are you happy with what youve got in your life right now
 

I am happy to have a wife and a house, a bit of cash saved up and some good friends. (touch-wood) Im healthy and all is pretty good right now. I noticed a couple of 'im bored' threads, are you just a bit bored right now or are you just unhappy with your life in general.

They do say that health and happiness is what really matters, love too if your lucky enough to have a girl or boy who wants you :kiss: Just thought Id ask thats all.

I touch wood too because I'm really happy. I had so many troubles in the past but now I have everything I wanted. My girlfriend makes my happier every day, I just don't want to loose that. I wish many people could be as happy as I am.

Tbh no lol

Lot of family probs at mo, but im proudly single !

Wish the clock could be twizzled bk a year so everything wz bk 2 normal! x

Im just tired (didnt sleep last night so that I'd be able to re-jig my body clock to a better time)
And its Febuary and its cold and misrable.

But on the brightside, Winter is nearly over and only 2 months to my holiday and until GTA IV

I have my family.
Decent education, even if the school ain't great.
I have my talents, which I probably would struggle with.
+I have my mates.

Could do with a bit more money +a relationship, though that won't happen any time soon.

I'm not happy with my life at all right now.
I'm glad this thread was made, so that I can express my feelings.
1. I'm getting bullied at school.
2. I've recently broken friends with a very close friend.
3. My strong relationship which I was in..... is over. (YESTERDAY)
4. I get really bored at home. I can hardly find anything exciting to do.

I'm really struggling in life at the moment.
The amount of times i've wanted to go to sleep and never wake up is unbeleiveable. I'm so depressed lately to be honest.

Not really. I have GCSE's in a few months and I'm so scared they'll all go wrong. I've also got to make huge decisions on my future and it's really stressful. On top of this I'm not sleeping right and it's really affecting my behaviour (mood swings and depression).

Yeah, I am.
Apart from all the school work I have, but I think that a minor issue compared to some people.

I ADORE that banner by the way Darenn.

Thats lovely to hear. I am glad that my wife is sat here beside me, well on a couch facing the box while Im typing on my computer which amuses me better than watching a poxy movie on 2 which is not my scene :bored: I wouldnt like to imagine what life would be like to be totally alone. Not even family or friends like many very old folk or even kids in orphanages

If I'm being honest with myself, no.

I'm not happy with school, and I'm not happy with who I am. I know who I am but for some reason I'm finding it hard to be that person - or maybe I don't know who I am, and just who I want to be. I'm ashamed of myself, and I'm not proud of who I am.

But, I usually go through these phases. I'll probably be okay in an hour LOL

At this moment in time yes i have finally managed to get reagular hours at work my family are all ok for the moment and ive got a lot of good things lined up in the future

Its awful to be bullied at school. I had to witness bullying on a kid at my school once and his parents had to take him out of one school and place him in another as the teachers didnt deal with it properly. The best thing for you to do is to speak to your deputy headmaster/mistress and explain to them exactly what is going on and if he dont deal with it then your parents can contact the school by letter. I know it sounds easy the way I explain it, but it is surely worth a try. Bullies at school never stop until they grow out of it or have a threat from the deputy head to think about.

Friendships can certainly mend after a while. Most people can get angry in the heat of the moment, usually over something pretty trivial at the time but time is a great healer, so let them be angry but it should wear off, well hopefully in your case.

Losing a girlfriend can be very traumatic and there is no denying that. Before I met my wife I was in a relationship which I thought would last forever but she liked to sleep around and I found out. That led to massive arguments and suddenly it was over. I was devastated but life moves on and the best cure for it is to find someone else as fast as you can. Believe you me I know from experience mate:thumbs:

Being bored at home is easy to happen but a forum is a great place to escape. Right now Im escaping from the box and a silly film which my wife wants to watch so here I am and so are you. Keep smiling btw. There is always something exciting just round the corner.

Lol I am happy all the time, but strangely at the moment, im pretty down lmao. I think its my medication..

Aww, Thank you!<3 :D

Not right now, no... but there is a light on the horizon, hehe. I may not be happy atm, but there are things I have to look forward to.

The reasons I'm not happy are mainly because I just came out of hospital on Wednesday... currently getting over an operation, so obviously the past few days haven't been the best, and I've still got two weeks of recovery left.

I've also got other things bothering me... there's things happening in my family, things between my friends and I, and personal things. That and the fact that I've got GCSE's coming up, too. :tongue:

Buuuuuut... I've got loads of other little things to look forward to, so it's not too bad. :) I just try and stay positive.

You get bullied?

Omg..

How mean...

I used to get bullied in yr 7+8+9, now im in year 10, ive got good friends, and everyone really accepts me, and says hello and everything..

i cant belive you get bullied..

i alsways told myself youll get through this..

and i did.

So i hope you to doo..

Conz xx

I'm quite happy. Besides my Leaving Cert which is beyond exhausting(I did 9 hours study today-FUN!). But I have really good friends,my family,I'm pretty skint but I can fix that....

Bullies are just people that are weak, they cant communicate with others properly and are immature and mean.

Bring an end to bullying!!! Ive never got bullied but one of my best mates has, its awful.

