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InOne 15-03-2010 03:29 PM

Life does not let you down, people do...
 
True eh

setanta 15-03-2010 03:31 PM

I'd argue that you let yourself down really. The only thing you have any control over in this life is your own thoughts and actions.

Niamh. 15-03-2010 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by setanta (Post 3089278)
I'd argue that you let yourself down really. The only thing you have any control over in this life is your own thoughts and actions.

yes, I absolutely agree. People can treat you badly but you have control over yourself to be able to walk away from those people

InOne 15-03-2010 03:33 PM

Not really, everyone depends on someone to some extent

setanta 15-03-2010 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3089286)
Not really, everyone depends on someone to some extent

Nope, not at all. You are in control of what you think... of you own perceptions regarding life. Nobody else. Once you start thinking that way you lose control.

Beastie 15-03-2010 03:35 PM

I rather be lonely than with people who let me down. That is why I only have a few close friends.

Niamh. 15-03-2010 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3089286)
Not really, everyone depends on someone to some extent

You can not control what other people do but you can control your actions and reactions to what they do. If you blame other people for everything, you will be miserable because that is out of your control.

InOne 15-03-2010 03:38 PM

O.o you guys are crazy lmao

King Gizzard 15-03-2010 03:41 PM

People let you down to an extent but then again it all comes back to you and relying on them

InOne 15-03-2010 03:42 PM

So lets all get rid of emotions!!!!

Niamh. 15-03-2010 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3089312)
O.o you guys are crazy lmao

No, it's the truth, you're going to meet lots of wankers and lots of nice people, that's life. If you want to be happy try to focus on how you handle yourself or react in difficult situations cos your own actions are the only ones you can control.

Beastie 15-03-2010 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3089327)
So lets all get rid of emotions!!!!

No emotions = bitterness.

I think at times I can be bitter. lol

Beastie 15-03-2010 03:45 PM

Err I don't like controlling people. My sister is a control freak! However it is only a good thing if she is organising something but she gets too out of hand. I just ignore it and fade away into the background when she gets nasty.

Crimson Dynamo 15-03-2010 03:48 PM

trust no one.

setanta 15-03-2010 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3089327)
So lets all get rid of emotions!!!!

Not at all. Emotions are good in one way... they indicate problems in our psyche that we need to deal with and I'm telling you, you wont be dealing with them by drinking right now: that's just feeding a vicious cycle of negativity and those negative emotions will only increase rather than dissipate.

InOne 15-03-2010 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by setanta (Post 3089349)
Not at all. Emotions are good in one way... they indicate problems in our psyche that we need to deal with and I'm telling you, you wont be dealing with them by drinking right now: that's just feeding a vicious cycle of negativity and those negative emotions will only increase rather than dissipate.

Well, i'm gone and losing everything lol

setanta 15-03-2010 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3089353)
Well, i'm gone and losing everything lol

I don't really understand what you mean by that? What exactly are you losing Joseph?

Beastie 15-03-2010 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3089353)
Well, i'm gone and losing everything lol

You have me Joe :)

Jack_ 15-03-2010 03:54 PM

Cheer up Joe, we love you :hug:

InOne 15-03-2010 03:54 PM

I.........................am, always good ;)

Kerry 15-03-2010 08:19 PM

Life sucks at times but you have one and need to try and get out of this negative attitude :( Trust me I know what it's like, you know that.... and I know how it can be to dwell in it which is awful but you're not yourself right now and it's worrying

Stacey. 15-03-2010 08:22 PM

yeah, this is totally true :(
never thought about it before really.

MrGaryy 15-03-2010 08:24 PM

I'd say they're one in the same tbh. People letting you down is a part of life, therefore they are one, as well as you letting yourself down by not having the sense to react in the right way to them.

30stone 15-03-2010 08:25 PM

Without let downs, you wouldnt find anything as exciting..
If everything was good with people all the time it would be boring.

People let you down yes. You can let yourself down by not controlling emotions..

GypsyGoth 15-03-2010 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by 30stone (Post 3090533)
Without let downs, you wouldnt find anything as exciting..
If everything was good with people all the time it would be boring.

I agree, it's the bad times that make the good ones shine.


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