Isn't befriending someone you despise a classic trait of bullies and abusers?
 

Shabby that dirty stinking squatting tramp pretending to be friends with Ben and luring him with compliments....

I felt sorry for the poor geezer not picking up on her evil plan...

It was a task....???

I'd say the opposite was true. Befriending someone you dislike is more the work like controlled psychopath.

so shes mental yeah?

No, but she knew what she was doing during that task and - in a classic psychopath way - she gritted her teeth and went through with it just to get the prize. The end justifies the means. LOL

but it was hurtful to see ben not realise her sick mind games

Shabby is no psycho. Her methods of manipulation are far too amateur. I've met plenty of people like her. Just an attention-seeker... she's still seems like a bully though.

I like to befriend my enemies then wiggle feathers under their noses when they least expect it. I guess I am a Bully. Shame I'm not good at darts really.

Totally. To clear things up, I'm not saying she's a psychopath I'm saying that like many psychopaths she's a great liar.

I read your thread title again and you included abusers as well as bullies. Her behavior was indicative of an abuser but not of a bully. She knew what she was doing in manipulating Ben in order to win the prize. And while doing so she had no idea what the prize was going to be, but she did it anyway.

i was worried when cameltoe rejected her advances...she got angry again.

Shabby is not a Psychopath. Sadly, we don't have any in at the moment :( We need another Bea!

To answer the "befriending your enemies" question. Isn't that just an elementary Machiavellian skill that comes part and parcel with playing the game in BB?

Ok, the girl is an absolute eejit but come on, it was a task right?

Poor Ben :(

oh well that clears everything up then....:joker:
thanks for that...

No he's rich, that's why he talks posh, innit.

lucy i love that girl in your profile pic

Please tell me the 'innit' wasn't an attempt to be posh, if so I pray for your sanity.

Beyonce ftw. :hugesmile:

Toothpick says he never watches BB when they show Shabby..

That must be why he's so confused :conf::conf::conf:

:hugesmile:

Hoorah!

im in the bathroom vomiting when she comes on the screen

looks like a dirty version of beyonce

Nail on the head. She's not a psycho but - like many psychos - she is a great liar and willing to manipulate people to get what she wants. Like so many classic Shakespearean villains.

What do you want me to say? You were going on a limb by making a thread like this in first place. Get a clue.