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Benjamin 10-11-2024 08:59 PM

Was Marcello being aggressive with Sarah?
 
Thoughts?

Jordan. 10-11-2024 09:01 PM

No, such an overused word.

bots 10-11-2024 09:02 PM

It was forceful rather than aggressive to me, there is a difference

Kazanne 10-11-2024 09:03 PM

Yes he is aggressive

Adamw92 10-11-2024 09:04 PM

Just another example of the pattern of behaviour he’s displayed throughout the series…

Crimson Dynamo 10-11-2024 09:04 PM

Lol no

He schooled her and her " but I heard that on da BBC" ways

Boom

Kate! 10-11-2024 09:05 PM

Not at all. He said his piece, then gave her a massive hug.

Ammi 10-11-2024 09:05 PM

…not aggressive but just a huge overreaction …he was giving, not liking being disagreed with and not having it…

joeysteele 10-11-2024 09:05 PM

Yes
If it's not how he wanted to come across, he failed miserably.

Black Dagger 10-11-2024 09:05 PM

Yes. He had me fearing for Sarah’s life. I was shaking for her.

Saph 10-11-2024 09:06 PM

Idk if aggressive is the right word but he was definitely coming on a bit too strong considering what they were talking about

Maru 10-11-2024 09:06 PM

He was being oversensitive and super melty but I would be kinda irritated to have to deal with that just trying to have a conversation. Both him and Sarah are hotheaded and oversensitive at times, so it may just be that they are too similar.

Ammi 10-11-2024 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Black Dagger (Post 11566954)
Yes. He had me fearing for Sarah’s life. I was shaking for her.

…will you be ok…?…:hug:…I'm feeling your trauma…

Black Dagger 10-11-2024 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 11566959)
…will you be ok…?…:hug:…I'm feeling your trauma…

I think I’ll just about live if they eject him for his horrible behaviour!!

rusticgal 10-11-2024 09:08 PM

I think he came across as a confrontational twat…he wouldn’t let Sarah speak until he subdued her into silence….then made a joke out of it when she decided to drop it.

It wasn’t nice to watch Tbf.

Maru 10-11-2024 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11566966)
I think he came across as a confrontational twat…he wouldn’t let Sarah speak until he subdued her into silence….then made a joke out of it when she decided to drop it.

It wasn’t nice to watch Tbf.

Yeah, that had to feel very dismissive.

smudgie 10-11-2024 09:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 11566966)
I think he came across as a confrontational twat…he wouldn’t let Sarah speak until he subdued her into silence….then made a joke out of it when she decided to drop it.

It wasn’t nice to watch Tbf.

Exactly the way I see it.
I do wonder if he heard all the Get Sarah out chants last night and he is playing to the crowd.

Niamh. 10-11-2024 09:16 PM

Yes, really weird controlling behaviour.

GlitterUK 10-11-2024 10:40 PM

I watched this showdown on the life feed and both were extremely animated and came very close to one another shouting at one point. Both had raised voices and were very passionate. However it soon died down and they were hugging again and back to their normal.

Mystic Mock 10-11-2024 10:48 PM

I felt a bit uncomfortable with him in that argument tbh.

I honestly don't believe that he is malicious, but he does make himself come across worse than I think he is sometimes.

arista 10-11-2024 10:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bots (Post 11566935)
It was forceful rather than aggressive to me, there is a difference


Yes like a Boss

Mystic Mock 10-11-2024 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Black Dagger (Post 11566954)
Yes. He had me fearing for Sarah’s life. I was shaking for her.

:laugh:

thesheriff443 10-11-2024 11:00 PM

I think marcello is finding it hard in the house and is bottling up a lot of emotions
He struggles to find the right words to express himself
He was hurt by Sarah but in turn hurt Sarah

The hug is him regretting what he said and how he reacted

GlitterUK 10-11-2024 11:01 PM

Sarah was laughing in his face pushing him away. If Lily can scream in close proximity then it must be fine.

I think Marcello is just stepping things up a notch.

Redway 10-11-2024 11:02 PM

There’s still a part of me that loves Marcello (as much as the other 70% of me loves to hate him anyway) but yes. He was.

GoldHeart 11-11-2024 07:12 AM

He was being giddy and argumentative,but not aggressive. I found their martha argument silly and pointless.

No idea why Martha is even topic of conversation,shows how bored they must have been lol :sleep: . I really don't care about her tiktok followers .

Locke. 11-11-2024 11:07 AM

Not seen it yet but no

Niamh. 11-11-2024 11:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Locke. (Post 11567571)
Not seen it yet but no

:laugh2:

arista 11-11-2024 11:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Locke. (Post 11567571)
Not seen it yet but no


Ammi
posted the You Tube Video


https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/for...d.php?t=394307

Niamh. 11-11-2024 11:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 11567391)
He was being giddy and argumentative,but not aggressive. I found their martha argument silly and pointless.



No idea why Martha is even topic of conversation,shows how bored they must have been lol [emoji99] . I really don't care about her tiktok followers .

