Were you planned?
 

I found out today that I was an accident. I feel really strange now. It's as if I shouldn't be here. I was also told that when my mum was 18 she had an abortion. which is also strange. Is it weird that I feel kind of guilty?

i was conceived on april fools day
''got a condom on?''
''yeah''
*finish*
''APRIL FOOLS''
:bawling:

My mum got pregnant with me 3 months after she had my brother so I presume I was but she insists I wasn't.

You mum insists you were planned?
pmsl

Were you planned?
 

Very definitely NOT ..... and I was put up for adoption straight after my birth ..... :bawling:

That's kind of sad! Do you know why you were put up for adoption though?

Naaah, my mum was told she couldnt have kids but BAM Im here and so is my brother.

Apparently she releases an egg once every 4 years lmao.

You're not alone! It wasn't till I was 19 and applying for my first passport that I discovered my parents were married only 6 months before I was born! My mum was a roman catholic and I guess the family must have put pressure on them to get married - it just wasn't done in those days to have illegitimate children so, yes, I felt a bit guilty particularly as theirs wasn't a particularly happy marriage. Mind you, they went on to have three more kids!

I'm kind of the same. Im the reason they got married and I dont know if they are in a happy marriage or not, but they had my two sisters. I think my youngest sister was an accident too though

Yeah...they tried five years for me. I could be 20 by now.

Nope, My Mother was going to adopt twins then she found out she was having me..... I feel sorry for the twins though....she reckoned they got split up...

Yeah :')

Dont feel guilty, you know your mum loves you and wouldnt have things any other way. Whats not to love?

haha thanks, but I feel guilty that I was born and the other child wasn't. but saying this, I wouldn't be here if that hadn't happened.

Man up ^

Don't see how that can happen, seeing as I'm not a man...

Yeah they tried for 13 years for me.

I was planned but my sister wasn't.

I don't know, never really thought about it actually

I wasn't, I came 10 years after the next older Brother to me, my Mum thought I was indigestion at first. I think they are glad they had me now though.

+1

I don't think I was planned. D:

Yep, I was planned. :)

I think I was.

It doesn't matter if you was planned or not. Well I suppose it does a bit. If you decide to have the baby then obviously your mum and dad love you.. no matter what!

A lot of things can't be planned. Especially for people who really want kids but takes them months or years to conceive!

You were planned to become the next Einstein by the sound of it