Noky and her selfish imaginary wedding
 

1. I want my wedding to be abroad - so her family and friends are out of pocket to the tune of thousands

2. I want my wedding to be during the week - so you have to eat up your own personal holiday days to attend


what a selfish entitled person

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LT are you feeling ok ? , it's not that serious.

However if someone I knew got married thousands of miles away, it's unlikely I'd travel all that way. I'd just wish them all the best .

Yes I have gone right off her the last couple of days.

I was watching with my daughter last night and I said the exact same thing to her. She basically said I want to inconvenience my guests as much as possible as a test to see who loves me most. So selfish and entitled

I guess Noky is getting evicted next now just because of a flippant comment about her hypothetical wedding plans .

Bloody hell Goldheart we're just commenting on stuff that happened in the program :laugh: We've only got an hours worth

Missed that, when did she say it?

In the highlights show last night (or maybe it was a clip shown on Late & Live?)

Last nights highlights. During the noms.

Thanks I'll go back and watch it

I know but it went over my head ,was she even being serious :joker: :shrug: ? .....they were all bored sat taking turns nominating. It's literally a hypothetical situation, but like I said I'm not being out of pocket for a friend who goes to ...I don't know,the Bahamas to get married . I'd congratulate them from my home in the UK lol.

It's interesting about wedding talk ,as Yinrun was discussing that with Dylan aswell.

What she said...said a lot about her.

tells you all you need know

She sounded like she meant it and the people reacting thought she'd said something revolutionary :laugh: Imagine being a close friend of hers that just couldn't afford it or to take time off work, would they fail her test then for not getting themselves in debt to go to her wedding? :think:

…maybe she’s looking for the prize money to pay for all of her guests to go to a lovely far off place and have a lifetime holiday…so they’ll be happy to take some of their annual leave for such a dream time…


…actually, I haven’t been to a weekend wedding for a while, weekday weddings are very popular and many employers allow some paid time off for them/…with discretion…

Really? ,I don't think I've ever been to a weekday wedding...not to sound morbid,but usually I associate funerals with weekdays.

I guess it depends like you say on if they get time off work,and maybe she'll pay for them .

:joker:

no

….hmmmmm, I possibly just have very selfish/entitled friends and relatives..:laugh:…but yeah, most of the weddings I’ve been to over the last few years have been weekday ones…actually, I haven’t asked about cost etc but maybe a weekday is cheaper than a weekend in terms of venues and ceremony/service costs etc…so that’s a thing as well, I guess…

Ammi your friends are cheapskates :joker:... just joking:love: .

She might if she has a big win fall .

…:laugh:…we’ll that might have been a joke but….I’m going to keep an eye on them from now on, GH….

It's interesting though , I'm now wondering what a weekday wedding is like...I kind of want to experience it :laugh:, if my schedule was clear and if it was still in the UK . As I'm not catching a plane ... just for a wedding :joker: .

Unless its a reg office dop no bride would want a weekday wedding

its meant to be special

…actually I just googled if it was cheaper because it sparked my interest, it’s something I hadn’t thought of and would never ask…this site came up first…

https://www.hitched.co.uk/wedding-pl...0a%20Wednesday.

‘Opting for a weekday is one of the best ways to save money on your wedding venue. There is almost always a separate rate for weekend and weekday venue hire – in fact, sometimes the price difference is great enough to convince couples to wed on a Wednesday. Many wedding venues offer special weekday deals, allowing you to splurge what you’ve saved on something else to make your wedding (or honeymoon) even more amazing.

Some suppliers also offer discounted rates for weekday weddings so it’s always worth checking when you enquire.’


…it’s so expensive for couples these days so looking at their options and what’s affordable is the only way…

It's understandable when you think how ridiculously expensive the average wedding is . Sky is the limit from anywhere from 10k -upwards . So I don't blame couples looking for cheaper options & bargains.

I also can see their point of view,when some of them just opt for a quiet get together, rather than a big stressful event.

Weddings aren't like Christmas, Easter etc. Weddings are usually family events, but what a wedding is really about is 2 people in love, committing to spending the rest of their lives together. It's their business where they get married. Can't afford it, cba to go abroad for it, think it's a load of rubbish, that's fine, don't go. It's the bride and grooms day, not the families.

Absolutely but that's not what she said. The way she phrased it was she was going to have it abroad on a Wednesday as a test to see who loved her enough to go

True

I use to get annoyed with the TV show Don't Tell The Bride ,the groom's seemed to always upset their brides to be :rolleyes:.

….so really GH…what we’re saying in conclusion, then…?…is that my friends are sadly struggling so much with their wedding finances…that I need to start a go fund them page to give them the weekend wedding of their dreams…?…

…yeah, weddings overseas might help in keeping the guest list smaller and erase some stress and anxieties attached to affordable guest lists…

Yes well me and Noky do get married, probably The Maldives or something, on Christmas day, and none of my TIBB's family attend, i'll know that none of you care:idc::hmph:

Maybe they just prefer the weekday option lol .

Financial aside ,some people even prefer to elope and they only have like 4 guests/ witnesses ...as they can't be bothered with sending out invites etc.

it showed her up for the selfish shallow person she is

As Yinrun says "i dont want to hear about you winning some minor beauty pagent i want to know about you"

Sadly Noky does not understand

You can send us a video link on zoom or Skype or something :laugh:.

The girl knows her value.

She just doesn't want casual hangers on there.

Maybe if people told Noky ...then she'd open up more ,I think she's a bit guarded.

On the first live feed she was talking for ages about life & relationships.

…you didn’t realise that Noky had invited us, then…(…all expenses paid …)…y’all really need to get some wedding communication going…

:fist:

…absolutely, we love a gal who aims for her all deserving dreams…:flutter:…

Some girls dream of the big wedding, Prince Charming and all that.
Others couldn’t give a fig. Each to their own.
I was married on a Monday, register office, just to make our living together legal for the kids.
We were just going to grab a couple of witnesses but family had other ideas, we kept it as low key as we could though.
But I fully understand the need for the big white wedding for some girls.

…when two become one at their Swanki wedding…:love:…