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Conzors 16-02-2009 08:51 PM

I think my sister is a lesbian...
 
...I reallly do!

She keeps on going on about how much she likes this girl, and she acts all manly at cetain times.

Shes 11, and is quit big for her age, and is muscly and stuff.

I really think she is. LOL.

How can i ask her if she is one, without actually asking her?

Thanks
xx

Damaris 16-02-2009 08:52 PM

Lmao.

Well i think you should leave it until shes a bit older.

Sam! 16-02-2009 08:52 PM

"Are you a dyke?"

??? :thumbs: jokkes people

andyman 16-02-2009 08:52 PM

Lol :laugh3:

Wildcat! 16-02-2009 08:53 PM

Damn!!!! Poor parents!:conf2:

Lauren 16-02-2009 08:53 PM

Well don't ask her. It's worrying you're interested in your sisters sexuality anyway.

And I'm pretty sure her being big or muscly has nothing to do with a desire for muffs.

Firewire 16-02-2009 08:53 PM

lmao at this thread.

Sorry that I find it funny. It was just pretty random and unexpected.

Ninastar 16-02-2009 08:54 PM

ohhhhh this sound toughh....


maybe next time if she talks about this girl say in a really jokeish way ohhhh do you fancy herr or somethingg?

Hmm let me thnk of something elsee lol . x

Christina 16-02-2009 08:55 PM

Maybe she only likes the girl in a friendly way.. at that age would she really know what a lesbian is??

Novo 16-02-2009 08:55 PM

My sister is 21 and i get the same feeling but she's not butch she's quite the opposite Blonde and dumb

Tom 16-02-2009 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lauren
Well don't ask her. It's worrying you're interested in your sisters sexuality anyway.

And I'm pretty sure her being big or muscly has nothing to do with a desire for muffs.
Only you could make quite a serious point and still make me :laugh3:

Firewire 16-02-2009 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Christina
Maybe she only likes the girl in a friendly way.. at that age would she really know what a lesbian is??
lmao

Loukas 16-02-2009 08:58 PM

TBH. Conor.. She's 11. She might not even know what she is.. Give her time. Give her time to grow up and live life.. Wait until she hits year 7 and see how she acts then :)

Christina 16-02-2009 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Firewire
Quote:

Originally posted by Christina
Maybe she only likes the girl in a friendly way.. at that age would she really know what a lesbian is??
lmao
Its true!! If my cousin hadnt of been so dumb and started telling me stuff like that i woulnt of known lool.. 11 is a bit young?

Kornetto 16-02-2009 09:00 PM

She probably just really like her as a friend. :P

Sam! 16-02-2009 09:03 PM

Personally if you think shes a lesbian.. by describing her as big and muscley then quite frankly she probably has known for a few years now your gay. But whatever.

Twilight 16-02-2009 09:09 PM

I think shes a bit to young course I'm 13 and i don't even know yet

KKBL 16-02-2009 09:10 PM

is it actually possible for an 11 year girl to be a lesbian?
& Scampi why is there a picture of Hitler in your avatar?

Glenn. 16-02-2009 09:16 PM

You think you got problems? I think my mum is a lesbian:conf:

Novo 16-02-2009 09:16 PM

http://i278.photobucket.com/albums/k...rife/romeo.jpg

darien ( get to know me hit me up!) has the answers

serensilver 16-02-2009 09:16 PM

has she ever had a proper best friend? :flower:maybe thats why she likes this girl so much because they really get on well! she's a bit young i think tobe worring about that just yet! :wink:

Lauren 16-02-2009 09:17 PM

HAHA That Darien dude looks about 8. Bless.

Novo 16-02-2009 09:19 PM

He's seen it all

Locke. 16-02-2009 09:22 PM

Quote:

Source:
Life. (I'm serious dude shes gay)
:joker::joker::joker::joker::joker::joker::joker:: joker:

Tom 16-02-2009 09:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by KKBL
is it actually possible for an 11 year girl to be a lesbian?
Depends whether you support the nature or nurture debate ...

Ross 16-02-2009 09:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lauren
Well don't ask her. It's worrying you're interested in your sisters sexuality anyway.

