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fruit_cake 14-10-2011 06:13 PM

question for the ladies of the forum
 
would you go out to a night club on your own? what are you opinions on this!

as long as people know where you are, and you make sure you aren't walking home or anything stupid like that, it's ok isn't it? what do people think??

Novo 14-10-2011 06:14 PM

Yeah x

Pyramid* 14-10-2011 06:14 PM

Never in a million years would I go to a nightclub on my own.

Don't mind going to a restaurant on holiday alone - but never ever would I go clubbing alone. (even in my youthful hay day)

Vicky. 14-10-2011 06:15 PM

It depends. If I thought there might be some people I knew there who I knew

I wouldnt, for example, go out to a club alone if I was on a business trip down manchester or something.

InOne 14-10-2011 06:15 PM

Don't do it fruit_cake!!!!!

Locke. 14-10-2011 06:15 PM

The only reason you would go by yourself is if you planned on leaving with someone

Spoiler:

So most the girls on here will say yes

fruit_cake 14-10-2011 06:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by InOne (Post 4651509)
Don't do it fruit_cake!!!!!

lol it has already been done!

fruit_cake 14-10-2011 06:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 4651508)
It depends. If I thought there might be some people I knew there who I knew

I wouldnt, for example, go out to a club alone if I was on a business trip down manchester or something.

outside of town would be pushing it definitely!!

Pyramid* 14-10-2011 06:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 4651508)
It depends. If I thought there might be some people I knew there who I knew

I wouldnt, for example, go out to a club alone if I was on a business trip down manchester or something.

Given by the way it's worded - it sounds as though Fruit_cake means 'go alone' - rather than enter alone to meet with friends who are already there. :conf:

fruit_cake 14-10-2011 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4651500)
Yeah x

lol, Lady Novo :worship:

Maia 14-10-2011 06:18 PM

I wouldn't go to a night club even with a group of friends. They aren't my kind of thing.

fruit_cake 14-10-2011 06:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4651525)
Given by the way it's worded - it sounds as though Fruit_cake means 'go alone' - rather than enter alone to meet with friends who are already there. :conf:

yes, like completely alone..albeit in a place you know well P

Vicky. 14-10-2011 06:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4651525)
Given by the way it's worded - it sounds as though Fruit_cake means 'go alone' - rather than enter alone to meet with friends who are already there. :conf:

I wouldnt be going to meet up with friends though.

I would go out on the offchance of someone I know being there.

I would go out clubbing round newcastle on my own even if I didnt know others were going out as I am familiar with the place and all the clubs...and the bouncers know me too which is always a good thing.

I would not go out somewhere I didnt know.

Pyramid* 14-10-2011 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fruit_cake (Post 4651531)
yes, like completely alone..albeit in a place you know well P


Years ago, I knew someone who used to go up to the local nightclub on here own.

Males regarded her as an easy lay

Females regarded her as a weirdo.

Very sad that she had no friends (at all / or who would go with her?) but I've got to say, I agreed that it was a weird thing to do.

Now I am not at all inferring that towards any females on this forum - but that's how this woman was regarded.

fruit_cake 14-10-2011 06:26 PM

well obviously it's a weird thing to do but if you take a phone and everyone knows where you are it should be ok I'd have thought

Pyramid* 14-10-2011 06:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fruit_cake (Post 4651569)
well obviously it's a weird thing to do but if you take a phone and everyone knows where you are it should be ok I'd have thought

From a being safe pov yes, but I was speaking more how of the 'single woman' out on the tiles herself was regarded by males and females in the situation you asked about.

MTVN 14-10-2011 06:34 PM

I wouldn't think most guys would either really tbh, although one of my friends does it quite regularly thinking he'll pull but he rarely does :laugh:

fruit_cake 14-10-2011 06:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4651575)
From a being safe pov yes, but I was speaking more how of the 'single woman' out on the tiles herself was regarded by males and females in the situation you asked about.

yes interesting thanks pyramid

Josy 14-10-2011 06:40 PM

Nope

Ninastar 14-10-2011 06:56 PM

no I wouldn't

One of my friends has though. He makes friends easily though, so he has nothing to worry about

Tom 14-10-2011 09:28 PM

I'm pretty confident when it comes to new people/pulling in clubs but even I wouldn't go alone (I know I'm not female but still :p)

I don't really see the point in going if you're not with other people

GypsyGoth 14-10-2011 09:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mollie. (Post 4651529)
I wouldn't go to a night club even with a group of friends. They aren't my kind of thing.

Same.

Lee. 15-10-2011 01:58 AM

No I definitely would not... and I don't think its something we should encourage either; I have a hard enough time dealing with people who go to the cinema in their own as I really want to sit beside them, so I certainly don't want to feel obliged to go and dance with some strange lass!

Actually, to those who have done this, or would do it, would you actually go and dance in your own? Or wills you just stand at the nae and watch people? ... oh dear I feel uncomfortable just thinking about it!

Kerry 15-10-2011 02:12 AM

No.

Vicky. 15-10-2011 02:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lee. (Post 4654006)

Actually, to those who have done this, or would do it, would you actually go and dance in your own? Or wills you just stand at the nae and watch people? ... oh dear I feel uncomfortable just thinking about it!

Nah. I would wander round a bit and see if I could see anyone I recognised, have a few drinks...and if I didnt see anyone I knew or anything...probably go home :p


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