What\'s your relationship status?
 

Title explains it all.

Very, very, very single :bored:

Happy and single? or Sad and single?
I used to love being single, now it's just boring and lonely :bawling:

I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Single, and i couldn't care less, i've had 2 BF, one online and one from school and they both didn't work so i'll wait till i leave school untill i think about getting another bf.

Single at the moment. My last proper relationship was ages ago, and since then I've had nothing serious. I think it's mainly because I'm really picky to be honest. But at the moment I'm quite happy being single and I did always want to remain so for uni etc. And now especially for next summer, when I'm going on holiday with friends! I can't see me entering a long-term relationship anytime soon, but then you never know I guess.

im single

im in a relationship thank you:xyxwave:

Wow, that must be tough.

theres loads of people my age i know that are "going " with somone but i think 14 is wayyy to young to get in to anything like that!

I had a girlfriend last year, it was a massive mistake and it never turned out very well.

It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

Single and looking...
I wouldn't say im unhappy, but I do think id be much happier with a girlfriend.
Then again, most people would be happier with a partner.

My last serious relationship was three years, from when I was 15-18 years old, we lived together etc. Since then ive had seven casual relationships? I think.

By casual, I mean they didn't last very long lol. As one did claim to love me =/

Do your friends know that your gay?

taken:rolleyes:
and its a roll eyes smilie coz im not in a good place atm relationship wise

That's a shame supernoodles. It's probably just a phase though! I hope everything works out well.

I imagine it's a problem finding people because you don't know if they're gay or not too? Unless you venture into a gay club.

I assume it's hard walking upto someone you find attractive and needing to find out/ask if they're gay or not.

7 in 2 years is pretty good going!
Not too casual, but more like proper relationships that happened to be short.

I suppose if you look at it like that...
It's not so bad.

But unfortunately it was more like 1 and 1/2 years, as I haven't been out with anyone in the past six months. So you can imagine how short some of the relationships were lol. Which means there wasn't much chance to feel good about the relationship, because it didn't last long enough to mean something.

Relationships are tricky, the closer you are to a person the more you don't want to lose them, and the more it'll hurt if you do. When someone means a lot to you, it can often result in paranoia and jealousy because you really can't bare the thought of them running off with someone.

Trust is a hard thing to find I suppose, but I guess it's something most of us keep looking for. Problem is, you'll never know if you truly found it until you and your partner die together or something...until then, there's always the potential chance the trust could be broken.

It depends really. Some people do need to be in a relationship to be happy. I’m not one of those people at all, I don’t think... as I explained earlier. It’s probably because to an extent I agree that trust is hard to find and until I’m 100% confident that the guy’s as reliable as possible in the circumstances, I’ll still be sceptical. I always hope that the wait is worth it though. So far I’ve been doing OK.

Nope. And they are all straight and like they would be out go "Oh look at that bird over there" and I'm just "yeah, she's nice" while I'm secretly checking out some guy :laugh:

Do you not think they already kind of know?

Its like my friend. He doesn't say hes gay, but I'm like 99.9% sure he is.

I've never been to a gay club, mainly because I'm 16. That's another reason why I haven't meet any guys. I have seen guys who are gay and they were the same age as me and they were just getting on with there lives and enjoying it and that's what makes me so angry. I'm 16 and I feel like I'm wasting my teenagers year by hiding this secret and I feel it puts a huge weight on my shoulders. I'm scared to go out and pissed with my mates in case a accidentally say something I'll regret.

I don't know, and I dont plan on asking them lol. You shouldn't assume somebody is gay or not gay. Well, I don't think you should anyway.

I haven't told any of my friends or family that i'm bi. It's alot more hassle than it's worth.

i know you shouldnt assume but normally im right,i have a good 'gaydar' lol.I love james sutton btw-hes hot:lovedup:

I kinda think the same. I always say "I'll tell them tomorrow" but it never happends. I would never have the guts to just say it face-to-face. I just think to myself, I'll wait till after school and I'll go live my life and they will never have to know, but I guess I'm just kidding myself.

Alot of people probably don't tell their friends and family after they've left school. They move away from the area and tell their friends and family that they're still single.

It should just be like how it is for straight people,you just walk in tht room and say mam/dad can my bf/gf come round.Or come home from work/school or wherever and say oh mam/dad im going out with so and so from class.Unfortunatly it will never be that way i dont think

Single and rather happy at the minute.

I had a three year relationship with a girl called Emily which didnt work out, then I had a four month relationship with a guy called Jake which didnt work out either- so I'm taking it easy and just having a laugh with my friends.

TBH, I much prefer being single and having a laugh. If the right person come's along for me.. Then that's a bonus.

Single and looking/getting to know someone better.

I've never been in a proper relationship, I've had a 6 month on/off but that REALLY was on/off ... I actually regret how it worked out as it was only untill it was finally off that I realised I wanted it back on, haha ... I was too late. :tongue:

However, I'd hate to ''fall in love'' so young, I'm happy enough with casual fun rather than love/moving in together/kids etc as I know some people my age who have been in 2 year relationships and I'm not interested in that right now ... loves too much of a commitment haha.

Aaron ... why don't you test your mates/family? LOL. ''Come out'' and see how they react ... then pretend it was all a joke. :laugh:

I 'fell in love when I was 14',I was actually 13 when I started going out witht he person In question and Im 17 now and still with them.We`ve been very on off,but were still going lol.Its a really difficult thing to go through though being in love at such a young age.Its hard to cope with.

I know how you feel...
Apparently the largest percentage of relationships that last forever, are those that started at secondary school.

But you also end up latching onto them because you've never had to go out there and look for a partner during your teenage years, and it seems pretty scary so you base your whole life on the one person.

Not that im saying you're just with your partner for conveniance, just that many people who get into relationships so young and stay in them...might be happier with someone else. They just daren't do it and stick to what they're used to instead.

In short, my only advice for people is to ask themselves if they're truly happy in their relationship. Or could things be much better? You only live once, and wasting years with people just because you don't want to be alone, will narrow your chances of finding someone who's better for you.

To those who are as happy as they could be, then you're lucky!

Single :)

I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend, and in november, we will celebrate our 1st year together. :love::lovedup:

quite single and happy havin fun:hello: i have some good mates who i love so much:kiss: all girls but im happy with female company anyroads, i do get on with boys and if one came along and it was right id might take the plunge but mates come first with me so theyd have to accept that and i dont know whether they could:puzzled: but not botherd anyhow. i know one of my mates had loads of trouble with her boyfriend and ive seen other girls go through hell to so im cautious but im bi anyroads so perhaps it would be a girl. id never meet anyone on a chatroom or forum anyroads no way man too risky. my mates i know so well and i have a great life but bein not workin it does get boring sometimes but i always find stuff to do:thumbs:

In a relationship with Red Moon :love:

I'm Single :bigsmile:

The last person I went out with was a guy, I have had so many relationships to last me a life time lol.

In some ways I am happy being single, but in other ways I ent lol. My brother and his gf are all lovedup, and I ent lol it's like, I dunno lol I do hate being single, but I'm only 20, so all my life ahead of me, unless I get hit by a bus and die or something lol

I have to admit I am looking for a gf, guys ust don't do it for me.

just*

married for nearly 16 years and still sticking with it!