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Shaun 29-05-2012 07:48 PM

Would you ever propose publically?
 
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Niamh. 29-05-2012 07:50 PM

well, as a girl I wouldn't be proposing but I wouldn't really like to be proposed to in public no

InOne 29-05-2012 07:51 PM

Always seems really corny for me, unless you're madly in love and were on the verge of doing it anyway. All that pressure, all those eyes watching and waiting :o

MTVN 29-05-2012 07:51 PM

No I'd feel like a right nob

Maia 29-05-2012 07:52 PM

No and I'd certainly hate if someone did to me

Pyramid* 29-05-2012 07:53 PM

As a female: I'd say no - both on proposing - and on being on the receiving end of it.

If the circumstances were right, it can be very sweet, loving etc: but I think it really depends on the two people involved.

The video that was put up the other day was lovely - but not everyone would like being the centre of attention in such a way.

LemonJam 29-05-2012 07:54 PM

Depends on the personality of the person I'm proposing to.

Vicky. 29-05-2012 07:55 PM

No.

I would feel like the person was kinda pressured into saying yes...I cant imagine many say no(even if they want to) when a big deal is made over it and others are there :S

Samuel. 29-05-2012 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LemonJam (Post 5160819)
Depends on the personality of the person I'm proposing to.

Yeah, really would depend on who I was proposing to.

Stu 29-05-2012 07:59 PM

Love tends to make me do insane things so it's a possibility.

Jack_ 29-05-2012 08:01 PM

Hm, it'd depend. But I'd find it worse proposing in front of friends/family than I would in front of a bunch of strangers.

99% of the time the answer would be no though, so that's what I voted.

Niall 29-05-2012 08:04 PM

In a restaurant, but I'd only do it when it was later on in the evening and there are less people around. I'd never propose in front of family/friends or a full restaurant. Far too attention grabbing.

I'd most likely propose at home, or somewhere secluded.

Tom4784 29-05-2012 08:12 PM

No I'd rather do it in a more intimate setting, it would feel like i'm pressurising her by doing it in public.

Niamh. 29-05-2012 08:15 PM

Plus is such a personal moment I'd prefer it to be just the two of us

Ninastar 29-05-2012 08:16 PM

No.

Jords 29-05-2012 08:18 PM

Probably not no :laugh:

Pyramid* 29-05-2012 08:19 PM

What I'm finding really nice about this thread - are the amount of people who are staying away from the 'big razzamatazz public show'' - it's quite heartening that some thing like this are being viewed as 'private' moments.

Ninastar 29-05-2012 08:20 PM

I wouldn't want to be the one who proposes. I'd rather be proposed to.

Samuel. 29-05-2012 08:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 5160863)
What I'm finding really nice about this thread - are the amount of people who are staying away from the 'big razzamatazz public show'' - it's quite heartening that some thing like this are being viewed as 'private' moments.

If the one I was proposing to wanted that though, I'd happily do it.

You're about to ask somebody to commit their life to you, should be much more about what they want than the person proposing wants.

Livia 29-05-2012 08:37 PM

As a female I wouldn't propose. If someone proposed to me in public I would be mortified and would more than likely say no because they'd misjudged me so badly.

Redway 29-05-2012 08:37 PM

No. It all sounds so cliched and ridiculous.

Pyramid* 29-05-2012 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Samuel. (Post 5160873)
If the one I was proposing to wanted that though, I'd happily do it.

You're about to ask somebody to commit their life to you, should be much more about what they want than the person proposing wants.

Mmm...not sure about that... I'd say it was as equally important: not only is a person being asked to commit their life to you, you are also giving them your committment to them.

I hear what you're saying though - but I think it's as important to both persons involved - unless of course the person being proposed to has made it clear that they always wanted the big ''showy proposal'' - if the person asking is as comfy with that - then go for it.

Black Dagger 29-05-2012 08:48 PM

No, could you imagine if he said he didn't want my cock for the rest of his life, I'd die, especially if I went to some form of effort.

Pyramid* 29-05-2012 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Black Dagger (Post 5160909)
No, could you imagine if he said he didn't want my cock for the rest of his life, I'd die, especially if I went to some form of effort.


:joker:

joeysteele 29-05-2012 09:41 PM

I am likely a very long way from even thinking of proposing to anyone,if I ever do.
However, I have seen in others that being in love with someone can lead you to do some things you wouldn't dream of.

I would say I think I would never do so in public but i'd never say never to that,emotions may take over.


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