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_Seth 27-06-2011 08:01 PM

Why women can be seen a sluts, but men often can't?
 
Why do you think this is (what seems to be) the general attitude?

Girl shags 5 guys in a week - cheap sket. Guy shags 5 girls in a week - legend.


I think it may be because when women have sex, they allow a man to go inside of THEM. The guy is good looking enough to be able to get this kind of permission, so he's seen as like a legend.

It's so hard to explain.

I once heard this explanation:

A lock which is unlocked by any key is ****, but a master key which opens any lock is great.

Niamh. 27-06-2011 08:06 PM

It shouldn't be any different but that attitude that it is, is because, imo, going back to when women were second class citizens and it's flowed over from there, things have gotten alot better for women obviously since then but it's not completely equal still

MeMyselfAndI 27-06-2011 08:07 PM

Because women can get paid

Niamh. 27-06-2011 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeMyselfandI (Post 4335772)
Because women can get paid

news flash : so can men

hannah. 27-06-2011 08:13 PM

I don't think it makes any difference. I'm just as disgusted by men sleeping around as women. it's such a turn off as well

CharlieO 27-06-2011 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by MeMyselfandI (Post 4335772)
Because women can get paid

They are called gigilos/rent boys.

lostalex 27-06-2011 08:16 PM

It's clearly just about stereotypes and prejudice. Just like how at work, a bunch of white guys screwing around at work is just lads being lads, and making the job bearable, but if black guys do it, they're seen as lazy and not having a work ethic.

It's just because of prejudice i think.

There are double standards everywhere you look.

Mac Hiavellian 27-06-2011 08:20 PM

It's the result of a long-running 'dominant' patrical societal belief. Women are either saints or sluts. Men have the power. That's how it's been seen for years and in some cultures it's still the belief.

Just look at how most women are presented in the media. As far back as biblical times Eden was a stupid bitch, in ancient Greek/Egyptian myths the monsters are mostly women (gorgons, mermaids, sirens, sphinxes), in the monarchy it's believed a queen is weak so it's always about their first born sons, and in movies if the main character is a guy then his love interest will only slow the pace of the plot.

The 1990s was very pro-feminism but the 2000s dipped.

_Seth 27-06-2011 08:31 PM

Interesting observations...

arista 27-06-2011 08:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hannah. (Post 4335800)
I don't think it makes any difference. I'm just as disgusted by men sleeping around as women. it's such a turn off as well



Yes Hannah


Keep It Firm.

lostalex 27-06-2011 08:36 PM

I'm not disgusted by anyone sleeping around, men or women. God gave you the parts to use them.

If god put wheels on your feet, i'd expect both men and women to go rollerskating!

Enjoy your body while you can!

Pyramid* 27-06-2011 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phlip (Post 4335757)
Why do you think this is (what seems to be) the general attitude?

Girl shags 5 guys in a week - cheap sket. Guy shags 5 girls in a week - legend.


I think it may be because when women have sex, they allow a man to go inside of THEM. The guy is good looking enough to be able to get this kind of permission, so he's seen as like a legend.

It's so hard to explain.

I once heard this explanation:

A lock which is unlocked by any key is ****, but a master key which opens any lock is great.


coz men cannot handle the fact that the girl has the pussy...and she decides.

:devil:

(JOKE!)

MTVN 27-06-2011 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 4335769)
It shouldn't be any different but that attitude that it is, is because, imo, going back to when women were second class citizens and it's flowed over from there, things have gotten alot better for women obviously since then but it's not completely equal still

This, a few hundred years ago it was prefectly normal really for men to cheat on their wives, or at least it wouldnt have been unusual for them to do so or to visit brothels etc. whereas if a woman did the same she'd have been disgraced. I guess it follows on from there where it was more socially acceptable for men to do as they please while a woman was effectively bound to servitude

Patrick 27-06-2011 10:34 PM

Because Men don't go around acting as if we have high morals and would never shag girls when in a relationship.

We kind of all accept the 'I know I'll probably have about 9 one night stands before my wedding day' thing.

And that's just kind of a fact.

Women however like to go around parading themselves as Gods who would never do anything wrong - when they are 10 times worst than lads.

So they deserve to be called Slags at least men can admit and celebrate the fact we sleep around.

Niamh. 27-06-2011 10:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patrick (Post 4336228)
Because Men don't go around acting as if we have high morals and would never shag girls when in a relationship.

We kind of all accept the 'I know I'll probably have about 9 one night stands before my wedding day' thing.

And that's just kind of a fact.

Women however like to go around parading themselves as Gods who would never do anything wrong - when they are 10 times worst than lads.

So they deserve to be called Slags at least men can admit and celebrate the fact we sleep around.

Men do this? Patrick you're 14 or something how would you know?

InOne 27-06-2011 10:39 PM

I think women want to be wanted more than men. So if they have low self esteem they will sleep around to feel loved or wanted.

Pyramid* 27-06-2011 10:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patrick (Post 4336228)
Because Men don't go around acting as if we have high morals and would never shag girls when in a relationship.

We kind of all accept the 'I know I'll probably have about 9 one night stands before my wedding day' thing.

And that's just kind of a fact.

Women however like to go around parading themselves as Gods who would never do anything wrong - when they are 10 times worst than lads.

So they deserve to be called Slags at least men can admit and celebrate the fact we sleep around.

*cough* Goddesses.

Pfft....some men know nothing!! Some boys know even less.

Patrick 27-06-2011 10:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 4336237)
Men do this? Patrick you're 14 or something how would you know?

A 14 Year Old Dude would know more than a 30 Year Old Chick.

InOne 27-06-2011 10:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patrick (Post 4336257)
A 14 Year Old Dude would know more than a 30 Year Old Chick.

Oh no he didn't :shocked:

Niamh. 27-06-2011 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patrick (Post 4336257)
A 14 Year Old Dude would know more than a 30 Year Old Chick.

I doubt that very much :pat:

Pyramid* 27-06-2011 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patrick (Post 4336257)
A 14 Year Old Dude would know more than a 30 Year Old Chick.

About what precisely?

Patrick 27-06-2011 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4336247)
*cough* Goddesses.

Pfft....some men know nothing!! Some boys know even less.

Who exactly do you think you are?

Patrick 27-06-2011 10:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 4336264)
I doubt that very much :pat:

Honest to God - I get warned last night by some silly Mod about not being able to contribute to 'Serious Debates' on here properly - so I do, and a Mod and some woman who think's she's the next Maggie Thatcher, start putting me down. :bored:

Niamh. 27-06-2011 10:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patrick (Post 4336273)
Honest to God - I get warned last night by some silly Mod about not being able to contribute to 'Serious Debates' on here properly - so I do, and a Mod and some woman who think's she's the next Maggie Thatcher, start putting me down. :bored:

putting you down?, what kind of a reaction were you expecting to a post like that?

Patrick 27-06-2011 10:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by InOne (Post 4336262)
Oh no he didn't :shocked:

:joker::joker::joker:


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