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30stone 15-03-2010 11:48 PM

Bro's Before Hoe's
 
Agree or Disagree?

Same for women do you/ would you/ have you put your friends before boyfriend?

King Gizzard 15-03-2010 11:49 PM

agree whole heartedly

your ****ed if you choose your gf before your mates then you get dumped.

Princess 15-03-2010 11:51 PM

Well I havn't got a boyfriend but I'd argee with this. Friends are most important,if the guy isn't serious and going out with them hurts your friends in some way than forget it.

Jords 15-03-2010 11:53 PM

Agree, but would try to have my time equally shared between my friends and my gf.

MrGaryy 15-03-2010 11:54 PM

ONE HUNDRED PERCENT.

There will be hundreds of guys or girls out there for you, but good friends are once in a life time things, you gotta keep them close.

30stone 15-03-2010 11:56 PM

I dont agree or disagree.

The way i see it, you cant **** your friends about most likely they have been there through a lot with you...

But in the same way, you could spend your life/ start a family with that girl, so she deserves the attention more.


You need to find good balance between them.
But depending on the relationship your girlfriend becomes as important if not more, especially if you get to a point where your getting married or having children.


The best is if your girlfriend and your friends get on :)

30stone 16-03-2010 12:25 AM

Killed my own thread lol.

Beastie 16-03-2010 12:34 AM

Depends who I made plans with first.

GypsyGoth 16-03-2010 01:06 AM

I think when the person you're with sexually, is kinda your bestfriend. Then it doesn't become an either or situation.

Amanda. 16-03-2010 01:18 AM

Chicks before Dicks.

GypsyGoth 16-03-2010 01:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amanda. (Post 3091539)
Chicks before Dicks.

:laugh: I'd agree with that.

Captain.Remy 16-03-2010 04:29 AM

We made a pact with my friends saying that we will never argue over a girl. And it never happened in 6 years we've known each other. I love spending nights with my girlfriend, but sometimes I need to see my bros on my own because I don't want to lose that friendship. Same thing for her aswell, she has friends too. We often do parties all together.

WOMBAI 16-03-2010 06:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amanda. (Post 3091539)
Chicks before Dicks.

:thumbs::hugesmile:

WOMBAI 16-03-2010 06:57 AM

Too many young girls make the mistake of stopping going out with their friends when they are seeing someone. Why do they do that? It is not a good idea and very short-sighted. We always need friends, relationship or not. If you dump them for a guy - they probably won't want to know you when that relationship ends!

dirtyvileHARRYuk 16-03-2010 07:23 AM

wombai < now the joe is going to say something that is not in my normal rap manner lol

nothing in my life comes before you lol and that weill never change.

pinkmichk 16-03-2010 07:31 AM

friends are one of the most important things in my life even if it were serious i wouldnt choose a partner over them i had the choice taken away from in 1 relationship due to nature of relationship and it lost me a couple of amazing friends so i would never willingly do it of my own doing

teamandre 16-03-2010 09:31 AM

im a girl but your friends come frist then your man unless you bin with him a long time

Niamh. 16-03-2010 09:48 AM

Bro's before Hoe's is all well and good when you're a teenager but my husband comes before all my friends.

Dr.Gonzo 16-03-2010 09:49 AM

I'm not much of a believer in this kind of black and white way of thinking. If you're in a realationship you should compromise and be stable enough to accept that your respective other has a life away from said relationship. However, friends are friends for a reason, and they should be able to understand that you cannot always drop everything because they've had an urge to do something. In emergency situations, both friends and lovers should be understanding if you're needed somewhere else... and if this doesn't happen then you should consider the friendship/relationship not as good as you may have before.

It's about balance, understanding, and compromise. It isn't about silly catchphrases like 'Bro's before Hoe's'.

30stone 16-03-2010 10:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr.Gonzo (Post 3092215)
It's about balance, understanding, and compromise. It isn't about silly catchphrases like 'Bro's before Hoe's'.

That is right.
If you have to have either or something is wrong.
You need to be able to see your friends as well as see your girlfriend.

xDramatick 16-03-2010 10:14 AM

I'd refuse to choose because both fulfill a different part of my life.

30stone 16-03-2010 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamhxo (Post 3092214)
Bro's before Hoe's is all well and good when you're a teenager but my husband comes before all my friends.

Agreed you have children with your husband right? which makes the bond even stronger, and your husband and your children come first over anyone.

Niamh. 16-03-2010 10:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 30stone (Post 3092242)
Agreed you have children with your husband right? which makes the bond even stronger, and your husband and your children come first over anyone.

Yes I do and both my husband and children have to take priority.

30stone 16-03-2010 10:21 AM

For sure.

Its how my mum looked at it.

Once she had children, her parents came after her children the way she saw it.

Crimson Dynamo 16-03-2010 10:27 AM

family first

friends later


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