was BB mean to give Shivon a birthday like that ?
 

Shivon's birthday and self importance 09.07.12

gather round,
this is like British gas,
because Shivon is not in-control,
i think it is time for a prayer at mass.
the evil were spreading,
But LukeA was again reliable,
because from Shivons speech,
LukeA new she could be done for liable.
nearly all the blue team,
were going to convict,
step in LukeA,
who i will never contradict.
you spoke out,
Adam you did protect,
we are seeing more,
but you were still 100% correct.
what was your reward,
could Adam return,
a real friendship was born,
so much respect LukeA did earn.
i hope Adam is right,
LukeA has to win,
and if not Adam or Lauren,
i would take on the chin.
happy Birthday Shivon,
you was not at all humble,
seeing such a self obsessed lady,
will make more enjoyable the crumble.

( do you think BB was correct in the way they handled Shivons birthday ?)

Quite mean, they gave Lydia and Shivs a ****tty birthday, Ashleigh got the best party, food and music. I say do the same for all of them or dont do anything at all, I would feel bad if I was one of them.

luke a, lauren and sara all find the rest of the blue team really intimidating, but they really need to start speaking up.
Adam was excellent in his handling of shiv, however she could have been hypersensitive as it was her birthday.....BB sort of let it pass, just that rubbishy lil cake?

If one housemate has a birthday party then all housemates should have a birthday party.

I Agree^^

BB put well more effort into Ashleigh's.

I think under the circumstances what BB did for Shives was plenty. They were after all on survival rations and in the middle of a task, if they had a party, there would be complaints about them getting extra food. She got a message from home and a cake, Im not sure what else she expected :conf:

Why?? I don't think that would have been in their terms of conditions!!
:conf:

She got the message for her Birthday from outside from the children, she got a cake and oh for goodness sake Ashleigh's birthday song.

It was okay I guess, Lydia was kept waiting until near the end of the day for her treats.
I do agree though, if one housemate gets a party,all should. I can't see any legitimate reason to give one housemate a party over another unless they only did it for landmark birthdays like a 21st. Two have already had parties so no other housemate should be threated differently,they should all have equal status.

[QUOTE=joeysteele;5286635]She got the message for her Birthday from outside from the children, she got a cake and oh for goodness sake Ashleigh's birthday song.

It was okay I guess, Lydia was kept waiting until near the end of the day for her treats.
I do agree though, if one housemate gets a party,all should. I can't see any legitimate reason to give one housemate a party over another unless they only did it for landmark birthdays like a 21st. Two have already had parties so no other housemate should be threated differently,they should all have equal status.[/QUOTE]

Totally disagree, there have no RIGHTs to anything....the parties were all quite diverse at any rate so no precedent has been set..Shievonne and Luke A didnt attend Ashleigh birthhay party, she had no messages from home, or was the singing bday card a message from home, not sure.., Lydia had a phone call from home as well as a party, Shievs birthday fell in the middle of a task, so bad luck as where would they have held it, given the blues and greens couldnt unite? if BB had given her a party, people would have moaned and said theres no point to these santions as they always end up giving them food.... when HMs go into the house there should be no expectation of anything, and as for treating them all the same, how boring would that be... :whistle:

ash was 21...shiv was 34...I mean 29 :)

Id actually forgotton that, so obviously the pushed out the boat for Ashleighs,... Shievs has had so many birthdays they must be all a blur by now...:joker:

yes ashleigh was 21 which is a special birthday, but shiv omg...even in the celebration to winning the task for the secret room she celebrated the fact it was her birthday not the fact that team work won the task and then to luke A while arguing over who to chose for the questions "its my birthday dont upset me now" self obsessed....YES !!!

It was ok and more than she deserved imo - from the moment she opened her eyes she started moaning about it being her birthday and how it was the worst day ever and how bad she felt - reminded me a bit of Lydia going on about what she should get for her birthday but at least Lydia was deluded about her importance which made it funny - no one should think they have a right to something in there. Yes it was Ash's 21st so ok she got a good day but it still had a twist at the end of it. I really can't stand Shievonne at the moment - hope she is up and out this Friday.

[QUOTE=CherieB;5286663]
Crumbs,back off a bit, I actually in reality don't think any housemate should have a party or special treatment, but like anywhere,if you do something for one it shoudl be done for another, age doesn't come into it.

All the blues and greens were made to gather round to hear Ashleigh sing her birthday song to her, so clearly with BB's permission they could unite for a purpose.

As I say, I don't think they should ever get preferential treatment,any of them,or parties for birthdays but equally so, don't do something for one or more but not others.

In any place you go or whatever you do, would you be happy if someone or everyone else got treatment that you didn't, you really wouldn't make a song about that would you not, say for instance you had family in there or a close friend and their birthday was on a day in there, every other housemate had got a message from home or a special treat but your family member or friend was ignored on their birthday, you would say that's right.
I for sure wouldn't.

I agree with you mostly, I was sick of Shievonnes voice at the end of the highlghts last night and her Birthday moaning,as I said above, I don't think any of them should get preferential treatment as to parties for Birthdays except perhaps for a landmark one like a 21st,but even then I don't see the need for all these parties as treats anyway for any occasion other than maybe successes in the tasks.

Yeah I thought it was quite mean considering the birthday treats they gave Ashleigh & Lydia, they should treat all the HM's the same.

I'm not over struck on Shievonne, but look at it from her point of view. They made an effort with Ashleigh's birthday and they made some effort, although not quite as much as Ashleigh's, with Lydia's birthday too. I suppose she felt snubbed and it probably didn't help that they were still doing that turf wars task.

I dislike her, but she deserved a better Birthday than Ashleigh, it was quite cruel :sad:

[QUOTE=joeysteele;5286786]:conf:Back off from what exactly, I was merely giving my opinion! is there a problem? or would you rather that you did all the talking?

shes behaving like a total idiot

Nah, sod her lol.

Its SHIEVONNE

BB cant be expected to mess about moving tasks and twists just because it happens to be planned when one of the chavs happens to have a birthday that day.
If she goes and picks someone in the task that she knows is going to call her out as being the bitch that she is thats her problem.

[QUOTE=CherieB;5286956]:joker:Hey, I was only joking, I was also actually agreeing with you in the main, you replied to my post first remember,I only answered you again because you responded to my post.
A bit unfair to attack like that. Gosh,I'll avoid you in future.