And I'm pretty sure her being big or muscly has nothing to do with a desire for muffs.
Oh Lauren I've missed you. :cheer2:

Magic 16-02-2009 09:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sam!
Personally if you think shes a lesbian.. by describing her as big and muscley then quite frankly she probably has known for a few years now your gay. But whatever.
Agreed.
Looks have nothing to do with it you fool, how ****ing sterotypical
Just if she has muscles... she is a lemon? :rolleyes:

Novo 16-02-2009 09:34 PM

A lemon :joker:

Magic 16-02-2009 09:35 PM

hahaha lol thats one of the words we use here

Jen 16-02-2009 09:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lauren
Well don't ask her. It's worrying you're interested in your sisters sexuality anyway.

And I'm pretty sure her being big or muscly has nothing to do with a desire for muffs.
I love you.
For the sake of being PC; in a non lesbian I want you way.

Lauren 16-02-2009 09:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JDIZZEL
Quote:

Originally posted by Lauren
Well don't ask her. It's worrying you're interested in your sisters sexuality anyway.

And I'm pretty sure her being big or muscly has nothing to do with a desire for muffs.
I love you.
For the sake of being PC; in a non lesbian I want you way.

:love:

I'm glad it's not in that way, though. I mean I much prefer the BIG MUSCLY 11 YEAR OLDS.

Conzors 16-02-2009 09:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Samuel
Quote:

Originally posted by Sam!
Personally if you think shes a lesbian.. by describing her as big and muscley then quite frankly she probably has known for a few years now your gay. But whatever.
Agreed.
Looks have nothing to do with it you fool, how ****ing sterotypical
Just if she has muscles... she is a lemon? :rolleyes:
How is it beig stereotypical!.

I was just saying.

Im camp. And you assume im gay.
Thas stereotypical sam.

So dont go there!

*breathes*
LOL
x

Magic 16-02-2009 09:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Conzors
Quote:

Originally posted by Samuel
Quote:

Originally posted by Sam!
Personally if you think shes a lesbian.. by describing her as big and muscley then quite frankly she probably has known for a few years now your gay. But whatever.
Agreed.
Looks have nothing to do with it you fool, how ****ing sterotypical
Just if she has muscles... she is a lemon? :rolleyes:
How is it beig stereotypical!.

I was just saying.

Im camp. And you assume Im gay.
Thas stereotypical sam.

So dont go there!

*breathes*
LOL
x
Um no, you have said your gay LOL! I'm not stereotyping!

And its being stereotypical because your saying because she is close to a girl and is muscly, she is a lesbian!

Z 16-02-2009 09:57 PM

Asking her's not going to help Conzors, if she is, she probably won't tell you for a few years yet anyway. Let her figure things out for herself :spin2:

Matt08 16-02-2009 10:02 PM

I think a good explanation for her build may be her age, she's probably going through that time of her life and some people have 'puppy fat' which makes them have a big build.

Plus what build you are doesn't determine what sexuality you are. I think you are probably looking too far into things and coming to false conclusions.

MrGaryy 17-02-2009 12:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Firewire
Quote:

Originally posted by Christina
Maybe she only likes the girl in a friendly way.. at that age would she really know what a lesbian is??
lmao
I fail to see the hilarity.

Anyway, asking her those sort of questions at that age would only push her further into the closet in years to come.

Tom4784 17-02-2009 01:26 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Damn!!!! Poor parents!:conf2:
Say what?

On the topic at hand. I agree with everyone else.

Annie 17-02-2009 07:30 AM

Mmmm extremely doubt she is a lesbian at 11.

Even if she is... who cares?

But dont ask her or that cos you will just embarrass her and she probably is just happy to have a close female friend. God if you heard me go on about my best girl friend (not being a girlfriend but you know) then you would probably say I am a lesbian too and lets be honest. I aint.

xDramatick 17-02-2009 07:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lauren
Well don't ask her. It's worrying you're interested in your sisters sexuality anyway.

And I'm pretty sure her being big or muscly has nothing to do with a desire for muffs.
LMFAO.
Lauren :love:

On topic - Don't bother asking her.
She's 11, give her a few years :\
The whole 'I love her' thing could be trying to imitate the older girls, how they always say ily to each other and stuff. Hell, I tell my friends [male&female] I love them and that doesn't make me a cheater, nor straight. haha.

Red Moon 17-02-2009 09:36 AM

Does it really matter if she is or not, and other than being nosy isn't any of your business?

If she is a lesbian she will tell you when she has worked it and wants to tell you. It's no good forcing the issue and invading her privacy when she might not even know herself.

So my advice is to just wait and see what happens and let her do things in her own time.


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