Hope you make it through this and you can beat the bullies.

We all get down some times but usually something perks us up and we get back on top again.

Love your banner btw. Who is she?

How do you fix being skint Princess! Its incurable usually :tongue:

Tbh this has to be the worst year of my life already, and it's only February. I've got alot of family problems at the moment, school is goin pathetic, fell out with most of myy mates, only got one right close one. But yeah, spose gotta deal really

Well do more babysitting and stop spending money! I need to save for the next TT tour. I had a grand(euro) for the last one and its nearly all gone now :sad:

I am mostly always happy.I see the good side of things.Everything going fine at school so far.Next Friday Im going to go on a Away weekend for my confirmation thing and we are picking the dorms and who we want in them.Should be quite fun.

Is that how much TT tickets cost, bleedin'hell :conf: Is Robbie teaming up with them I think I heard something on the news. Babysitting is something I am not too good at, but the subject of babies has cropped up three or four times from my wifes end :wink:

I wouldn't say "happy" but I'm not hating it or anything, it's pretty much just little, trivial things.

I hate 6th form because it just bores me, just going is an effort but I don't want to waste all the work I've done so far.

Family on my case constantly because they think that getting a degree is the be all and end all. Because I'm not going to Uni, it's constant "you should go", "you'll regret it" and they keep trying to force me into going. The annoying this is, they know I've got a mind of my own and they'd never be able to persuade me so it's irritating that they keep doing it. Plus, for all they know, this time next year I might decide I want to go to Uni (VERY doubtful).

The one thing that would make me "happy" with my life right now would be everybody getting off my case and letting me do things my way. If it's not Uni then I'm being moaned at for drinking too much on a night out and the latest one is getting to school 5 minutes late or going to bed too late. :tongue: ALL trivial crap but it's exactly that, CRAP!!

Overall it's not too bad though but nothing to scream about.

I wanna move to Australia or somewhere by the beach, city gets boring :dog:

Go there on holiday. Then when you come back you know there is 'no place like home' I heard that on the Wizard of oz once :thumbs2:

I was meant to be going last year but found it clashed with other stuff so couldn't, but got double the amount we paid for the tickets on ebay :shocked::bigsmile:

I'm definitely going to go though one day, maybe NZ whilst I'm at it :tongue:

On topic- I'm well happy with my life atm :bouncy: Couldn't be better!

I'm not sure I can 'beat' the bully/bullies.
It's not just inperticular bullying.
They do it to a lot of other people also.
Thank's for your support anyway :hug:

Aww Yuir Wwelcome x

Your welcome.I dont mean physically beat them but dony worry, you have lots of support.

I'm not particularly happy with my life at the moment, haven't really been since I left school actually.

Things were all going along fine when I was 6th form, got along well with everybody in my classes and the courses weren't too stressful and I had more free-time on my hands just have a laugh, then about a month before my last exams my mum went and had a horrific accident and that's pretty much changed everything since.I had to obviously take time off school as my mum was in hospital and there were times I wasn't sure she was even go to live.By the time I got back to school there was one last piece of coursework that had to be completed in a few days and I was only half way through it and exams to revise for on top of it, managed to get decent grades in the end though.

Once I left school, I became my mum's carer as she had trouble doing a whole load of things after the accident, it's been over a year and half since the accident and she still cannot go out alone and probably never will be but there's not a great deal else I can do for her now, so it's time I started moving on with my life.

I've lost touch with most of my friends now, still see a couple of them but most are busy enough doing their own thing.

I've been learning to drive in the meantime as I didn't want to have to rely on buses when working and after a long days work, you don't really want to be going out on driving lessons.I failed my test yesterday, which I'm pretty gutted about.I'm pretty low on confidence now and just don't know what career path to take now.

Aww x

Can you tell us the accident?

Or dont you want to x

No. There are a lot of things I still feel I need to resolve to be happy but I'm optimistic it will work out in the end...

its not bad considering other people's problems

yes i am :flower:
lovez it

Theres one huge issue I'm yet to resolve. So far in my life I've managed everything myself and overcome challenges... but some challenges are harder to overcome.

Like Dan, I am my mums 'carer' - though Uni has ensured that my dad now solely has that role and I only get it occasionally.
My mums condition has got gradually worse and a bond that was once strong has been weakened despite the fact we both need each other most at this stage. I... suppose I will lose her soon, and I don't want it to end like this. I'm not happy with it but I'm trying my hardest and its not enough. I don't know why its not enough, but it's just not.
I guess I'm spoiled in experiences... I'm not used to losing a battle but right now I'm losing the one battle I really want to win and I can't win.

Gah. This thread has made me think about things I don't want to.

Other than that one thing I am very happy.

Hah,no this was after tickets(which btw are 45 pounds face value although I paid more),flights and accomadation. I didn't pay for any of that though,my parents did.

The money I saved was for merchandise and everything else.
I need more money next time though cos I have big plans! Oooh and no Rob is never coming back,they said so recently.

Awww for babies. :lovedup:

The stuff I've read in this thread makes my problems look like bliss. I'm always one for making mountains out of molehills...