The Depressed People Thread
 

I'm so depressed man so I thought i'd make a thread so everyone can be depressed together.:(

I think this already exists under the guise "Lady GaGa Appreciation Thread"

Would it not be better to not focus on it? Like with a depressed people thread....

-drinks bleach-

No because everyone can come on here and describe their **** lives

why iz you depressed though?

Heres a depressing song for you all.

http://youtu.be/LAbSjuhICiI

I know. Wasn't having a go. Just thought it'd be better not dwell.....

Why you so down Tom?

Yes my life is ****e, but I don't want to dwell on it, or complain about it, contradicting myself by posting here :p

Why you down?

Eat some fruit and watch straight to video action movies. Life's quite good.

I just hate everything.
Everyday life is just depressing and I honestly just want to move away from all the past memories I have, I have no money to move away and everything's just ****. I want to be happy again like I used to be a few years back but I just feel trapped.

I think that more than half the people on this website are depressed in one way or another

There is nothing worse than feeling trapped, it just sends you into a state of frustration, you start to lose hope in the world and give up on everything. I know it sounds a bit generic, but you have to focus on the few things in life that keep you going and then work on the many obstacles that are trapping you. Happiness will come again, you just have to go through a bit of crap to make you more appreciative of it when it does arrive. :)

are you gay?

we could hook up and have some sex if that would make you feel better idk just tryna help

Hi :bigsmile:

I dont think you are depressed. I think youre attaching the word to your state of life feeling lacklustre. You only really realise you were depressed when you come out of the spell. I have only been there twice, very short periods though, around 4 weeks and 2-3 weeks. You feel very hopeless, you do not really want to talk about anything revolving around it and feel lonely and that you cant move on with your life unless big changes happen.

Either way focusing on the GOOD points in life get you through depression or this feeling of lacklustre - be it your family (or member of), a friend or friends, work or at least getting paid for doing something useful for people, education, the excitement of your pet when they see you in the morning. People do have bad points, some worse than others but after realising yeah life isnt THAT bad and you DO HAVE good things, you aim to turn these not so great things around. Sometimes it does help to move away but as you said, its not always possible. Take steps.

Now and then I do feel trapped, frustrated with life, disappointed etc. But right now life is pretty damn good... could be better... could be worse.

I suggest making a list of 20 targets you want to achieve this year and aim to fulfil them, post in this thread.

Maybe even bookmark your post so when you do feel stuck, you can easily remember what YOU WANT to do.

Good luck buddy!

Spiffing

Go see a doctor, get some fresh air, eat well, stop drinking alcohol (if that doesnt depress you nothing will), take some exercise.

Try this site, it may help:

http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome

Thank the Goddess someone is capable of giving out some sound advice to someone who obviously just wants to reach out

It doesn't help anyone who is feeling down to simply say "pull yourself together"
Depression is no joke - lets hope those who treat it so lightly don't fall foul of it themselves :nono:

Unfortunately, nobody here is qualified to help you. ( only advise) Your doctor is though . Best wishes

Clinically, yes

january is the most depressing month xmas and new year are over with, everyones skints and fat, the weather is awful and its a long long month. oh and its also my birthday on sun even more depressing another year older!

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Whenever I'm depressed I try and get out and do something, normally jogging or some sort of exercise in my case. Exercise always does the trick for me and clicks me out of that state of mind. It seems to me that a big problem with depression is it makes us a bit apathetic and it makes us not want to do anything about it, like a vicious circle.

I sort of agree with what you said liv, I'm not sure how much 'pull yourself together' helps, but it depends on the person and the timing. I've been through phases in my life where I need to be gently pursuaded and others phases where I needed a good firm slap round the face :shrug:

The reason I got into poetry was because I was very depressed when I was younger. I used to be quite overweight and my family life is probably one of the worst going and one day my teacher could see I was unhappy and said that if I couldn't face talking to anyone about it that writing it down through words may help me, even if I kept the words to myself. We happened to be doing Wilfred Owen at the time so I began writing poetry. It helps me a lot, even if it doesn't solve much, it helps me to gain some kind of release and perspective, and also led me to pursue it as a living along with performance.

I think everyone needs some form of release from monotony and feeling down, be it walking, writing, sports, music or travelling.