act, voice etc she puts on makes me uncomfortable.

She tbf never denied her fiance existed though

Or took off her engagement ring. :shrug: And pretended it was 'banter'.

Still I don't like her or Ben and I hope her fiance puts her straight when she gets out.

Niamh. 30-08-2018 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 10183376)
Also, Ben is well aware of her relationship status so if Chloe is to be derided for the flirting with Jermaine and everything that went on, Ben surely should face the same criticism for this situation with Roxanne. Seems the women are getting all the negative threads and posts this series when the men are equally, if not more in Jermaine's case, to blame.

Excellent point Annie

Crimson Dynamo 30-08-2018 10:15 AM

What you see is what you get with the lads but the women ie Chloe and Roxy seem far more devious in this set up

Beso 30-08-2018 10:29 AM

tonnes of blokes dont wear their wedding rings...i didnt

Crimson Dynamo 30-08-2018 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 10183425)
tonnes of blokes dont wear their wedding rings...i didnt

I threw mine into a field, its still there now

Cherie 30-08-2018 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 10183322)
I dont see her as innocent and the childish act, voice etc she puts on makes me uncomfortable.

She tbf never denied her fiance existed though

makes it even worse in some way the ways she let him constantly kiss and touch her, while waving her engagement ring at him :laugh:

Cherie 30-08-2018 10:41 AM

Don't get me wrong Jerome is a first class **** who has got himself in all kind of bother but Ben and Roxanne haven't been much better

poppsywoppsy 30-08-2018 10:41 AM

What Jermaine didn't do was kiss or hug Chloe at every opportunity.

This is not to negate his behaviour but to point out Bens. He didn't mention his "friend" was pregnant with his child whilst speaking of his newly formed feelings for Roxanne or when he was being touchy feely with her.

Yes, I think these two have behaved inappropriately but Roxanne was not actually married like Jermaine so has not been as culpable as him.

Elliot 30-08-2018 10:43 AM

So much scum this series lmfaoo and y’all thought Natalie was bad

MTVN 30-08-2018 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Elliot (Post 10183442)
So much scum this series lmfaoo and y’all thought Natalie was bad

Natalies version of events is that Chloe was just being a 'slut' so she's pretty scummy herself

Jordan. 30-08-2018 11:27 AM

It's the false pretence that annoys me about Roxanne, like don't allow Ben to flirt with you then go kiss your engagement ring infront of the cameras like it's all innocent :skull:

chuff me dizzy 30-08-2018 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 10183403)
What you see is what you get with the lads but the women ie Chloe and Roxy seem far more devious in this set up

Totally agree


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