It sounded like Nathan was saying that he thought she was in there to promote herself and wasn't being genuine and Sarah and Ali were sticking up for, Marcello then jumped in clearly not knowing what the conversation was about, picked at the word influencer and tried to make out Sarah and Ali were bad mouthing Martha when infact it was Nathan bad mouthing her and those 2 defending her. That would be really annoying in their shoes imo

Ammi 11-11-2024 11:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11567579)
It sounded like Nathan was saying that he thought she was in there to promote herself and wasn't being genuine and Sarah and Ali were sticking up for, Marcello then jumped in clearly not knowing what the conversation was about, picked at the word influencer and tried to make out Sarah and Ali were bad mouthing Martha when infact it was Nathan bad mouthing her and those 2 defending her. That would be really annoying in their shoes imo

…and the thing is also, one of the things that Marcello was laying at Sarah was that she doesn’t listen, that’s apparently her issue/one of them…that she gives out but doesn’t receive…yet before it all escalated into something, Ali said calmly and clearly and directly to Marcello that she and Sarah weren’t in any way being critical to Martha/that was Nathan, who admitted it…but Marcello cut Ali off and continued with what he had to say, regardless of anyone else…

Ammi 11-11-2024 11:19 AM

…he said that he wasn’t arguing and then he referred to it as arguing because he had the time…the BB house gave all the time in the world to argue/type thing …but I’m not arguing…I’m debating but I’m arguing for the holy heck of it…:laugh:…there was just no receiving any information, he was off and running and not stopping…

bots 11-11-2024 11:27 AM

Both of them were obviously bored silly with the days events. Both of them wanted some air time and they got it. I don't like Marcello's character, i don't like Sarah's character.

Further to that, i don't like Nathan's character, i don't like Seguns character, I don't like Hanahs character, i don't like Tom's character, i don't like Emma's character and I don't like Ali's character. Spud is the least offensive but she is fake


That's my brief summary :laugh:

I don't really like any of them, but it has been an entertaining season

Niamh. 11-11-2024 11:32 AM

I still love Emma [emoji3590] gone off Sarah, like Hanah. Feel kind if bad for baked Potato but she's not given away anything about herself

GoldHeart 11-11-2024 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 11567579)
It sounded like Nathan was saying that he thought she was in there to promote herself and wasn't being genuine and Sarah and Ali were sticking up for, Marcello then jumped in clearly not knowing what the conversation was about, picked at the word influencer and tried to make out Sarah and Ali were bad mouthing Martha when infact it was Nathan bad mouthing her and those 2 defending her. That would be really annoying in their shoes imo

Yeah Marcello goes off on a tangent for no reason and he wasn't even listening ,and Sarah kept feeling like she needed to defend the point.

Garfie 11-11-2024 03:41 PM

As Ammi indicated, Marcello basically admitted he was creating an argument out of boredom, and I think maybe to release some stress in the final week. He was argumentative and confrontational, but not what I’d call aggressive - and I can understand why he wouldn’t want to be presented in that way.

He seems to target Sarah in these situations, which seems strange when he has a close friendship with her, but I believe this is because he sees it as amusing banter, and thinks Sarah will understand it that way. The problem is that, when he does this, it is not easily identifiable as banter, so it doesn’t always hit right. His delivery just isn’t good.

He was probably right about the influencer comment, and about the fact that he wasn’t being aggressive, but he can’t see how his delivery appears from an outside point of view. He might think differently when he watches it back.

Basically, I think both Sarah and Marcello enjoy a good debate that they can get their teeth into, but this topic was not worthy of that. It was generated by a bored housemate trying to entertain himself.

Adamw92 11-11-2024 04:10 PM

Interesting that they didn’t show the full thing though like how he got up in her face

bots 11-11-2024 04:15 PM

i dont believe they showed Sarah with her aggressive arm pointing either

Ammi 11-11-2024 07:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Garfie (Post 11567874)
As Ammi indicated, Marcello basically admitted he was creating an argument out of boredom, and I think maybe to release some stress in the final week. He was argumentative and confrontational, but not what I’d call aggressive - and I can understand why he wouldn’t want to be presented in that way.

He seems to target Sarah in these situations, which seems strange when he has a close friendship with her, but I believe this is because he sees it as amusing banter, and thinks Sarah will understand it that way. The problem is that, when he does this, it is not easily identifiable as banter, so it doesn’t always hit right. His delivery just isn’t good.

He was probably right about the influencer comment, and about the fact that he wasn’t being aggressive, but he can’t see how his delivery appears from an outside point of view. He might think differently when he watches it back.

Basically, I think both Sarah and Marcello enjoy a good debate that they can get their teeth into, but this topic was not worthy of that. It was generated by a bored housemate trying to entertain himself.


…he has focused on Sarah a few times, Garfie…and as you say, theirs is one of the closer friendships…?…but there was also the thing with Khaled just a few days or so ago…and again, they’re two people who are closer in the house…I don’t sense though, that it’s any type of banter…maybe if a closer friend disagrees with or questions him or says something to counter what he believes…he might receive that as a criticism from them in some way…and hence, emotions can be enhanced into more annoyed ones…


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